Don't fall in love with your regular SP

[masterfreak]

Y a rien de mal de s'attacher à une escorte.
Tomber en amour peut être dangereux pour sa santé mentale et physique.
Transaction financière ça veut dire que tu achète un bien.
Ce qui est de particulier dans ce hobby c'est que un être humain ça n'a pas de prix.
Ne faites pas l'erreur de tomber amoureux d'une escorte.
J'ai rencontré des femmes incroyables dans ce hobby .
Je peux même affirmer que certaines m'ont donné plus de plaisir que dans ma vie privée amoureuse.
La compatibilité sexuelle ne rime pas avec amour pour moi.
Quand je développe des sentiments pour une escorte je distance mais rencontre et change rapidement de partenaire de jeu.
C'est plate à dire mais faut savoir que nos demoiselles sont des expertes dans le comportement sexuel masculin.
Y a des exceptions mais je crois que les femmes ont une intelligence émotionnelle supérieure à la nôtre.
C'est pas une fausse rumeur que nôtre cerveau circule à deux endroits,plus ça descend et plus on devient vulnérable.

 

[AirBo]

I really enjoy reading your stories, guys. In the end, we kinda all fell for it in one way or another. Sharing might help keep things in perspective. We're all humans.

And to those it hasn't happened to yet, just keep hobbying

 

[FrenchSecrets]

You misread the post I am not the one who fell in love with my regular SP, the guy that message me did. I only open is eyes or at least tried.

I was in a 9 year relationship before 2013, I gave everything to my ex, we had a beautiful house travelled, her head was always in the cloud, we ate at restaurant 3 times per week etc.

She ended up cheating on me with a guy at her job and threw my out of my house. So if I count all the bad dating experience i had in the past 30 years, I don't fall in love anymore and I don't believe in love either being the biggest myth.

When I see an SP or my regular We have fun i treat her well etc but when i leave i don't spend time thinking about her. LOL

It’s not love today it’s convenience !

 

[minutemenX]

I've had 2 ATFs that I have fallen for. I am usually very very careful not to fall for the fantasy.

1) I think might have been for real. After our first meet, we traded info, then started seeing her outside of agency. Then she started coming over to my condo in Montreal. And stayed overnight for weeks at a time. All unpaid after our first session. We never "dated" but I think we actually had fun.

It is pretty natural to fall in love with your ATF. Just remember that she is not in love with you and never will be. So, keep paying here regular price and enjoy without trying to get exclusivity

 

[FrenchSecrets]

I've had 2 ATFs that I have fallen for. I am usually very very careful not to fall for the fantasy.

1) I think might have been for real. After our first meet, we traded info, then started seeing her outside of agency. Then she started coming over to my condo in Montreal. And stayed overnight for weeks at a time. All unpaid after our first session. We never "dated" but I think we actually had fun. Didn't have to be cautious with her

We eventually stopped talking because I wasn't working in Montreal for 6 months. She visited my city 6-7 times. But at the end it doesn't really work

2)
however, the current one that I am trying my best to avoid falling for... She is dangerous.

she always makes plans with me, and then cancels last second. So obviously she doesn't wanna do it

i tell her she doesn't need to bullshit me with fake plans because I'll see her as a client anyway. She assures me she actually does want to do it but "things come up"

shes cancelled on me several times already.

i still have a lot of fun with her during sessions, but she's a PRO, so she is dangerous. She asked me to dinner and drinks AGAIN in 2 weeks... But I'm pretty sure she's bullshitting me.

our sessions are great and very intimate. She knows how to work it. Really just a pro. I'm trying my best to not fall for her. We'll see if dinner and drinks ever happens. If it does, I'm pretty sure I'll just fall for it

I've had 2 ATFs that I have fallen for. I am usually very very careful not to fall for the fantasy.

1) I think might have been for real. After our first meet, we traded info, then started seeing her outside of agency. Then she started coming over to my condo in Montreal. And stayed overnight for weeks at a time. All unpaid after our first session. We never "dated" but I think we actually had fun. Didn't have to be cautious with her

We eventually stopped talking because I wasn't working in Montreal for 6 months. She visited my city 6-7 times. But at the end it doesn't really work

2)
however, the current one that I am trying my best to avoid falling for... She is dangerous.

she always makes plans with me, and then cancels last second. So obviously she doesn't wanna do it

i tell her she doesn't need to bullshit me with fake plans because I'll see her as a client anyway. She assures me she actually does want to do it but "things come up"

shes cancelled on me several times already.

i still have a lot of fun with her during sessions, but she's a PRO, so she is dangerous. She asked me to dinner and drinks AGAIN in 2 weeks... But I'm pretty sure she's bullshitting me.

our sessions are great and very intimate. She knows how to work it. Really just a pro. I'm trying my best to not fall for her. We'll see if dinner and drinks ever happens. If it does, I'm pretty sure I'll just fall for it

 

[FrenchSecrets]

I've had 2 ATFs that I have fallen for. I am usually very very careful not to fall for the fantasy.

1) I think might have been for real. After our first meet, we traded info, then started seeing her outside of agency. Then she started coming over to my condo in Montreal. And stayed overnight for weeks at a time. All unpaid after our first session. We never "dated" but I think we actually had fun. Didn't have to be cautious with her

We eventually stopped talking because I wasn't working in Montreal for 6 months. She visited my city 6-7 times. But at the end it doesn't really work

2)
however, the current one that I am trying my best to avoid falling for... She is dangerous.

she always makes plans with me, and then cancels last second. So obviously she doesn't wanna do it

i tell her she doesn't need to bullshit me with fake plans because I'll see her as a client anyway. She assures me she actually does want to do it but "things come up"

shes cancelled on me several times already.

i still have a lot of fun with her during sessions, but she's a PRO, so she is dangerous. She asked me to dinner and drinks AGAIN in 2 weeks... But I'm pretty sure she's bullshitting me.

our sessions are great and very intimate. She knows how to work it. Really just a pro. I'm trying my best to not fall for her. We'll see if dinner and drinks ever happens. If it does, I'm pretty sure I'll just fall for it

But drinks and dinner is $

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

I made a mistake of posting my regular SP name (not her real name), and explain what she told me when we are together, showering me with compliments, telling me that for my age i am hot, each time i see her that i gained muscle and lost fat.

So i get a PM from this guy who is a regular of her too and he starts telling me what she told him, and ask me if its true or not. Sadly I had to tell him the truth and wake him up a bit.

Everything that she tells me is pure bull, I am not hot for my age, I am fat, I am massive still because I lift weights but I am fat too and I guess that aging took a toll on me.

Sadly this guy was living an illusion and he was so deceive that everything she told him was the same she told me.

I don't know if its just me or I am not normal but from the first SP i ordered back in 2013 til today I know that what they tell me is to get the hook in me and keep me coming back. My SP as a great body she is hot for her age, but I know damn well she is playing the game and since she been doing that as a side line for 13 years now she knows exactly what to say to keep her regulars coming back.

For my part I have been single for so long but one thing I know If i would ever date a women again its not going to be an SP.

On a side note I deleted all the post that I mention her SP name and I had to block the guy that message me It was becoming really pathetic.

I understand that you have had negative experiences with service providers, and it is important to acknowledge that many of them will say what you want to hear in order to benefit themselves.

They have become skilled at manipulating clients, whether it be for money or gifts. It is essential to remember that you are the one paying for their services, and they will tailor their words to meet your desires.

However, it is possible to encounter a service provider who genuinely cares about your experience and has no hidden agenda. These individuals can create a genuine connection with you, similar to the excitement of dating someone new.

Unfortunately, many service providers engage in games and manipulation because they see it as an easy way to take advantage of their clients.

To navigate this, it is advisable to avoid showing too much interest or admiration towards a service provider. Instead, pretend to be busy and make them feel like they are not your top priority. Just like in any other relationship, the less you reveal your vulnerability and interest, the more intrigued they will be.

On the other hand, showing too much interest and eagerness can be seen as a weakness and potentially ruin any potential connection. Service providers thrive on challenges like any other lady,so presenting yourself as a busy and nonchalant individual will make them more interested in you.

It becomes a game for them, and trying to understand their intentions will only lead to confusion.

My advice to you is to consider dating someone outside of the sex industry. It can be difficult to accept and support someone who works in this field without feeling jealous.

From personal experience, it becomes evident that escorts are likable individuals because their primary goal is to provide companionship in exchange for payment.

As a result, everything may seem pleasant and enjoyable, but it is important to understand that their agreeable and accommodating demeanor is purely for financial compensation.

Without this understanding, we would live in a delusional world where all women are easily accessible and ready for intimate encounters. Unfortunately, this is far from reality.

 

[Anong]

and she might have assumed you were comfortable enough

Comfortable to cover his face in her pu**y blood?

 

[LC18]

Comfortable to cover his face in her pu**y blood?

Obviously not, she trusted that the sponge would do its job and it didn’t.

If it’s always worked for her in the past she might have thought it would work that day too.

Because we can never be 100%, I just decide not to take any chance. Not worth the awkward situation it can create if the sponge fails

 

[envelopes]

I am a veteran of the hobby and have only "fallen" for the fantasy once.

And unfortunately recently... this ATF I have seen for 3 years... I started seeing her more often this past 3-4 weeks, and we went out a couple times. I cannot get her off my mind now.

 

[AirBo]

I am a veteran of the hobby and have only "fallen" for the fantasy once.

And unfortunately recently... this ATF I have seen for 3 years... I started seeing her more often this past 3-4 weeks, and we went out a couple times. I cannot get her off my mind now.

And then there's me thinking seeing my current ATF 15 times in 5 months is excessive lol

I'm in a luckier place: she knows I come back mainly for the sex and I know she sees me only if I have money and never outside the agency.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Allow me to share a true story that unfolded during my experience with a popular service provider, who was also advertised here on merb. I feel compelled to recount this tale in response to a recent post where a service provider claimed to have been attacked by a member from this community. I want to shed light on the fact that there are not only bad apples among clients, but also among service providers themselves. While I won't disclose the name of the service provider, I'll provide a clue for those who were part of the merb community in the 2010 era – you may have heard this story before.

I met an incredibly stunning lady through a well-known agency. We instantly connected, and it felt like love at first sight. We dated for an extended period, enjoying a blissful relationship filled with travel and shared experiences. Everything seemed perfect, and we even discussed the possibility of marriage and starting a family together.

However, one fateful night, my ex-girlfriend returned home at 8am, heavily intoxicated and under the influence of drugs. She expressed a desire for intimacy, but I was sleeping and slightly annoyed by her late arrival and state. I gently pushed her away with my foot, but she unexpectedly returned, this time wielding a knife. She stabbed me in the heart, and I slipped into a coma, teetering on the brink of death. Miraculously, I survived.

This story serves as a reminder that unfortunate incidents can occur not only to clients but also to those seeking services providers. In fact, I recently shared another post about being drugged and robbed by a service provider. Furthermore, I experienced another unfortunate event with a highly popular service provider. To summarize, I was deeply in love with her and invited her on a vacation. However, my luck took a turn when she met another man during our time at the resort and abruptly discarded me, disregarding my feelings completely. The silver lining, though, is that she ultimately married the man she met on that vacation and started a family with him. So, while I was left heartbroken, something positive emerged from the situation.

Given the unfortunate series of events that have unfolded in my personal encounters, I must decline any future opportunities to date a service provider. This is not to say that all service providers are bad, just as not all clients are. It is simply a reflection of my own experiences and the cautionary tales that have shaped my perspective.

 

[bodick7]

And then there's me thinking seeing my current ATF 15 times in 5 months is excessive lol

I experienced if I see her within 2 weeks, magic tends to go away…

 

[bodick7]

I just have to imagine if I can live with her on a day to day basis… each time, the answer is quite clear.

 

[AirBo]

Allow me to share a true story that unfolded during my experience with a popular service provider, who was also advertised here on merb. I feel compelled to recount this tale in response to a recent post where a service provider claimed to have been attacked by a member from this community. I want to shed light on the fact that there are not only bad apples among clients, but also among service providers themselves. While I won't disclose the name of the service provider, I'll provide a clue for those who were part of the merb community in the 2010 era – you may have heard this story before.

I met an incredibly stunning lady through a well-known agency. We instantly connected, and it felt like love at first sight. We dated for an extended period, enjoying a blissful relationship filled with travel and shared experiences. Everything seemed perfect, and we even discussed the possibility of marriage and starting a family together.

However, one fateful night, my ex-girlfriend returned home at 8am, heavily intoxicated and under the influence of drugs. She expressed a desire for intimacy, but I was sleeping and slightly annoyed by her late arrival and state. I gently pushed her away with my foot, but she unexpectedly returned, this time wielding a knife. She stabbed me in the heart, and I slipped into a coma, teetering on the brink of death. Miraculously, I survived.

This story serves as a reminder that unfortunate incidents can occur not only to clients but also to those seeking services providers. In fact, I recently shared another post about being drugged and robbed by a service provider. Furthermore, I experienced another unfortunate event with a highly popular service provider. To summarize, I was deeply in love with her and invited her on a vacation. However, my luck took a turn when she met another man during our time at the resort and abruptly discarded me, disregarding my feelings completely. The silver lining, though, is that she ultimately married the man she met on that vacation and started a family with him. So, while I was left heartbroken, something positive emerged from the situation.

Given the unfortunate series of events that have unfolded in my personal encounters, I must decline any future opportunities to date a service provider. This is not to say that all service providers are bad, just as not all clients are. It is simply a reflection of my own experiences and the cautionary tales that have shaped my perspective.

This is an incredible story. I've had enough relationships with SPs in the past (nothing bad, thank god) to learn that this should remain a fantasy

 

[Mefy]

This is an incredible story. I've had enough relationships with SPs in the past (nothing bad, thank god) to learn that this should remain a fantasy)

The 1 visit only rule is the best

 

[AirBo]

The 1 visit only rule is the best

BTW, I'm not blaming any SP for those past failed "relationships"... I've also learned with time that, once past the sex and passion, I'm no prize myself lol such is life...

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

BTW, I'm not blaming any SP for those past failed "relationships"... I've also learned with time that, once past the sex and passion, I'm no prize myself lol such is life...

It is important to remember that not all service providers are bad; many of them are exceptional and intriguing individuals.

I had a significant and respectful long-term association with another service provider whom I highly esteem and admire.

The reason for my mentioning the unfortunate incidents is simply due to the thread title.

 

[dagreatness]

Guys remember this is a hobby and with this we can see as many girls as we want that we like, we see their photo and are like I would hit that and that one, but in this case we can.

We don’t have to go out and do the whole flirting game, buying drinks or dating game. We save the time and money by just here is the cash let’s bang. These girls are not our future wife’s nor our girlfriends.

See as many as you like, but don’t just limit yourself to 1 go out there and see a lot. Repeat like when it is really amazing, but don’t do it as a regular or else you get the feels and that is not good for you nor for them as to them it is a job.

This year alone I have at least seen 20 new ones and repeated with 10 old ones at least.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Guys remember this is a hobby and with this we can see as many girls as we want that we like, we see their photo and are like I would hit that and that one, but in this case we can.

We don’t have to go out and do the whole flirting game, buying drinks or dating game. We save the time and money by just here is the cash let’s bang. These girls are not our future wife’s nor our girlfriends.

See as many as you like, but don’t just limit yourself to 1 go out there and see a lot. Repeat like when it is really amazing, but don’t do it as a regular or else you get the feels and that is not good for you nor for them as to them it is a job.

This year alone I have at least seen 20 new ones and repeated with 10 old ones at least.

I fully concur with your perspective, and I have expressed numerous times in prior posts and discussions that opting for a service provider who assures intimacy is more cost-effective compared to going on a date where you might end up spending three times as much without any guarantee of intimacy.

It's not solely about the financial aspect but also the complications that come with the dating process.

With a service provider, you can engage in a transaction without encountering any inconvenience or strain.

Nevertheless, regarding the service providers you have encountered this year, I don't recall you sharing any of them with us. Just kidding buddy!