Face pics

[hungry101]

^^^This! Yes, I've opened the door and been a little disappointed. I'm not always blown away...Funny, how you can wind up having a great session anyway. I think there have been instances where the girl walked in a 6-7 and left with an 8-9 for looks just because she grew on me and we clicked in that short time frame.

Think about it. There's that girl at the office that you want to fuck. Maybe she's a knock out and maybe she's not? Maybe she's just OK and you got to know and she grew on you and you want to fuck her more than anyone else on the planet and you can't explain it. You want to fuck her inner beauty. Sort of like that.

 

[TigerWould]

Agreed Hungry. But I’m talking about some of these pics that show gorgeous bodies, outfits, decor etc don’t show faces so we often “imagine” facial perfection. 9/10 it’s disappointing. I think if they shower their faces I would have seen 50% less escorts than I did! Honestly there are times I book just to see what they look like lol

 

[CornFlakes1]

No matter if the person plans on escorting as a career or if it’s temporary, whatever you put on the internet is forever. There’s no going back. Even if you delete the post, it is always retraceable. I understand how some girls want to show that they have a nice face, there is no surprise when you meet the person. Plus, a person that plans on being an escort as a career is likely to eventually change her mind & do something else instead. With all the prejudice surrounding sex work even today in 2020, announcing publicly that you sell your body/time will handicap a person in many aspects of their life. Nobody wants to hire a junkie prostitute right? (Stereotype that people uninvolved in the industry actually believe is true for all sexworkers). People will constantly see you as a piece of garbage in society. I told my parents what I do and, even though I’m their daughter and they should make me feel respected, they’ve been seeing me as some disgusting whore. Giving up on the option of being anonymous is basically accepting that a lot of people won’t see you as a human being, but as a walking vagina.
No judgment to the girls who do show their faces, it’s their choice in the end.
Also some agencies (including mine sadly) send pictures of the girls faces to the client before booking. That means that a lot of men purposely invades the girls privacy just to avoid meeting a girls who isn’t 100% perfect. That is absolutely selfish, without even mentioning the fact that the bookers do not have the girls consent to share her personal photos/information.
Hopefully this whole industry will eventually become 100% respectful, both towards the workers & the clients. Being a decent human should always come before money & physical attraction.

 

[hungry101]

This lady perfectly illustrates what Hungry is describing

I can not look at her face if I need to (which is very rare).

But if a lady has a belly, I can’t unsee that when doing DATY. And if she has a “cottage cheese” lower butt, I am going to go soft when trying to enter her vaginally from behind.

There is a girl in Toronto that has the cutest face and a bit of a frumpy body. I think we would all agree that her body is frumpy. She is posting photos of herself in a two peice and getting compliments from a bunch of liars...but she is so cute I'd book her anyway. Problem is, I went to her website and she is asking this exorbitant rate. I should of stopped there but I read her website and she doesn't want people like me as customers. She wants clients that don't know the meaning of certain acronyms and she has a no-review policy. I wonder how much longer she is going to find people to fund her lifestyle? By her photos she is really starting to expand. I just wonder how many suckers are out there to give these people money? It is mind boggling.

 

[rosedelacourt]

There is a girl in Toronto that has the cutest face and a bit of a frumpy body. I think we would all agree that her body is frumpy. She is on vacation now and posting photos of herself in a two peice and getting compliments from a bunch of liars...but she is so cute I'd book her anyway. Problem is, I went to her website and she is asking this exorbitant rate. I should of stopped there but I read her website and she doesn't want people like me as customers. She wants clients that don't know the meaning of certain acronyms and she has a no-review policy. I wonder how much longer she is going to find people to fund her lifestyle? By her photos she is really starting to expand. I just wonder how many suckers are out there to give these people money? It is mind boggling.

I think that it's not because some of you guys are very vocal on review boards that one should assume that everyone wants the same thing. If this business was solely based on acronyms and ''getting most sex in your time'', a lot of us would be out of a job (let's face it, there is also a huge preference for a certain body type on review boards). I don't think it's fair to people who want a connection to call them ''suckers'' (because even if you think they're fooling themselves, some of us providers do really care). Also, dinner dates, overnights, extended dates wouldn't exist either (because again 99% of the men can't fuck for 3h + straight so you need some type of chemistry for those bookings). Its pretty sad that while we're here making you feel like kings, not judging your appearance, not trash talking you with other providers, respecting you and providing you with a service you need enough to pay for it, you feel ok calling people ''frumpy''. It took me one second to figure out who you were talking about and I feel for her who might read this. Maybe for you she isn't attractive enough to justify her rates, but for others she is (clearly because we set our rates based on what we get). All bodies are valid and attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

 

[Yzabel Wolf]

J’aimerais tellement que l’on puisse mettre des smiley sur les réponses des Threads !
Bravo Rose ! je suis d’accord avec toi
By the way je suis une des plus vieilles ici et j’ai encore mon visage à découvert ;-)
Je l’assume mais parfois cela peut nuire.

 

[rosedelacourt]

J’aimerais tellement que l’on puisse mettre des smiley sur les réponses des Threads !
Bravo Rose ! je suis d’accord avec toi
By the way je suis une des plus vieilles ici et j’ai encore mon visage à découvert ;-)
Je l’assume mais parfois cela peut nuire.

Merci ma belle xx Moi j'ai poster mon visage day 1, j'assume mon emploi a 100%, j'économise et j'investis pour ne pas avoir a faire autre chose dans ma vie après Je ne me vois pas arrêter avant un bon bout!

 

[Victoriabelmont]

Rose your answer is absolutely PERFECT....Thank you !
We are humans and we all have feelings.
At least please have the courtesy to DM each other it you want to say bad stuff about an SP!
Let’s all act like adults , Right?

 

[Maria Divina]

Dextaze, your post was magnific, but I wanted to quote something specific;

2020 Where boys stopped objectifying/sexualising girls !

I don't know how much more murders it will take.

Objectifying SW and women (and all other possible victims weaker than their attackers) is what permit murderers and all psychopaths to go on action as they feel "that's only what they were deserving"


*****

The only thing I could add related to Rose's post is

I don't know when the day will come that people will finish to understand (and most of all, RESPECT) that what works for their own self ISN'T necessary what is working for a lots, but a LOTS of other humans.
IF people are different of you, they aren't crazy or fool, they are just simply that, different.

If WOMEN of all kinds are able to stay active in this activities, is certainly because they are having enough positive results to encourage themselves to stay. Period.
They are all desired, cherished, appreciated, what ever kind of body they could have. Like someone else wrote elsewhere: "Resistance is futile" hahaha

If each of us represent just a little drop in the sea, our own opinions is so small in comparison of all the rest, humility should be more frequent but us Humans tend to forget this, sadly.

What someone strictly requires "to get off" is just a reflection of their own limits or even, just the reflection of their own mental projections, or more frequently, the way they have been raised.

We are just the result of our surroundings at the end, with much less control we can think we are really having about our preferences and the way we think. We all know that.

 

[hungry101]

I think that it's not because some of you guys are very vocal on review boards that one should assume that everyone wants the same thing. If this business was solely based on acronyms and ''getting most sex in your time'', a lot of us would be out of a job (let's face it, there is also a huge preference for a certain body type on review boards). I don't think it's fair to people who want a connection to call them ''suckers'' (because even if you think they're fooling themselves, some of us providers do really care). Also, dinner dates, overnights, extended dates wouldn't exist either (because again 99% of the men can't fuck for 3h + straight so you need some type of chemistry for those bookings). Its pretty sad that while we're here making you feel like kings, not judging your appearance, not trash talking you with other providers, respecting you and providing you with a service you need enough to pay for it, you feel ok calling people ''frumpy''. It took me one second to figure out who you were talking about and I feel for her who might read this. Maybe for you she isn't attractive enough to justify her rates, but for others she is (clearly because we set our rates based on what we get). All bodies are valid and attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

You are right and I would book her just for her cute face till I read her web site.

All bodies are not beautiful. Mine isn't any longer and that is just one of the reasons that I have to pay you because yours is. I've had girls say "Hungry, this is crazy! I should be paying you but so far none have. So as long as the money is flowing one way (Me to you) I'll choose the ladies that I want.

I read laughable comments from Ideologue young SPs that say they are socialists and then engage in the most capitalistic enterprise I've ever seen. They say we should be more inclusive. No. I will use my purchasing power to spend time with who I want to spend time with. Why don't some of these girls do means testing? They could give out highly discounted services to guys that make low wages?

What I can't stand are lying shill ass kissers that can't even fuck anymore but spend $50K a year to be the king of a review board and only write positive reviews which are limited to two or three lines of vague comments to suck up. That's my pet peeve.

 

[hungry101]

Some can laugh at me. Welcome in 2020!! Where boys stopped objectifying/sexualising girls !

Just look where you are posting this. Be honest with yourself. WTF are you doing posting on a review board?

 

[JadeBeaujolais]

[FONT=&quot]Personne ne te demande d’être inclusif. Tu as tes préférences, and so be it. Le problème est lorsque le dénigrement d’une femme se faire à travers des mots puissants et blessants qui ne sont absolument pas nécessaires. [/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Aussi, juste le fait de penser que notre source de revenu primaire vient de gens qui ont des opinions comme la tienne prouve ton manque de connaissance de notre réalité. On a l’impression que les gens qui écrivent ces reviews sont majoritaires, seulement parce qu’ils parlent fort. Ce n’est pas le cas.[/FONT]

 

[hungry101]

^^^ Oh shoot. Am I off the Christmas Card list Jade?

 

[JadeBeaujolais]

Sorry your Christmas card was ruined by the coffee I spilled while reading this tread.

 

[hungry101]

^^^BTW - No one would ever use the term frumpy to describe your hot body. In a scale of 1-10 I'd give it a 10,000 at least.

This is a review board and ask the girls and guys that know me. I am the nicest guy out there and very generous. In my professional life, I have been given several accounts that there were barriers to entry and I found a way in. I also have been taken off at least one account where a client complained. There were two others and I was able to win them over. Yes, criticism, however constructive can cut like a knife but what doesn't kill you can make you stronger. We all need to watch the fat shaming episode of South Park and watch when Mr. Reality enters the fund raiser.

 

[Victoriabelmont]

@hungry101 Stop shooting yourself in the leg lol !

 

[hungry101]

Great advice. Thank you very much. I will stop posting now.

 

[rosedelacourt]

You are right and I would book her just for her cute face till I read her web site.

All bodies are not beautiful. Mine isn't any longer and that is just one of the reasons that I have to pay you because yours is. I've had girls say "Hungry, this is crazy! I should be paying you but so far none have. So as long as the money is flowing one way (Me to you) I'll choose the ladies that I want. ...........

Ok Hungry, so you admit that your body isn't conventionally attractive. The reality is, 90% (of even more) of people don't fit the societal norm. Where does that leave us? By saying what I said earlier, I never implied that you shouldn't see who you are attracted to. That is 1000% your right as a paying customer. However, the only thing I asked for is a little bit of respect towards bodies you are not attracted to. Found that girl ''frumpy'', think it and move on. There was no need to mention her as, first, you've admitted that you haven't met her so it's not a review and second, rate hating and preference shaming is absolutely unnecessary. You don't want to spend that cash on a girl who looks like her? Fair. But don't drag her down because she's not worth it (in your opinion). As much of you seem to think, we are not stupid and our clients aren't either. The rates we choose are rates people are paying. The packages we set up are packages people are buying. Supply and demand is as much accurate here as any other business.

I tend to have socialist views yes and we are well aware we work in a capitalist business (I'm not sure THE MOST is accurate here) and seeing a provider is a luxury. I have clients who make way less than I do but you know what they do more often than not? They save up and they book me. My job is to make sure they're having the best time and that I'm meeting their needs. Again, rates are based on what we are getting and the amount of demands we receive. The reality is, the lower the price, the higher the volume of inquiries. I'd rather not filter through dozens of emails a day to try and find who is serious and will not kill me.

As for being more inclusive, I'm sorry to tell you this but this business is probably the MOST inclusive business of all. Your personal preference Hungry represents a fraction of what the demand is actually like, except since your tastes fit with societal ''norm'', it's almost the only one represented here. Again, the only thing I've asked is for you to respect other people's wants and needs and stop calling them ''suckers''. Stop making girls and other clients feel like shit.

Can we also stop calling non-descriptive reviews ''shills''? The people who write them are not fake. There isn't a conspiracy of providers paying people to write them reviews. Some guys just don't see the need to review intimate times in a graphic way. The reality is, reviews are made to ensure you that you are meeting someone real, someone who looks like the pictures and someone who provides the service as advertised. Just as screening is made for us to try and avoid getting killed/raped/beaten. Again, the fact that some of you guys like to go into details and find graphic reviews so damn important isn't the norm because otherwise I would have as many reviews as I've had encounters.

All this to say, see your preferred girls, enjoy the service they offer, be respectful and leave those you don't fancy alone. That's all we're asking.

 

[rosedelacourt]

Ladies I am sort of sorry if Hungry and my posts offend you, but there is method to the madness. You can let us know what you object to. We are open minded,min spite of not being politically correct...........

I believe in the existence of reviews. I think they are necessary to ensure guys are not getting ripped off. However, and let's take your example for this, you've just proved the inaccuracy of the ratings /10. No one agrees to the same ratings (in general) because guess what? Two different people might find different things attractive. You had barely noticed her stretch marks (oh and btw I know no woman who doesn't have a stretch mark, even the thinnest of them all). Someone's connection to the girl might have him increasing her rating while someone else's lack thereof might have him decreasing it. Why do we bother rating a person on a scale? We could rate the experience yes. But it makes no logical sense to rate her other than give yourselves some sort of power over her business (because let's face it, an agency provider depends on reviews, since most of them don't create a brand for themselves).

Have you actually been with a Cover Girl model? Have you actually touched a Victoria's Secret girl's tits? I'm pretty sure you haven't and never will because I'm sorry to break it to you, even those girls have stretch marks, saggy tits at times (you seem them in a push up bra) and probably even some body hair when they are not airbrushed for the magazines. Horrific I know. You base your entire rating scale and appearance-judgment on girls who pay hundreds of thousands of dollars to look like they do and who are photoshopped like crazy. They do look hot to you while some other find them unattractive. Such is the world we live in.

Back to the ''frumpy'' lady. She posted an unaltered video on her Twitter page. Like most of us independents do on a weekly basis or more. If that doesn't give the Johns a clear picture of who they are meeting, your biased words won't either. That's why us providers spend so much on photoshoots and spend so much time producing selfies. So descriptive details of our appearance are redundant.

Reviews can stay, we simply demand respect. Be mindful of what you write as we do read your words. That's all.

 

[rosedelacourt]

^^^BTW - No one would ever use the term frumpy to describe your hot body. In a scale of 1-10 I'd give it a 10,000 at least.

This is a review board and ask the girls and guys that know me. I am the nicest guy out there and very generous. In my professional life, I have been given several accounts that there were barriers to entry and I found a way in. I also have been taken off at least one account where a client complained. There were two others and I was able to win them over. Yes, criticism, however constructive can cut like a knife but what doesn't kill you can make you stronger. We all need to watch the fat shaming episode of South Park and watch when Mr. Reality enters the fund raiser.

Look at you again trying to get into Jade's pants. Did you know that simply how you behave yourself on a board like here, despite of how popular amongst the boys you are, can be decisive when it comes to meeting with you? You guys write and think we somewhat don't read your every words.

I'm sorry Hungry but I wouldn't call you nice. What you provide isn't constructive criticism because by definition, it requires both positive and negative critiques and is also given in a friendly manner. Calling girls fat, chubby, hairy isn't going to make them want to shave or lose weight. If fat-shaming truly worked, fat bodies wouldn't exist. It just doesn't make sense.