Clients and providers what are your dream social date ideas?
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I did the maze a long time ago when my oldest was a young child. There has been an indoor maze for many years.
I just had to go find the history of the labyrinth.
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I keep telling you I am not interested in meeting clients for free and you keep telling me I might change my mind for the right activity.
I sure hope you’re not like that when you meet SPs. Learn how to respect a “no” and a “I don’t want to”
As she said : absolutely not.
Why do you think you get to speak for her? She's a person not a robot that you can train into changing her answer.
In the past few weeks there's been a conspiracy theory of how we are forcing social time and long bookings on clients.. My conspiracy theory : a lot of clients here want us to go on unpaid dates with them and give them a bunch of extra time and force ourselves to offer services we don't like
JK...
But seriously also. Consider my comment above.. I don't know if going on unpaid dates and seeing each other outside of bookings is the healthiest thing to do, because in that situations blurred lines can occur and things could get messy.
Some clients do want social bookings with escorts, and they know they have to pay for it and they know not to try to turn this into a romantic relationship. Also when clients book 3,4,5 hours do you think we have sex the whole time? No. These types of bookings include a social aspect to a degree. Even clients who book me for 2 hours often like to talk.
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Non mais il faudrait qu’il en revienne. C’est lourd et j’espère de tout cœur qu’il n’est pas comme ça durant ses rendez-vous sinon quel lourdeur. Je bloquerais son numéro
Veux tu un doigt dans le cul?
Non
Mais tu vas peut être changer d’avis plus tard et vouloir un doigt dans le cul
Non
Tu te plains trop
PS: the waitresses at Bord'elle are very pretty, even prettier than the entertainers
You should offer to take clients skydiving and other activities instead. Lena and the many providers reacting are justified in not wanting to spend time with clients for free.
PS2: you will be able to get on stage your face washed or go to the booth for some songs
Face washing?PS2: you will be able to get on stage your face washed or go to the booth for some songs
Sorry I literally translated a Cantonese slang describing when someone shove their tits on your face lol
Nope but I used to live in Hong Kong and learnt it
If you want free dates, travel. If you want to monger in Montreal then "when in Rome" applies. Accept the local culture and STFU or go somewhere else where it's different, or step outside the local rules and systems and do something different. Nobody says you have to play by them, even locally. If you're going to hobby in Montreal in the conventional infrastructure then you're making a conscious decision to accept its disadvantages and limitations, as well as its benefits. Trying to change the entirety of local mores and customs as an individual is a fruitless and likely frustrating exercise. For those of you who have formed real friendships and partake in such activities with whomever then good for you. You're the exception and congrats on finding a good friend in the industry. It doesn't mean that everyone is going to act this way and it's totally unrealistic to expect them to, given the system here. Get over it and either work within the system or adapt. This is not a kumbaya social exercise, it's a commercial enterprise and people shouldn't forget that. Nobody asks carpenters and plumbers to hang out and work for extra hours for free. Why should the SPs? They are not shrinks and it's not their responsibility to prop up the shortcomings of someone's social life on their own dime.
So, having said that, is the Montreal scene a more rigid and less social atmosphere than other options? Yes, it is. So what? It's like anything else. If you understand the limitations and the benefits of your choices, however you perceive them, and you make the conscious decision to choose that option, then that's it. Live with it, and If you didn't know beforehand and didn't like the result then do something different next time. Enjoy the experience for what it was and put it in your goody-bag of memories and move on.
Sorry, I'm a couple of cocktails in and I'm just fucking sick of the whining and navel gazing that seems to be coming up on the board lately.
So, having said that, is the Montreal scene a more rigid and less social atmosphere than other options? Yes, it is. So what? It's like anything else. If you understand the limitations and the benefits of your choices, however you perceive them, and you make the conscious decision to choose that option, then that's it. Live with it, and If you didn't know beforehand and didn't like the result then do something different next time. Enjoy the experience for what it was and put it in your goody-bag of memories and move on.
Sorry, I'm a couple of cocktails in and I'm just fucking sick of the whining and navel gazing that seems to be coming up on the board lately.
You should learn to drink less before a diatribe like that. Pretty incoherent
Do let me say this clearly so you understand
1: I DON’T EXPECT ANY PROVIDER TO GO ANYWHERE WITH ME FOR FREE!!!! IS THAT CLEAR ENOUGH!!!
2: All I have said is that in 25 years of hobbying here in Montreal, there has often been providers who freely choose to join me in activities that are non sexual and not compensated. Why? I don’t know, but they do and I do not berate them into it. If it’s never happened to YOU doesn’t mean it hasn’t happened to some one else. As in all things escort related YMMV.
Enough said
Ah, well, not everyone has critical reading skills. Perhaps if you go back and read it again it will make sense to you. You'll also find that it confirms what you said when you were making it "clear" for me. At least in broad strokes. I can't help you with what you've failed to understand in the details. Or what you've failed to glean from context in my other posts. Still, you do you. I'm sure no one else does it better.
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