Disturbing Tendencies at Agencies

[Carl.is.Jung]

We have few facts at hand, we are all guessing as to any individual's real reasons, and since no one participating in the thread seems to exclude clients due to race/ethnicity we can only guess. Given the number of profiles I have personally come across that have have those "restrictions", and the fact that I've enjoyed and worked in different facets of Quebec's sex industry for more years than I'll admit, the likelihood of zero percent of these profiles having nothing to do with pure and unadulterated racism is fucking zero. Our "cultural heritage" is racist. I've witnessed more than I need to, and I've had racists try to include me in their whispered unfiltered hate-fest because of my pasty white flesh and blue eyes.
Deal. With. It. Ignoring and denying it doesn't make it go away.

No one is denying that racism (ubiquitously) exists in everyday society.
The crux of the issue is can people understand that it's ok to filter clients based on ethnicity (while potentially continuing to see some ethnic 'Legacy' regulars) for reasons that go beyond simply skin color. Basically a woman's right to choose and discriminate harmlessly.

 

[Fradi]

What a racist comment!

No, just clueless. I think she means well.
There are so many people who were murdered even wiped out for being a different nationality or religion throughout the ages and many of them were white.
Yes it has a different name as ethnic cleansing but it is definitely racist.

 

[Mandouke]

No, just clueless. I think she means well.

Perhaps you are right! I do not know her. It is, however, a very ignorant and juvenile comment considering the topic.

 

[Mandouke]

I am curious, have you ever been outside of North America?

Go to Europe and see that in full view.

 

[rraider]

The comparison to saying no to white guys because of bad experience is so flawed. Imagine going to Haiti and being black, doing a bad impression to a SP. Do you think she will refuse black from now on ?

Whether you like it or not, blacks are still a minority clientele in this field of work and no one will turn down the majority of their clientele for one bad experience. Like I said before they are fully booked even with those restrictions which would probably not be the case the other way around.

It really sucks for all the members here that don't deserve this. It really does. But I'm sure there's plenty of gems to be uncover that does allow blacks. And from what I see from the majority, you only need 1 or 2 keepers to be happy. They are just a little bit harder to find I guess...

 

[Fradi]

if you are white, you are not as likely to be discriminated against when trying to get healthcare. you are not going to experience police brutality. etc. I see your point, in canada most people have it pretty good to a certain extent, but think about the history of canada for a second. you don't think ethnic cleansing happened here?

You have limited your view and your comments based on the few years you have lived here in a free country that is heaven on earth compared to many countries and make wild statements that white people cannot experience racism.

I suggest you read a bit of history and you will find things to the contrary. and except for the indigenous people of the past there was nothing in Canada compared to other parts of the world going back hundreds of years and still happening today.
I don’t believe trying to get health care, not being booked or not getting your dick sucked is on the same level.

 

[Toto beefcake]

What a racist comment!

Dumb is more like it. I guess the irish and the slavic people ( of which the term slave comes from) among others have nothing to say lol .

 

[Michelle Gunn]

You have limited your view and your comments based on the few years you have lived here in a free country that is heaven on earth compared to many countries and make wild statements that white people cannot experience racism.

I suggest you read a bit of history and you will find things to the contrary. and except for the indigenous people of the past there was nothing in Canada compared to other parts of the world going back hundreds of years and still happening today.
I don’t believe trying to get health care, not being booked or not getting your dick sucked is on the same level.

The last residential schools in Canada (where they are now digging up the remains of children) closed in the 90s. People who survived those places are very much alive today. People are currently dying due to racism in healthcare in this country and others.

Not getting your dick sucked by some girl is not on the same level, no, but it's still part of the problem.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

The last residential schools in Canada (where they are now digging up the remains of children) closed in the 90s. People who survived those places are very much alive today. People are currently dying due to racism in healthcare in this country and others.

Not getting your dick sucked by some girl is not on the same level, no, but it's still part of the problem.

Excellent point and a great example of racism that really matters and has a direct consequence on the ability to survive (in our very own 1st world country). Shameful.

Thanks for the perspective - sincerely.

 

[Nachoy]

This is a hot topic that needs to be discuss lots of discrimination and prejudices exist in our world
In our own working lives too. not just with how the SP selects their clientele

 

[Fradi]

The last residential schools in Canada (where they are now digging up the remains of children) closed in the 90s. People who survived those places are very much alive today. People are currently dying due to racism in healthcare in this country and others.

Not getting your dick sucked by some girl is not on the same level, no, but it's still part of the problem.

The racism experienced in Canada is minuscule compared to other parts of the world and people are not dying in health care because of racism they are dying because our health care is piss poor due to decades of governments both federal and provincial miss management
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They will see you in the emergency at every hospital no matter what colour you are and even if you are not Canadian so that is false , you might die by the time they get to you though.

I did mention the indigenous people they have a legitimate claim to extreme racism.

 

[Rebaynia]

What kind of racist would have a best black friend? If he were truly racist, what's the probability of that actually occuring?
I'm sincerely curious...

I think the very biggest cliché in this day and age is the over used phrase by a white person saying I'm not racist I have 'A' black friend, but... (proceeds to say something racist).

Not saying preference is racist, but, I prefer this race to that one is not the same as I don't concider this race because, (insert generalized racial reason).

But main reason I had to call this out was the very cliché thing we tend to do announcing our friendships to excuse or explain a controversial point.

 

[Fradi]

I think the very biggest cliché in this day and age is the over used phrase by a white person saying I'm not racist I have 'A' black friend, but... (proceeds to say something racist).

Not saying preference is racist, but, I prefer this race to that one is not the same as I don't concider this race because, (insert generalized racial reason).

But main reason I had to call this out was the very cliché thing we tend to do announcing our friendships to excuse or explain a controversial point.

Racism is not exclusive to white people.
There are many black people who are racist against whites and asians or any one that is different to them.
There isn’t any race, ethnicity or colour that is immune to racism or doesn’t have it amongst them

Let’s just agree that it is ugly no matter who practices it.
People should be judged on their actions and behaviour period.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

I think the very biggest cliché in this day and age is the over used phrase by a white person saying I'm not racist I have 'A' black friend, but... (proceeds to say something racist).

Not saying preference is racist, but, I prefer this race to that one is not the same as I don't concider this race because, (insert generalized racial reason).

But main reason I had to call this out was the very cliché thing we tend to do announcing our friendships to excuse or explain a controversial point.

Naaaaa.... A true racist would never keep friends with said member of whatever race his bigotry is towards.

The same way a vegetarian wouldn't eat meat only 6 out of seven days.

I think perhaps some of you have other things going on in your lives and maybe just need to spar and vent just for the sake of arguing.

One has to be open to the idea that their view on things may be susceptible to tunnel vision.

My black, and Chinese, and Indian, and Filipino, and Algerian friends are an integral part of my life. But my preference in sexual partners is primarily (but not exclusively) white.

Sorry, but there's no racism here. The same way I prefer chocolate cake over vanilla.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Btw is this thread about racism or about a woman's right to choose? Seriously. Cuz I would simply start a seperate thread (( )) dedicated to racism.

Think deeply before you answer (and leave your desire to vent out if possible).

This thread is about a woman's right to choose and select her clients, regardless of her "PERSONAL" reasons. No ones' business but hers. Think about it.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Btw is this thread about racism or about a woman's right to choose? Seriously. Cuz I would simply start a seperate thread (( )) dedicated to racism

Do you have any clue how many other threads are already started on this topic? Do we really need another?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Dumb is more like it. I guess the irish and the slavic people ( of which the term slave comes from) among others have nothing to say lol .

You've got a point here! It's true that historically, Irish people among others were discriminated against. But you better not call me dumb.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

You cannot be racist against what we call white people, which is a social construct among other things, because white people are oppressing other races. However, yes, I agree that some people will reject us because they immediately see us as oppressors and not as real people, but this isn't the same thing as racism. It's kinda like how some women hate men. You cannot be sexist against men, but there can be an unfair bias.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I am curious, have you ever been outside of North America?

Yes, I have. I've actually travelled a lot.

 

[Fradi]

My black, and Chinese, and Indian, and Filipino, and Algerian friends are an integral part of my life. But my preference in sexual partners is primarily (but not exclusively)

I am afraid you will have to name a friend from every nationality in the world otherwise you will never be able to explain the ridiculous statement you made that you can’t be racist because you have a best friend who is black.
Only a thousand pages of friends and nationalities to go. Good luck.