Loss of interest

[envelopes]

I am still taking a break from the hobby due to some SP drama last month, but a booker messaged me about a retired SP (old favorite) who was coming back for a day.

Coincidentally, I was in Burlington for work, so it was an easy drive. didn't want to miss the chance to see her. Drove up 1.5 hours

Got to the incall and right then I get a text from the booker that he mixed up her schedule and she was actually leaving.

I told him I just drove almost 2 fucking hours. I was pretty angry.

Should have just stayed on my hobby break

At least I got some poutine

I drove back home after missing her "back one day only", she ended up working the next 2 days. Talk about frustrating.

Like the original commenter posted in this thread, this scheduling stuff is one of those things that definitely make me lose interest, especially as a visitor.

It's probably less of a problem for locals. What a dream it would be to live locally! Just get a call for a returning provider and be able to see them in 10 minutes.

 

[Jaxan]

What a dream it would be to live locally!

Totally agree! I would be a very happy but poor man… lol

 

[Snuggles]

Guessing your budget is a bit different, also less agencies compared to before and their working hours for sp do not align with your time. Well rated sp are booked very fast.
That or you probably want a wife and settle down. Maybe there can be loving wife experience service. Make you a snack or bring you something to drink and discuss how is work going and look over your budget.... or is that like a mother experience?

 

[Rookie0022]

I recently saw my ATF after a hiatus and damn the interest is back!

 

[envelopes]

I just got to Montreal from Burlington again for a 2pm appointment. I confirmed it this morning. They just cancelled last minute. I'm getting sick of this.

 

[Lexus3]

I just got to Montreal from Burlington again for a 2pm appointment. I confirmed it this morning. They just cancelled last minute. I'm getting sick of this.

WTH, what agency?

 

[Rebaynia]

Maybe there can be loving wife experience service. Make you a snack or bring you something to drink and discuss how is work going and look over your budget.... or is that like a mother experience?

Lol... or just talk with the sp and see if that's the type of person they are. Regulars, especially after years when you get together can have a bit of this feel.
I have 1 person I visit who after, we have coffee time, he gets the cups while I get the sugar, and cream from his fridge, I love the familiarity.

I am a mom at home... Hey sure pay me to be with you, as I am at home. At least in that time I will be getting appreciation for what I am doing and desired. (Kids don't apperciate what you've done for them till they get older, and have to do it for themselves.) Then again it is time paid in a pleasant respectful manner. A visit i would likely enjoy with someone i see regularly.

We don't have traditional relationships, but I tend to have enough of a relationship with those I like to see, that lately I have been refering to them as my little boyfriends who help support me, while my master and I are on a different level. I'm not serving them, as I am the guest in their house, but we talk about their job and mine, we share lives, and we are fond of eachother. I tend to see people I can picture forming bonds with, as it is dificult for me to see people I am uncomfortable around.

 

[CLOUD 500]

you can't compare the addiction of smoking to the addiction to paid sex. At the baseline, sex is a very healthy activity, no amount of smoking is healthy

Too much of anything is bad even paid sex. Addiction to sex can cause financial troubles.

 

[Leovinci]

I emailed a couple well known indie providers and never got an answer, almost started to lost interest (even my libido went down), but then found another. It can be frustrating though.
I've also had that with online hookup attempts, feeling really horny and thinking I might meet someone, only to get given the runaround, people not responding, ghosting, etc. Even when I'm horny, it makes it go down

 

[CLOUD 500]

I emailed a couple well known indie providers and never got an answer, almost started to lost interest (even my libido went down), but then found another. It can be frustrating though.
I've also had that with online hookup attempts, feeling really horny and thinking I might meet someone, only to get given the runaround, people not responding, ghosting, etc. Even when I'm horny, it makes it go down

Why not try with agencies? Indys are too fussy post-covid, you got to jump hoops to book one.

 

[Leovinci]

Why not try with agencies? Indys are too fussy post-covid, you got to jump hoops to book one.

I always had the impression that agency girls are more vanilla and restrictive in what they offer. I'm a kinky dude with lots of fetishes, and indy's seem more geared to cater to that

 

[CLOUD 500]

I always had the impression that agency girls are more vanilla and restrictive in what they offer. I'm a kinky dude with lots of fetishes, and indy's seem more geared to cater to that

Not necessarily true. Read the reviews there are some kinky agency girls. I guess best to ask the booker what you are seeking and they can direct you to the best girl for what you are seeking. My two cents.

 

[Enjoying life]

Many married men would love to have the-freedom to do this but they are stuck and miserable with sex maybe once a month and some even no BJS !

My best times came from SPS as they go the extra mile as I love getting into play when there is no feelings it just raises my endorphins! Just the way it works!

 

[Rebaynia]

I emailed a couple well known indie providers and never got an answer, almost started to lost interest (even my libido went down), but then found another. It can be frustrating though.
I've also had that with online hookup attempts, feeling really horny and thinking I might meet someone, only to get given the runaround, people not responding, ghosting, etc. Even when I'm horny, it makes it go down

Best time to reach out, may not be when you are horney then. It is possible when the little head is active, and not thinking with the big head, your approach is turning them away, rather then having them willing to accept.

I don't know your personal situation, but I know a lot of people who reach out to me, get denied primarily in their approach and how they message. If I don't like their introduction and often lack of cominication in messages, I will purposely avoid them and avoid getting to the point of booking. We pick and choose who we see. Just because someone reached out to say hi, does not guarantee a visit will be arranged.

 

[Leovinci]

Best time to reach out, may not be when you are horney then. It is possible when the little head is active, and not thinking with the big head, your approach is turning them away, rather then having them willing to accept.

I don't know your personal situation, but I know a lot of people who reach out to me, get denied primarily in their approach and how they message. If I don't like their introduction and often lack of cominication in messages, I will purposely avoid them and avoid getting to the point of booking. We pick and choose who we see. Just because someone reached out to say hi, does not guarantee a visit will be arranged.

I was pretty polite, simply listed things I was interested in (without getting too intense), and asked if they provided it, maybe they were just swamped, idk. Most of the time I do get replies when I see SP's, but that time was weird

 

[CLOUD 500]

I was pretty polite, simply listed things I was interested in (without getting too intense), and asked if they provided it, maybe they were just swamped, idk. Most of the time I do get replies when I see SP's, but that time was weird

Maybe she was not interested to provide whatever kink you wanted. The girls tend to just not answer then to say No they do not offer it.

 

[Leovinci]

Maybe she was not interested to provide whatever kink you wanted. The girls tend to just not answer then to say No they do not offer it.

Yeah maybe, all good, I've crossed both off my list

 

[Enjoying life]

Not necessarily true. Read the reviews there are some kinky agency girls. I guess best to ask the booker what you are seeking and they can direct you to the best girl for what you are seeking. My two cents.

Shany from luxury does fetish

 

[Alucard87]

It really all depends on what you want from this hobby.
Some are perfectly happy with just the physical release and being with a gorgeous woman they tend not to repeat with anyone or maybe occasionally if the experience is overwhelmingly great and they tend to pick from agencies.

Me personally I see very few I see one in particular 80% of the time another maybe 10% of the time and a few new ones occasionally.
I like the connection and the friendship we have developed they are not only gorgeous but the kindest most thoughtful young ladies you would ever want to meet and 2 of them I have been seeing for over 5 years. I don’t use agencies I prefer independents I like the personal attention and the connection that develops sometimes, yes it is more expensive.

This hobby is not to be confused with a real relationship it does not compare to being with the woman you love the mother of your children and the love of your life.
It fills the void somewhat and if you are lucky enough to find amazing young ladies like I have then the hobby is worth it.

Bingo

 

[Enjoying life]

Bingo

My independent prioritizes me cause we have a good connection! Always easy arrangements! Many sps deal with disrespect full clients they know who is high on their lists and the ones that are not! They want predictable situations not unpleasant surprises!