Call it a grassroots Merbite Hobbying Golden Rules list! By Merbites, for ALL!
These are the rules the Merbite brotherhood want all newbies to live by because this isn`t the dark ages and no one needs to spend on a session with Bait&Switch lady, Ultra High Maintenance Hottie, or something that crawled out of a gutter.
I can try to update this amalgamated list so it remains comprehensive. Perhaps it becomes a sticky once we get traction + relevant Rules.
1) RESEARCH the Lady + Agency BEFORE BOOKING
3) Get STI TESTING REGULARLY
4) Know your ETIQUETTE FOR HOBBYISTS
5) ASK about a LADY`S RESTRICTIONS/RULES
6) Your Mileage May Vary (YMMV) NEVER FORGET Ricky bonds
ADVICE FROM VETERAN MERBITES
VETERAN MERBITES I FOLLOW(ED) FOR OUTCALL + HOBBYING INFO
LEGITIMATE AGENCIES WITH MULTIPLE AGENCIES (updated Oct 19, 2012)
ABOUT MY VALLEY-SCALE FOR FACE
10 >> She was a one in a million.
9 >> She was model material.
8 >> She was really hot.
7 >> She was attractive.
6 >> She was nice looking.
5 >> She was plain looking.
4 >> OK, If you are drunk.
3 >> She was fairly homely.
2 >> She was simply ugly.
1 >> I was really scared.
SOMEBODY MADE A GOOD "BODY TYPES" CHART
Click here...
These are the rules the Merbite brotherhood want all newbies to live by because this isn`t the dark ages and no one needs to spend on a session with Bait&Switch lady, Ultra High Maintenance Hottie, or something that crawled out of a gutter.
I can try to update this amalgamated list so it remains comprehensive. Perhaps it becomes a sticky once we get traction + relevant Rules.
1) RESEARCH the Lady + Agency BEFORE BOOKING
- check Bait&Switch listing + Recent Agency Reviews + Ladies (Outcall + Incall)
- run Merb search if you don`t find anything (search using 3 characters require "*" ie. "gia*" OR Google Advanced search specify https://merb.cc as site to be searched)
- still can`t find info, post your Question in Escort 411
- save your research
[*]prioritize + organize future SP sessions
[*]keeps you focused when plans go off course (see "NEVER RUSH into Booking a Back-up Lady" below)
[*]the only way a guy can juggle so much info in their head
3) Get STI TESTING REGULARLY
- depending on frequency of hobbying, you want to get tested regularly to avoid surprises
- avoid a prolonged stay on the Disabled List
- heresay: some health professionals recommend x1-x2 monthly if active
- link to Merb Health resource threads
4) Know your ETIQUETTE FOR HOBBYISTS
- shower before your session... 30mins prior is a good rule of thumb
- dress up like you`re going on a date, don`t look like a slob
- place the gift in a visible spot so there`s no question you`re good for it
- ... many more, read the Sticky
5) ASK about a LADY`S RESTRICTIONS/RULES
- YMMV is always in play so get the rules/restrictions out of the way before starting
- whether her restrictions/activities are posted or not, never hurts to clarify
- helps avoid abrupt stops, prevent negative momentum + mood changes during the session
6) Your Mileage May Vary (YMMV) NEVER FORGET Ricky bonds
- what happens in my bed, wont necessarily happen in yours
- we all come from different walks of life, are different ages, different cultures,colours,and creeds.....
- when you read a review, please understand that the services mentioned...along with the level of passion they are executed with is always going to fall on a client by client basis.
- if you have a bad experience, before jumping the gun and accusing the lady and previous reviewers of bullshitting, how about taking a long deep breath and look at yourself in the mirror...
- ...especially if the back-up lady isn`t on your TDL!
- Reasons your 1st choice suddenly isn`t available: she got her period, drug frenzy, running way late, ended her night early, you`re not her type and she walks out, an agency regular decided to keep her an extended hour, she was never actually scheduled to work that night, etc.
- Nothing worse than letting your little head do the thinking, forcing you to spend on a lady you had not planned to see, ever!
- Stick to your guns, this is not the time to be "nice"... it`s a business transaction so if you didn`t get what you wanted/expected, send her back
- face didn`t match the body
- she suddenly presents with a long restrictions list even though she`s listed as girlfriend experience (GFE)
- her attitude sucks
- don`t wait for 10mins to elapse before declining... the sooner the better!
- read some of the bad sessions some members have had, the lesson learned: be cool, end the session before it gets ugly, call the agency and discuss... potentially negotiate compensation (present/future discount, replacement, etc.)
- don`t air dirt publicly before reflecting and trying to mediate with agency
- if you are about to point fingers publicly, consult a Merb MOD and get advice to avoid doing something you`ll regret down the road
Like any service industry - tipping is a personal choice - see discussion threads below for Pros & Cons- July2010 discussion thread
- March2007 discussion thread
- May2006 discussion thread
- February2006 discussion thread
- August2003 discussion thread
- Never hurts to have supplies on hand just in case the lady is running low or just ran out.
- Perhaps you have a preference for a particular brand of condoms, lube, oils, etc.
- Lingerie - you can always supply these items to a lady if you didn`t ask her to bring them in advance.
- If Merbites have ever helped you avoid a costly lesson, consider paying it forward by registering and posting a review
- ideally your 1st post isn`t a question
- tips from someone who has gone through the learning curve for us
- links to a growing list of video sessions
- Not too early (a lady needs time to prepare for her man`s arrival... we don`t like to be rushed!)
- Not too late (a lady gets pissed off when her man is late!... and usually he just gets a shorter session)
- Unless the agency or lady has a consistent track-record for Pre-booking, expect the unexpected: cancellations due to weather, mood, crimson tide, a more loyal client extending multi-hr thru your timeslot, agency mix-up + forgot, SP had emergency or something personal to attend to last minute, etc.
- You are likely better off booking early on the day of (approx. 10AM when the first schedules are posted on https://merb.cc)
- Some clients will book a Plan B lady whenever they Pre-book a Plan A SP - Why? Because is Plan A cancels at 19h you won`t be left with many ladies/options for your evening.
- most veteran members will tell you if you an escort asks for payment up front, chances are the session will not go well because
- once you`ve paid, how will you get you cash back if she turns around and leaves,
delivers 15mins on a 60min call,
talks to you 40mins for a 50mins service + 10mins shower session
after kissing, asks for more cash to continue... - just like contractors/building industry, you never pay in full up front or you`re screwed!
- mind you if you look like a creep, calling at 5AM, smell of booze and look stoned, I can`t blame the agency for wanting to collect up front
ADVICE FROM VETERAN MERBITES
- General Gonad Sept3`06: A Survival Guide For Newbies Entering The Hobby & Addiction
- General Gonad Jan7`07: Pervasive lies in in Hobbyland
- General Gonad Oct5`08: Before You Take The Plung
- Latinofreak Oct6`08: How Much Does An SP Pocket
- nylonlover Mar20`10: The Art of Nylon/Hosiery (SP`s and Agencies Plz Wake Up!)
- nylonlover Jan21`12: We Only Have MERB (Ourselves) To Blame for What`s Happening to Our SP Market
- First Time with SP: Doc Holliday, Ricky bonds, sweetwater, evillethings, metoo4, Jman47
- evillethings May1`12: Bad Experience with Escort? Can you outdo my Top 5 Failed SP Encounters?
- 2012 Wishlist to Agencies: contributions from various Merbites
- You are the Boss (of the Escort Agency)
VETERAN MERBITES I FOLLOW(ED) FOR OUTCALL + HOBBYING INFO
- General Gonad
- banger
- Lion Heart
- daydreamer41
- nylonlover
- MarathonMan
- Eager Beaver
- thegreatwalooo
- Doc Holliday
- johnmbot
- Ricky bonds
- Delta123
- ManApart
LEGITIMATE AGENCIES WITH MULTIPLE AGENCIES (updated Oct 19, 2012)
- Montreal XXXtase also operates Delight Escorts (mainly different line-ups)
- Devilish operates Montreal Girls on Fire (different line-ups)
- MTLGFE formerly Chloe`s Playground also went by the name Candyshop Escorts (identical line-up)
- Queen of Spades once operated Satanic Escorts (parted way late Summer 2012)
ABOUT MY VALLEY-SCALE FOR FACE
10 >> She was a one in a million.
9 >> She was model material.
8 >> She was really hot.
7 >> She was attractive.
6 >> She was nice looking.
5 >> She was plain looking.
4 >> OK, If you are drunk.
3 >> She was fairly homely.
2 >> She was simply ugly.
1 >> I was really scared.
SOMEBODY MADE A GOOD "BODY TYPES" CHART
Click here...
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