If you could marry any SP, who would it be?

[Wearethenight]

I have been involved with 2 SPs "outside of work". Now that I am out of my involvement. Looking at the situation from 36,000 foot view, even civilian women have tons of issues/baggage, and SPs have even more issues (mental issues and/or drug issues) ! Women who have had too many sexual partners have a hard time in forming a bond with their husband, i.e., the thousand cock stare (see attached pic). Men are different! We can still form a bond with our wives despite the number of sexual partners.

Thanks to Montreal, I have seen close to 200 SPs. After so many years of hobbying, I actually wanted to stop hobbying and settle down and get a wife. Not an easy task! Even civilian women have had too many cocks in their pussies The best bet is women from traditional Middle Eastern cultures. They talk softly and never raise their voice!

If you marry a SP, she may still be "working". Not sure how you feel when your wife comes home from "work" all sore and can't give you any nookie!

This is profoundly sexist. Imagine assuming all sex workers have mental health issues, as a current sex worker, I can assure you that many clients have mental health issues as well, and drug abuse problems

Good luck finding an “honourable”, woman with that attitude I’m sure you will find a wife in no time.I also dare you to say that you paid for sex with over 200 women. I just love the gendered sex stereotyping, F off!

 

[Numerati]

 

[Numerati]

I have been involved with 2 SPs "outside of work". Now that I am out of my involvement. Looking at the situation from 36,000 foot view, even civilian women have tons of issues/baggage, and SPs have even more issues (mental issues and/or drug issues) ! Women who have had too many sexual partners have a hard time in forming a bond with their husband, i.e., the thousand cock stare (see attached pic). Men are different! We can still form a bond with our wives despite the number of sexual partners.

Thanks to Montreal, I have seen close to 200 SPs. After so many years of hobbying, I actually wanted to stop hobbying and settle down and get a wife. Not an easy task! Even civilian women have had too many cocks in their pussies The best bet is women from traditional Middle Eastern cultures. They talk softly and never raise their voice!

If you marry a SP, she may still be "working". Not sure how you feel when your wife comes home from "work" all sore and can't give you any nookie!

Ahhhh that is not really true with guys as well if they banged too many women. They end up in their own twisted ways where they end up angry and bitter because thru either rejection or they banged the wrong girl. Think some pick up artists and manosphere weirdos going alt-right singlehood nutjob Christian God fearing hermit outcast in the end as they get old. LOL. Not only that they are hooked to ADD drugs and steroids and such.

There is a point where you saw enough women and got it out of your system and leave it all behind. When you can differentiate a wife or a hook up then you are ready. If not don't recommend it as you can end up with the wrong girl and ruin your life and then you go on angry bitter mode. A good aspect about this hobby is that you can see all the girls you need and want to let it all go and not lose your soul in the process. When you do finally meet that girl/woman you can be cautious and all but not raising your protective wall too high where you drive her away.

The idea of finding some young untouched girl/woman for something long term is old school male thinking. Doesn't apply anymore in this day and age. Only time this can happen is if cloning your ideal girl is possible lol.

In any case as long as you know that she is someone loyal and disease free that is all that matters.

I know a couple of SPs who were in the hobby for a while and they didn't come out all messed up. They found someone and formed long term healthy relationships and started a family that is still going strong to this day.

 

[envelopes]

I have been involved with 2 SPs "outside of work". Now that I am out of my involvement. Looking at the situation from 36,000 foot view, even civilian women have tons of issues/baggage, and SPs have even more issues (mental issues and/or drug issues) ! Women who have had too many sexual partners have a hard time in forming a bond with their husband, i.e., the thousand cock stare (see attached pic). Men are different! We can still form a bond with our wives despite the number of sexual partners.

Thanks to Montreal, I have seen close to 200 SPs. After so many years of hobbying, I actually wanted to stop hobbying and settle down and get a wife. Not an easy task! Even civilian women have had too many cocks in their pussies The best bet is women from traditional Middle Eastern cultures. They talk softly and never raise their voice!

If you marry a SP, she may still be "working". Not sure how you feel when your wife comes home from "work" all sore and can't give you any nookie!

I am proof that you're wrong. I can't form a bond and I don't want to. I want to keep fucking!

 

[JoeYukihara]

Emmystclaire from Vancouver

 

[malboro_man]

This is profoundly sexist. Imagine assuming all sex workers have mental health issues, as a current sex worker, I can assure you that many clients have mental health issues as well, and drug abuse problems

Good luck finding an “honourable”, woman with that attitude I’m sure you will find a wife in no time.I also dare you to say that you paid for sex with over 200 women. I just love the gendered sex stereotyping, F off!

I probably touched a nerve LOL I am going to get in trouble starting a flame war with you. Let me know which agency you are working for. I'll book you and we'll have a debate

 

[malboro_man]

Ahhhh that is not really true with guys as well if they banged too many women. They end up in their own twisted ways where they end up angry and bitter because thru either rejection or they banged the wrong girl. Think some pick up artists and manosphere weirdos going alt-right singlehood nutjob Christian God fearing hermit outcast in the end as they get old. LOL. Not only that they are hooked to ADD drugs and steroids and such.

There is a point where you saw enough women and got it out of your system and leave it all behind. When you can differentiate a wife or a hook up then you are ready. If not don't recommend it as you can end up with the wrong girl and ruin your life and then you go on angry bitter mode. A good aspect about this hobby is that you can see all the girls you need and want to let it all go and not lose your soul in the process. When you do finally meet that girl/woman you can be cautious and all but not raising your protective wall too high where you drive her away.

The idea of finding some young untouched girl/woman for something long term is old school male thinking. Doesn't apply anymore in this day and age. Only time this can happen is if cloning your ideal girl is possible lol.

In any case as long as you know that she is someone loyal and disease free that is all that matters.

I know a couple of SPs who were in the hobby for a while and they didn't come out all messed up. They found someone and formed long term healthy relationships and started a family that is still going strong to this day.

I guess there is always exception to the rule on both sides. If you talk about the pick up community, you are right. 18-21 y.o. girls are long time fantasy. Finding an untouched girl is another. Years ago, I had a chance to deflower an 18 y.o. virgin. Her dad is a North African Muslim and mom is Italian from a traditional Italian family. Both are very strict with her although she is neither Muslim Inor Catholic. I did DATY with her and rubbing Mr. Happy on her Miss Happy -no penetration though In the end, I didn't take her virginity. 1) I don't see a long term relationship with her. 2) She'll be very sad that I won't see her again once I take her virginity.

I may not find what I am looking for but that's ok.

 

[malboro_man]

if you had a good few months or even years in those relationships you described, remember the good times, be appreciative, and move on. That is what she has done. Nothing lasts forever now. If you got out of it without a monthly check to write after the relationship ended, be extra glad.

You have an excellent. Maybe I am not realistic but it's a fantasy. Everyone has their own fantasy. This is one besides 18-21 y.o. babes.

 

[jmioffe]

I guess there is always exception to the rule on both sides. If you talk about the pick up community, you are right. 18-21 y.o. girls are long time fantasy. Finding an untouched girl is another. Years ago, I had a chance to deflower an 18 y.o. virgin. Her dad is a North African Muslim and mom is Italian from a traditional Italian family. Both are very strict with her although she is neither Muslim Inor Catholic. I did DATY with her and rubbing Mr. Happy on her Miss Happy -no penetration though In the end, I didn't take her virginity. 1) I don't see a long term relationship with her. 2) She'll be very sad that I won't see her again once I take her virginity.

I may not find what I am looking for but that's ok.

lol, one of merb's favorite SP's "dad is a North African Muslim and mom is Italian"! Were you her introduction into this life?

 

[analu2]

Clara Chambertin…

Cant seem to find any review about her. Can you share your experience thru pm?

 

[cloudsurf]

Cant seem to find any review about her. Can you share your experience thru pm?

Clara is quite active on twitter

 

[Skym]

I wouldn't mind marrying Chloe from Adagio.

She's a cutie!

 

[Jordd]

None of them. Why? An SP is just a fantasy. She is an embodiment of the honeymoon phase with a girl with above average looks. You take that away and you end up with reality. A real pain in the ass with the potential to waste your time and resources and rip out your soul in the process. An SP is a great and safe one night or five night stand but wanting more than that you are tap dancing on a minefield. So no I don't want to marry anyone of them. LOL.

I have said this a few times in here before and I will more than willing to repeat this again. Say an SP her name is Angela and her real name is Ingrid. Since you met her you have always been dealing Angela. If you marry her you will be dealing with Ingrid. You don't want Ingrid.

No no, I don’t want Ingrid!

 

[Jordd]

This is a weird question!!! No need to marry to live with someone or just plainly have sex.
"Going on vacation for 1 month with" would be a better option. If you get married, specially with an SP, you will probably get to divorce and go through a lot of hassles.

Would probably get over the idea of marrying her after vacationing together for 1 month. And if not, I guess you would all live happily ever after!

 

[Numerati]

Would probably get over the idea of marrying her after vacationing together for 1 month. And if not, I guess you would all live happily ever after!

There was a very active Merb member here who took an SP for a month long trip to Vietnam. This was a few years ago.

What a "mess" that was. A whole damn month. In another country. LOL.

 

[Mandouke]

I got involved in the hobby to avoid any type of long-term relationship, including marriage with a woman. I came to a conclusion after seeing so many of my male friends and their failed relationships that it would be much better for me this way economically, socially and mentally.

Moreover, if one looks at the animal kingdom of which human beings are a part, humans are the only species that have long-term committed relationships such as marriage. To the best of my knowledge, I have yet to see a committed relationship between any other animals, let alone a marriage.

I have thought about this aspect long and hard(no pun intended) and have come to the conclusion that the relationship and marriage for that matter is a human and social construct centred around the family. I would note that the family is in a state of perpetual redefinition in most western democracies as we speak.

Therefore I would marry no SP but would kindly thank them all for the services that they provide. It has liberated me as a male from the bondage of this social construct and given me the freedom and monetary ability to engage in the hobby.

Thank you, Ladies!

 

[Like_It_Hot]

I wouldn't mind marrying Chloe from Adagio.

She's a cutie!

That is such a good reason to be involved in a wedding!!! Why didn't I think about it.

 

[Like_It_Hot]

Moreover, if one looks at the animal kingdom of which human beings are a part, humans are the only species that have long-term committed relationships such as marriage. To the best of my knowledge, I have yet to see a committed relationship between any other animals, let alone a marriage.

Most birds form monogamous couples, and bonded pairs often stick together for life. Little is known about how they form these long-term partnerships, but we know that some birds are already paired up when they arrive at breeding grounds.

This being said, we are humans, not birds.

Birds have childhood sweethearts that they stay with as adults

Whooping cranes form long-term monogamous relationships, and over half of couples first get together before they are both sexually mature

www.newscientist.com

 

[Fradi]

I got involved in the hobby to avoid any type of long-term relationship, including marriage with a woman. I came to a conclusion after seeing so many of my male friends and their failed relationships that it would be much better for me this way economically, socially and mentally.

That is one side of the story.
The other is when you find the right woman she can be the best thing that ever happened in your life..
There is absolutely nothing that can compare to being with the woman of your dreams, raising a family, having grandchildren and a life time of incredible memories that no one can ever take from you.
No amount of SP, paid for sex orgies will ever compare to that.

Now back to marrying an SP if I had another shot at youth again I would give it a try with Gabrielle Garnier, maybe a lot more difficult with an SP and there may be many with all kinds of issues but ultimately they are women and when a woman falls in love with you nothing is impossible.
Unfortunately that is just a fantasy but I had it all in real life and nothing else will ever compare to that and I still have my children and grandchildren for the rest of my life.

 

[parmenides]

Alice the edge queen masseuse. Definitely would be into marrying her