Thank you! finally someone who has the courage to answer my question properly, appreciate it
GFE or Dominatrix?
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Acting like nobody else did lol. You must've not read the other actual replies you got because you were too busy being a troll to actually care about the answer
That explains why i get kink and fetish-friendly” services not a serious Dom from my mistress!
I am with Julia.
Definitely a troll, nobody can be this naive about sex and not know the difference or smart enough to google it before asking these type of questions.
If nothing else most young men have looked at porn to see what a Dom is and what GFE is.
Unless this guy is borrowing his dad’s phone and is actually around 10 or less.
If it is mixed with full service, yes it explains it
Not full service just cbj, spankings , massage, slapping, golden , prostate and massage
It’s more like I have to tell her ok let’s do this , then when it’s enough I go let’s try blah blah Like that! Things still get done though!
Here’s how a conversation with a professional Domme should go:
You start by sharing your personal limits and preferences—what you’re open to and what you’re not—while keeping in mind the Domme’s own boundaries and the type of experience she offers. You should also talk about your desire outcome and the intensity of pain and surrender you’re looking to explore/experience.
Then, you should agree on a unique safeword that will immediately stop all activity if needed, and consider using traffic light codes like green, yellow, and red to help guide the flow of the session for the Domme.
Above all, ensure the conversation remains open, respectful, and judgment-free. Consent, mutual enjoyment, and safety should always be at the core—unless you’re both intentionally playing within a carefully negotiated framework of kink or fetish
Hope that helps xx
You could also buy her this book :
I highly suggest to anyone who wants to learn more about BDSM and tantric practices to do so, It can be life changing. There is no wrong place to start this journey
It really is as exploring is great as I know of so many boring vanillas that just have boring relationships
Whether someone explores their sexuality through tantra, BDSM, swinging, or good old-fashioned vanilla, to each their own, there’s no need for judgment. Just do what brings you joy and fulfillment.
I much prefer this book.
Also, this documentary was produced by a guy in Montreal (but did not find a distributor). It’s a human warming and touching documentary about the world of kink. It opens up to the concept of acceptability: https://kinema.com/films/touch-kink-vwykek
As for labelling Domm, it is too narrow. To me a Dominatrix comes with a dungeon and all the ceremonies that come with it. It’s complex and not the regular starting point to just having one or two fetishes. When one does like spanking, tortuous light touches or any other fetish, it does not mean that one would go the extreme of bonding (restraints) or lust in physical pain.
As for GFE, it’s understandable and psychological or crossing one extreme to the other when reaching the aftercare (a BDSM term and steps in the play).
Also, this documentary was produced by a guy in Montreal (but did not find a distributor). It’s a human warming and touching documentary about the world of kink. It opens up to the concept of acceptability: https://kinema.com/films/touch-kink-vwykek
As for labelling Domm, it is too narrow. To me a Dominatrix comes with a dungeon and all the ceremonies that come with it. It’s complex and not the regular starting point to just having one or two fetishes. When one does like spanking, tortuous light touches or any other fetish, it does not mean that one would go the extreme of bonding (restraints) or lust in physical pain.
As for GFE, it’s understandable and psychological or crossing one extreme to the other when reaching the aftercare (a BDSM term and steps in the play).
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