Dealbreaker or not?

[Atreus]

BBBJ NO
DATY NO
DFK NO

I like those three things, but I feel consent goes a long way and if someone is un comfortable or doesnt want to theres a reason. This being said, big deal breaker is not being able to touch/kiss their body. Boobs, ass.. etc

But having tried those service throught agency, it would be hard to go back. Even tho, it makes me anxious to do unprotected services.

 

[oneday]

The more I think about it digits are very important to me too. I love to finger while I eat, while we kiss, while she goes down on me. I bought a nail file just for this purpose lol.

Exactly me too always a finger there or two and compare to

The more I think about it digits are very important to me too. I love to finger while I eat, while we kiss, while she goes down on me. I bought a nail file just for this purpose lol.

Exactly me too i almost always have a finger or two inside if its not my dick!
And if you compare to BBBJ or Daty theres no risk so.. and for the kissing i like it when im fucking but only if the girl is into it in the same way i am like more sensual not too fast!
For digit too im liking it too only if the girl into it but most of the time even if im not doing it exactly like she would want to i prefer to be smooth because i dont want to turn her off.. so yep digit for the win✌️

 

[massagecentre]

Simple questions, 3 answers would you still book if those weren’t offered:

Kissing in a session, dealbreaker or not?

BBBJ in a session, dealbreaker or not?

DATY in a session, dealbreaker or not?


I’ve asked them separately because people all have different needs and I’m curious

I need all 3 plus 69, without 1, I will look elsewhere with so many choices

 

[Misfortune Teller]

Super curious as well !!

I love kissing too. It's part of the experience to me. It's always a little awkward for me when someone doesnt want to kiss but of course I dont force it haha. If I was a client I wouldn't book someone who won't kiss.

Im also a huge fan of oral both ways, so if I was a client that would probably be super important.

Curious to see clients replies!

Awesome response, Julia. No kissing means no date. For me, DFK is what it's all about.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Awesome response, Julia. No kissing means no date. For me, DFK is what it's all about.

Same for me

 

[Misfortune Teller]

Same for me

I think it's time to set up a date with Julia Sky!

 

[Sean007]

For me all 3 are dealbreakers.

I will go in a GFE encounter expecting all 3.

DFK is important as long as performed well. Needs to start light and them involving the tongue slowly and gradually as the passion increases. A girl sticking her tongue hard and deep in my mouth from the get go is not kissing properly.

DATY and BBBJ go hand in hand and are both equally important after DFK.

If I end up meeting a girl not offering thèse services I will make the most out of it but will not repeat.

 

[Misfortune Teller]

For me all 3 are dealbreakers.

I will go in a GFE encounter expecting all 3.

DFK is important as long as performed well. Needs to start light and them involving the tongue slowly and gradually as the passion increases. A girl sticking her tongue hard and deep in my mouth from the get go is not kissing properly.

DATY and BBBJ go hand in hand and are both equally important after DFK.

If I end up meeting a girl not offering thèse services I will make the most out of it but will not repeat.

I agree about the DFK buildup. Yes, the other two are important, but the DFK is numero uno in my books.

 

[Misfortune Teller]

I agree about the DFK buildup. Yes, the other two are important, but the DFK is numero uno in my books.

For me, DFK missing from a date with a woman is like a rudderless ship tossed about in a tempestuous ocean.

 

[Misfortune Teller]

For me it's pretty simple. I don't mind if she allows daty or not, I usually never go down on girls, unless she ask for it.
Bbbj or cbj is okay with me, I usually never stay long in that part.

A big must for me is kissing, if you don't kiss I'm not gonna call you. Even if you're popular or rated best provider of the year.

I couldn't agree with you more. It's all about the DFK.

 

[stormman]

For me, all 3 a required. I love kissing and o have a golden rule, I never cum first. God I love making my partner of the moment cum by daty.

 

[Enjoying life]

SPS are very health conscious compared to girl bar hoppers!

Most hpvs clear up on their own ! Just have safe sex no data

 

[Leovinci]

No DATY or DATO is a deal breaker. I can live without BBJ
I can deal with no DFK, but I love exploring a woman's body with my tongue, and that's a major part of my satisfaction.
Also, I ADORE women's feet, so if an SP doesn't wish me to worship her feet, it's a no go.

I have more flexible guidelines for trans SP's though

 

[Enjoying life]

No DATY or DATO is a deal breaker. I can live without BBJ
I can deal with no DFK, but I love exploring a woman's body with my tongue, and that's a major part of my satisfaction.
Also, I ADORE women's feet, so if an SP doesn't wish me to worship her feet, it's a no go.

I have more flexible guidelines for trans SP's though

Feet of course no polish small toes

 

[ishcon]

For me, a true GFE is built on real intimacy — the kind that comes from genuine touch and emotion. Kissing is where it all begins; that first deep, slow kiss breaks every barrier and makes the moment feel alive. BBBJ brings that pure, unfiltered connection — skin meeting skin, passion flowing naturally. And DATY is something I deeply cherish, because I love giving pleasure as much as I receive it.
I don’t seek encounters just for my own satisfaction; I want to share something mutual — a moment where both hearts race together, where every touch feels meaningful, and where both walk away smiling, feeling desired and connected. That’s what true intimacy means to me.

I always look for SPs who share the same mindset — someone who values real connection and mutual pleasure. Sadly, many sessions end up feeling one-sided; some say they’re into intimacy, but once we meet, the mood just isn’t there.

Fortunately, I’ve also met a few amazing SPs who were genuinely passionate, warm, and fully engaged. With them, everything felt natural — the chemistry, the closeness, the mutual desire. Those moments remind me why I value real intimacy so much, where both can truly feel the connection and enjoy every second together.

 

[Enjoying life]

For me, a true GFE is built on real intimacy — the kind that comes from genuine touch and emotion. Kissing is where it all begins; that first deep, slow kiss breaks every barrier and makes the moment feel alive. BBBJ brings that pure, unfiltered connection — skin meeting skin, passion flowing naturally. And DATY is something I deeply cherish, because I love giving pleasure as much as I receive it.
I don’t seek encounters just for my own satisfaction; I want to share something mutual — a moment where both hearts race together, where every touch feels meaningful, and where both walk away smiling, feeling desired and connected. That’s what true intimacy means to me.

I always look for SPs who share the same mindset — someone who values real connection and mutual pleasure. Sadly, many sessions end up feeling one-sided; some say they’re into intimacy, but once we meet, the mood just isn’t there.

Fortunately, I’ve also met a few amazing SPs who were genuinely passionate, warm, and fully engaged. With them, everything felt natural — the chemistry, the closeness, the mutual desire. Those moments remind me why I value real intimacy so much, where both can truly feel the connection and enjoy every second together.works best with 30+

 

[Enjoying life]

Usually that works best with 30+

 

[4Beliveau4]

Kissing is a must for me. I enjoy it very much.

I PREFER a BBBJ but it is not a hard requirement but definitely a strong preference.

DATY is a must for me as well. I really enjoy it and from all accounts from women in and out of the industry,I am quite good so I sort of like to show it off

 

[rick100]

Feet of course no polish small toes

If you don’t mind me asking, where do you indulge in Foot Fetish Activities? There doesn’t seems to have many outlets in Montreal for such.

 

[Torycats]

Im shocked at how many people on this forum enjoy DATY. To the point where it can even be a dealbreaker if you cant?