I fully understand venting lol but do it only when there is a reason and I don’t vent to total strangers as they don’t give a fuck anyways.
To me a bad encounter is a complete bait and switch or when you are in danger of being robbed or blackmailed.
The fact that a girl may not like my personality or looks I put it down to life or shit happens and will even consider that I am the problem before complaining.
Luckily I can afford to lose a couple of hundred bucks and for sure I will not be seeing someone again that didn’t work out so I don’t consider it a big deal.
Big deals are things that effect your family or health, anything I can solve by throwing money at it I consider an annoyance and something easily solved.
I was alone in my hotel room and this board was the only place i could do it. Im not gonna put that kinda stuff on my personal FB or call my mother ... lol. Its an escort board, we talked about bad experiences before, its just they didn't happened on the spot. It was my turn to have one. Thats just it really.
I am not easily impressed (good luck to someone that would threat my security ...) and i would refuse an obvious bait and switch on the spot. As for blackmail bah .. in my case there is nothing to blackmail really. So these are not situations that i can see be a big issue. I always prepared myself being turned down by an SP and im not gonna say it would not hurt my feeling but at least i wouldn't lose money. What bothered me in this case was that it had "started" and money was already banked.
As for the money aspect well thats the difference between you and me. 300$ for me is money i saved for a meeting for a while. Nowadays i try to wait til i have enough for 2 so i can make 1 trip and save on transport and hotel etc but you get the picture. Obviously health is the most important part, but money is a big thing for me indeed.