I just want to add that contrarily to popular belief on this forum, the vast majority of clients do not believe they are in a relationship with providers even if they have complicated feelings. lol.. I have met clients like this who were absolutely delusional and believed they were "dating" or "special friends" with certain providers or strippers, but they still didn't believe that relationship was exclusive.. And hilariously, those clients are often hobbyists who see multiple providers, not just one.
I think everyone wants to feel special. I would like someone to say I'm their ATF honestly, and I think a lot of clients want to feel like they hold a particular place in the provider's heart. Sometimes, that is actually the case even if there isn't a real romantic relationship happening. There are clients I actually get along with a lot more than others, usually because of our conversations and similarities in terms of personality. But it's not something you can force, and unless the client is booking me extremely often, I won't be seeing him more than anybody else.
For me this doesn't mean that the two people have fallen in love or are in some kind of serious emotional affair, it's just normal to connect with other human beings, or not. Fondness develops over time. That's also why I think if you have a problem with this possibility, you should just not be seeing escorts, or you should just stick to a very basic service. No we are not your girlfriends, but we are also not here to offer you access to a level of intimacy you don't deserve in my opinion if you see us as nothing but a human sex toy.
The clients who troll threads constantly about how we are nothing but whores with big dollar signs in our eyes and no brains, and insisting on our roles as solely sexual objects are telling on themselves, honestly. For instance one of the guys who was banned recently was pissed because he sent me a link to a review and asked if he would get the exact same service, I said I can't promise that because everyone is a different individual. lol He started trolling me on every single thread.
I think everyone wants to feel special. I would like someone to say I'm their ATF honestly, and I think a lot of clients want to feel like they hold a particular place in the provider's heart. Sometimes, that is actually the case even if there isn't a real romantic relationship happening. There are clients I actually get along with a lot more than others, usually because of our conversations and similarities in terms of personality. But it's not something you can force, and unless the client is booking me extremely often, I won't be seeing him more than anybody else.
For me this doesn't mean that the two people have fallen in love or are in some kind of serious emotional affair, it's just normal to connect with other human beings, or not. Fondness develops over time. That's also why I think if you have a problem with this possibility, you should just not be seeing escorts, or you should just stick to a very basic service. No we are not your girlfriends, but we are also not here to offer you access to a level of intimacy you don't deserve in my opinion if you see us as nothing but a human sex toy.
The clients who troll threads constantly about how we are nothing but whores with big dollar signs in our eyes and no brains, and insisting on our roles as solely sexual objects are telling on themselves, honestly. For instance one of the guys who was banned recently was pissed because he sent me a link to a review and asked if he would get the exact same service, I said I can't promise that because everyone is a different individual. lol He started trolling me on every single thread.
