Do you ever get too excited in a session and bust a nut too early? Lol

[Smitty Jaeger-Manjenson]

I get it but any dude** is going to be irritated with themselves if he busts in 2 minutes lol. Even if its a chill sesh, not engaging in a pornographic performance.

I know I would be even if I felt very comfortable and not judged by her.

**obviously I cant speak for all guys but Cumming early as something to be embarassed about has been etched into the male psyche imo

As far as "pornographic performance" being the standard, guys need to remember that most porno scenes nowadays are faker than pro wrestling. One thing that annoys me to a great extent is the often obvious use of jump cuts; no, the typical sexual encounter does not normally feature 20+ minutes of penetration, they're just stretching it out to justify selling the scene to you (poor wretched souls, they still realize that most guys will get it bootlegged anyway but insist on a tantric sex performance that the Yoga masters would be proud of).

But your point is equally valid that it is engrained in many guys' psyche (evolutionary psychology?) to be ashamed of busting prematurely i.e. 2 minutes.1) You're leaving the woman unsatisfied, 2) You're not making a good impression as a male, 3) You just spent $200+ on a two minute ride.

 

[AstonMartinBond]

Book Isa and hold on after 4 seconds once she greets you

 

[Lunaseraphim]

As far as "pornographic performance" being the standard, guys need to remember that most porno scenes nowadays are faker than pro wrestling. One thing that annoys me to a great extent is the often obvious use of jump cuts; no, the typical sexual encounter does not normally feature 20+ minutes of penetration, they're just stretching it out to justify selling the scene to you (poor wretched souls, they still realize that most guys will get it bootlegged anyway but insist on a tantric sex performance that the Yoga masters would be proud of).

But your point is equally valid that it is engrained in many guys' psyche (evolutionary psychology?) to be ashamed of busting prematurely i.e. 2 minutes.1) You're leaving the woman unsatisfied, 2) You're not making a good impression as a male, 3) You just spent $200+ on a two minute ride.

Honestly in my personal life most of the time sex hasn't lasted for hours with boyfriends and I still felt satisfied. you get to enjoy what you can.

 

[madmonkey82]

It happened to me a few times.

Once with Sarah at Zyramuse. She did this thing that just got me going and i popped in about a minute.

The first time i tried anal with an sp 20 plus years ago.

Usually the way i like my sessions are lots of DATY and Dato. Then at the last 10 minutes i just go with the flow. Also that's why i like MP more than agencies. It allows for more foreplay, cuddling and teasing making the time more fun for all involved.