It's not really popular or well known because it comes with a lot of risks but have you ever found a SP organically? Let me give you some exemples, maybe you were going for a walk with your dog and happened to see an attractive younger woman with her own dog. How would you go about 1. figuring out if she's an SP and 2. booking her without coming across creepy
If you are on twitter, you've probably seen some tweets of women mentioning that they've found clients while "freestyling" in a bar. I think it's probably one of the best ways to start a SP-client relationship because you both know how the other person looks, you'll both know if there's chemistry and in most cases it avoids wasting your time.
So how do I approach a woman without offending her? I would say let her do the work. You don't know if she's a SP and the last thing you would want to do is insulting her if she's not. A question that might help breaking the ice is "what do you do for a living?" Some providers carry business cards, others have their website ready on hand, some just don't.
How do I know if I can afford her services? If she gave you her name, a business card, her website, I would recommend that you excuse yourself to the bathroom and go take a look at her rates. Yeah, you could probably just look at her website while she's sitting next to you but that would be awkward no? If you decide to pass, you can come back at the table/bar and tell her you'll call her (to be polite).
What are some good places to find a SP? I'm not sure I can name places so please let me know if it's not allowed and I'll edit my post.
Upscale bars and lounges such as:
Marcus
George
Yama
Cathcart
Yoko Luna
Nacarat
StillLife
If you are on twitter, you've probably seen some tweets of women mentioning that they've found clients while "freestyling" in a bar. I think it's probably one of the best ways to start a SP-client relationship because you both know how the other person looks, you'll both know if there's chemistry and in most cases it avoids wasting your time.
So how do I approach a woman without offending her? I would say let her do the work. You don't know if she's a SP and the last thing you would want to do is insulting her if she's not. A question that might help breaking the ice is "what do you do for a living?" Some providers carry business cards, others have their website ready on hand, some just don't.
How do I know if I can afford her services? If she gave you her name, a business card, her website, I would recommend that you excuse yourself to the bathroom and go take a look at her rates. Yeah, you could probably just look at her website while she's sitting next to you but that would be awkward no? If you decide to pass, you can come back at the table/bar and tell her you'll call her (to be polite).
What are some good places to find a SP? I'm not sure I can name places so please let me know if it's not allowed and I'll edit my post.
Upscale bars and lounges such as:
Marcus
George
Yama
Cathcart
Yoko Luna
Nacarat
StillLife