Money up front, or at the end?

[Rebaynia]

Everyone should just do as they are comfortable. Another thing I do at the beginning of any session with a new girl is ask about 1: restrictions so I know not what to do and 2: extras. I find it very irritating when a lady is doing her best to make me orgasm during BBBJ and then suddenly says CIM is extra. Or Im getting close to the V and she says DATY is extra. I want to know all the extras before I start so I can avoid them. I recently had a lady say the orgasming anywhere on her body was extra. I almost left, since I think that is a bit extreme. But I was happy I asked.

A well informed consumer makes the best choices.

tor
PS: this thread seems pretty well beaten

Wouldn't these extras and restrictions conversation happen during booking?

And as I write the question out, realize this is likely an agency thing, otherwise you probably would have covered this ground before even booking the appointment.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Everyone should just do as they are comfortable. Another thing I do at the beginning of any session with a new girl is ask about 1: restrictions so I know not what to do and 2: extras. I find it very irritating when a lady is doing her best to make me orgasm during BBBJ and then suddenly says CIM is extra. Or Im getting close to the V and she says DATY is extra. I want to know all the extras before I start so I can avoid them. I recently had a lady say the orgasming anywhere on her body was extra. I almost left, since I think that is a bit extreme. But I was happy I asked.

A well informed consumer makes the best choices.

tor
PS: this thread seems pretty well beaten

It is getting pretty beaten lol. I get why this is frustrating for clients if they don't know what the extras and restrictions are, I think it's definitely important to talk about it up front or discuss it over text or email

This is refreshing to read!
Too many people enter the hobby thinking they know the acronyms or overlook them.
I usually make sure they know exactly what they are (I have them all decoded on my website) but some don’t read at all.
Sometimes when I take for granted that a client knows … is when I get a surprise finger in my fkn ass while in doggy or CIM.
LIKE JFC. READ / ASK BEFORE. It’s so fkn irritating also.

So again. Happy to see there are people out there crossing their t’s and dotting their i’s.

Shoutout to the gents out there that EVEN IF they know a girl’s restrictions they make sure to ask IRL as well. Respectable!!!! ❤️

Yes clients need to read the ads thoroughly or ask. A lot of the time everything is stated in the ad or it can be discussed beforehand, sometimes clients are used to getting certain services and they think we all offer them. I too have had the surprise finger in my ass lol I've had to slap many hands away. I also applaud guys who ask if they can do something IRL or if they don't remember (which is possible, we're all human) ask if I offer something or not.

Maybe because I read thoroughly the SP information I don't have any surprises. Or maybe the selection has been done upfront when seeing inclusions and exclusions. Hence the only caveat left is either lying on the resume or just pure scamming.

I think some people do lie to get clients which really sucks and is dishonest and hurting a lot of providers because it creates an atmosphere of mistrust and anger from clients.. which can be really exhausting to deal with. I also think sometimes a provider chooses not to offer a specific service to a specific client because of bad hygiene (an example of that is someone with bad breath or sores in his mouths for instance...) and maybe that is the one client who will write a bad review because he's so angry about it.

There are a few solutions for the extra issues.. Honestly if you weren't told something is an extra and it wasn't in the ad, I don't think the provider was being honest anyways. In the case of someone not offering the extra they said they would, maybe just say ''hey I paid you for xyz but we only did xy, can I have the money back for the extra since you didn't offer it?''.. I offer an all inclusive rate because I find extras confusing and tedious, and honestly it seems to annoy a lot of clients. I did it when I worked at a MP because we made most of our money from extras, basic full service was almost nothing.

 

[urquell]

Yes clients need to read the ads thoroughly or ask. A lot of the time everything is stated in the ad or it can be discussed beforehand,

I totally agree..Almost all issues can be smoothed out or eliminated with discussion beforehand, and I'm a huge proponent of this. Even if it's in the ad it's still better to discuss and confirm, since as we all know not everyone's understanding of certain terms is the same. *cough* GFE *cough*