Financial management!

[Canada501st]

Hey guys,
I am still young, and sometimes I wonder how do you more mature gentlemen manage your money with this hobby. Do you ever feel regret having spending so much money in the past years?
I am trying to put a limit for myself every year. Lets assume that this limit is around $2500 a year for the hobby. I would had spent close to $50000 in 20 years. does this number seems crazy to you. It feels guilty in a way that I could actually have an investment with this figure, but at the same time we only live for once and I dont want to lie to myself that I dont like having sex with different hot girls. Do you make it up by cutting off from other leisures ( restaurants, vacations, bars, etc...)

 

[urquell]

I think it all comes down to opportunity cost. If you didn't hobby with the cash then what would you do with it? Unless you're diverting that cash into investments or things designed to garner cash over time then the likelihood is that you'll have little to show for it anyway. Would you spend it on more and better restaurant meals? Shoes or clothes? A fancier car?

There really isn't a right or wrong answer to how you spend your cash. You simply need to decide what's going to make you happiest and put your cash into that. The sum of your life experiences, whatever that mix is, will prove out over time if you choose wisely, and you won't regret any of the cash you spent.

 

[luvdozer]

If you arent funding your retirement or if you have credit card debt and you are spending 2500 a year on escorts you are indeed financially nuts. However, if you have the basics covered, then spending 2500 a year on any particular hobby is pretty normal. Would you spend 2500 on a vacation? Would spend 2500 a year gambling if you were into it? Do you know anyone who attends 10 or 12 hockey games per year?

 

[Thor Jr]

All good points guys, i for one, gave up cigarettes 16 years ago, so these are the funds i use to fuel my adventures, much healthier dont you think?

 

[Halloween Mike]

Well... yes and no.

I mean, right now i have a pretty high debt on my credit card wich is the result of years of hobbying mostly, everytime they would raise my limit, i would accept it like an idiot. I never paid an escort with it but hotels, other stuff (while i used cash for escorts) and such. Now im struggling to lower it (but i decided i would concentrate on it more lately) so yeah i kinda wish i didn't have this debt... lol

And yeah sometimes i realize all i could have if i didn't spend so much on girls over the past 9 years but then again i can't deny the fun i had.

My only big true regret is having sold a good chunk of my video games including my dreamcast with rare games who sell for a fortune now. I had games like Illbleed (currently 150$), Resident Evil 2 and 3 (sell between 75$ to 100$ each), Shenmue (50/60$), Alone in the Dark (40/45$) and other mon "commons" less expensive but i sold everything for 150$ .. :/

Took that money and money from other stuff i sold for a trip to Montreal ... At least i saw Kate that time so i had a great time lol but today i regret it and i may even try to repurchase the majority of them... will cost me so much more than what i sold.

 

[curly]

I would had spent close to $50000 in 20 years. does this number seems crazy to you. It feels guilty in a way that I could actually have an investment with this figure, but at the same time we only live for once and I dont want to lie to myself that I dont like having sex with different hot girls.

How much does a mariage/divorce cost? And yet, we don't even think about it. (should we?)

So, no seconds thoughts on my side... As Patron mentions, some days I wish I had done more...

 

[ourson69]

I was just thinking about this. I am pretty sure I have spent at least 150,000 in the last 20 years (including a 10 year hiatus in the middle). Sure, I wish I had that money in the bank, but then I wouldn't have had my life... Trying to keep it down now- I want to retire one of these days!

 

[2fast2slow]

the solution is to make even more money...then you can have your cake and eat it too

 

[Hagood Hardy]

If your budget is $2500/yr. then you have to be realistic and limit yourself to a ( enhanced ) massage once every 2 weeks.

 

[gaby]

Evidemment la situation financière de chacun est différente......younger with a lot of responsabilities,----home, family-kids to take care and 2 divorces...so there was no money left for this hobby......et je ne me serais jamais endetté pour satisfaire mes fantasmes.....BUT now older with moins d'obligations it's easy for me to invest money in escorts......i don't travel----did it a lot younger---don't go to fancy restaurants no more.....so quite easy for me to see and pay for being with adorable girls.....and i love it.......aucun aucun regret......au contraire c'est seulement POUR MOI bien profiter et JOUIR de la vie.

 

[jalimon]

I have written similar opinion a few time. Yes money is an important factor. But it's not the only one.

I would never suggest anyone to hobby before being 40 or so. Maybe a few times in order to "learn". Learn how to fuck. Learn not to be intimidated with girls. etc etc...

If you only see sp while young you may have big issue with regular girl because they wont be perfect. They wont know how to please you until you make out a few times. They may have some extra weight. They may be too thin.

That said absolutely nothing will beat the value of a regular girl sucking your dick because she wants to. For free! This will largely compensate her imperfection believe me. And think about how many time you will be able to fuck, 3-4 times a week or more!

But then one day you reach 40 or something. Kids have grown up a bit. Your wife has not touch you in years and has no intention to... Yes divorce cost but it's worth it if you have to. Then the real fun begins Then you get on Merb haha

Cheers,

p.s. I know I have a different opinion then most about this but it's what I think.

 

[cloudsurf]

For me there is nothing better in life than happy and exiting memories....before dementia sets in....lol
Great travel memories from when I was younger and memories of the fascinating people I`d met.....including many lovely young ladies.
No regrets.

 

[jalimon]

Just for the record, I think the best time to book your very first really hot young escort is the exact day you turn 18.

Haha Patron Patron... You are I think the wisest and intelligent guy on this board. But still a pervert haha

Cheers,

 

[theyellowman]

I spent more $1200/ month for the past 3 years. For me, the hoppy give me the chance to live different sex experiences that I can't do in a normal life. Like 3somes,4somes, mfm , orgy, gangbang, bdsm...!

I hope I will be able to slow down soon..!

So $2500/year is a big challenge …!

 

[Halloween Mike]

Wow... you spend more in hobbying evert month than my total monthly revenue :/ depressing lol

 

[hungry101]

Hey guys,
I am still young, and sometimes I wonder how do you more mature gentlemen manage your money with this hobby. Do you ever feel regret having spending so much money in the past years?
I am trying to put a limit for myself every year. Lets assume that this limit is around $2500 a year for the hobby. I would had spent close to $50000 in 20 years. does this number seems crazy to you. It feels guilty in a way that I could actually have an investment with this figure, but at the same time we only live for once and I dont want to lie to myself that I dont like having sex with different hot girls. Do you make it up by cutting off from other leisures ( restaurants, vacations, bars, etc...)

I am going to tell you the same thing I tell all the girls: Pay yourself first. Money from your check is directly deposited into your 401K/ROTH IRA/Health savings account/ Mortgage etc. What is left over feel free to invest in our hobby. People I work with went to New Zealand to be dropped out of helicopters in snow that is pure powder. Others spend 10,000$ on big game hunts. A friend of mine flew to Ireland to play golf. So why not fly to Brazil or Thailand and fuck women? How is this different?

I have nothing against a young man losing his virginity to an SP or playing with escorts. I do have a problem with people spending money they do not have. You may need to get yourself established first. Do so and there will be plenty of money left over for escorts. Henry Clay once said “The time will come when Winter will ask you what you were doing all Summer.” Pay yourself first and you will never have to worry about this. I don't want to be a burden on my children or have to rely on some governmental agency. I hire plenty of escorts. Let the hobby be your motivation to succeed.

 

[Chef Boyardee]

If you miss the money you use on hobbying, you can't afford it.

 

[smuler]

I do have a problem with people spending money they do not have

I think that people like you and me, and Patron are lucky to travel to places globally where we do business, and that allowed us to save a ton of money on airfare.
That is the primary way that I was able to meet all the escorts that I did..financially responsible

Best Regards
Smuler

 

[HookerHounter]

Obviously you have to look after your budget for everything, you do anything in life will have to do it in your controlled limit. When you are young (20-40 yrs), you'd be better working hard to get yourself a good well paid job or the be your own boss to get more money for you to be able to enjoy life, including enjoy different beautiful girls whether through social life or see SPs.
When you get older (40 or 50 + ), if you still like to meet younger girls, I think you have no choice but to spend money to see SPs, to see SPs will make much more economic sense than to see a regular girls, and also SPs have no emotions attached.

 

[westwoody]

For me there is nothing better in life than happy and exiting memories...

When I am on my deathbed I will think of beautiful ladies I had great times with and smile.

I will not be thinking of the nice coffee table my ex made me buy, or the sensible car, or the stainless steel fridge. I will die happy thinking of 36 dd brushing my face as a gorgeous woman rides me off into the sunset.