Of course if you are looking only for sex and not connection it sill get boring fast af. As for the "providers only care about money" talk... I am sorry but we do live in a neoliberalism society, we all need to work and make money to survive. Maybe book a companion that is more advertising the experience you want. I have clients I am dying to see leave my incall, when they are dull and only care about the boobies for exemple. As for others, I develop relatoinship, trust and I am always glad to hear from them. I root for them. We are humans after all, we thrive in connections and sometimes it clicks better with someone.
Paying for companionship is a service. You are paying for not having to entertain someone everyday, expectations are clear about the time frame and activities. Dating can suck ass honestly, you need to have the patience. I feel a good comparison is that you could 100% cook yourself dinner, take cooking lessons even. But sometimes you dont want to think too much about it and just enjoy a good meal made by an expert. Some restaurant are more your vibe than others.