Hi guys, I am relatively new to the hobby and I was just wondering what the etiquette is around CIM. I understand CIM as being the SP is in charge and doing all the work, so to speak. But what about CIM without ? Does CIM mean that the SP is in charge i.e. controlling the HJ, or is the client responsible for his own HJ and the SP simply takes the load?
CIM Etiquette
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Lily from Montreal
Happened to me where I was receiving a and CIM without first asking if it was ok with her....and it wasn`t
We hadn`t discussed it before and I kinda got lost in the moment.
Luckily for me she was a good sport and didn`t get mad, but I still felt bad and extensively apologized...and gave her a monetary compensation.
Actually my reaction to her reaction was kinda funny and got us both laughing.
Very simple
First, I usually ask if its OK, then...
I kind of "Warn" them that something is on its way and things happen automatically,
every girls react / prepares differently, use different tactics...
First, I usually ask if its OK, then...
I kind of "Warn" them that something is on its way and things happen automatically,
every girls react / prepares differently, use different tactics...
God I remember the days when you would just tell the gal, yeah I promise I won't cum in your mouth, then dropped a load for her lol
CIM is just Cum in Mouth, no matter how you like it, trough a BJ, jerking yourself in her mouth, whatever... Agencies list it to mention its ok with a particular girl.
As for cumming without notice, well either your a silent one or the girl is not very aware, when im about to cum the girl can see it cumming, both my face or how i make my body solid hard... i dunno... Im just super resistant these days... its crazy... I mean the first 2-3 time i saw escorts i was able to cum in there mouth in no time, not much effort. Now she got to go double time and i could resist cuming for the whole hour if i want it. I even stop masturbating 2 days before a meeting just to be sure i will be at max pleasure...
And i don't think it comes from the look of the girl, as most i saw recently where very great looking. Maybe BBJ skills can be a factor... i guess it is sure, but either i saw just so many hot girls the effect is not the same anymore?
As for cumming without notice, well either your a silent one or the girl is not very aware, when im about to cum the girl can see it cumming, both my face or how i make my body solid hard... i dunno... Im just super resistant these days... its crazy... I mean the first 2-3 time i saw escorts i was able to cum in there mouth in no time, not much effort. Now she got to go double time and i could resist cuming for the whole hour if i want it. I even stop masturbating 2 days before a meeting just to be sure i will be at max pleasure...
And i don't think it comes from the look of the girl, as most i saw recently where very great looking. Maybe BBJ skills can be a factor... i guess it is sure, but either i saw just so many hot girls the effect is not the same anymore?
Yeah... i guest im just a super sexual person... and in real life i don't have anything else than the good ol right hand... so well... Im starting to worry tough, as i need more and more with years to get satisfy in term of porn... im starting to find it boring and all and like i said even with smoking hot chicks im still "resistant" Sometimes i wished i would be a minute man and just do it, cum, do it again and so on... LOL
BBBJ etiquette
Are you supposed to let SP know that you're about to come from a BBBJ or is it up to the SP to figure it out and decide to let you CIM/COF or not ? Or this something that's better discussed earlier with SP ?
Also what's the consensus on surprise CIM/COF where the client tries to hide the fact that he's gonna come from a BBBJ in order to achieve a surprise CIM/COF? I believe doing that's pretty unethical if the client already knows the SP doesn't allow CIM/COF.
We could also extend the discussion to handjobs at massage parlours that don't offer more extras where the client controls their orgasm and muscles in a way to try to have the semen shoot on the masseuses face/chest/belly without her expecting it.
Are you supposed to let SP know that you're about to come from a BBBJ or is it up to the SP to figure it out and decide to let you CIM/COF or not ? Or this something that's better discussed earlier with SP ?
Also what's the consensus on surprise CIM/COF where the client tries to hide the fact that he's gonna come from a BBBJ in order to achieve a surprise CIM/COF? I believe doing that's pretty unethical if the client already knows the SP doesn't allow CIM/COF.
We could also extend the discussion to handjobs at massage parlours that don't offer more extras where the client controls their orgasm and muscles in a way to try to have the semen shoot on the masseuses face/chest/belly without her expecting it.
When its my first time with the lady, out of respect i always let them know i am close and let them take it from there, so to speak. And if she is a pro, she knows when your about to spill your goo...
I was just berated by some man-hating bitch, agency owner in TO for asking the question: can a SP sense when a man is about to cum? Apparently some can’t. No matter, as I don’t normally finish this way. If I do, I derive satisfaction of shouting a warning of “I’m cumming.”
Agree.....first time it's very rare and i never discuss that....will go with the flow BUT after--si la chimie opère--i let her decide and very often it works tout naturellement.
An sp is not a girlfriend. Settle the details before the session begins. Always ask at the beginning if cim/cof/greek is offered. This way you know the limit. For the life of me do not do a cim or cof without any warning as you then might have to look for a new penis
I have never performed CIM on a SP without having confirmation from her that she will allow it. If i really enjoy their BBBJ and i feel like CIM, i will always ask her if she offers it (and for how much so i dont get a surprise extra at the end!) I will never do it without asking, that is just rude. People doing it without letting them know do not know the meaning of the word respect.
There is only one time where i didnt officially ask for it. It was with a SP that i was seeing often. We never did CIM before but we had a pretty intense encounter where she jumped on me as soon as i came into the room, she pulled my pants down and started a furious BBBJ. When i was feeling i was about to cum, i just told her i was gonna cum and she just never stopped until i exploded. Even though i love it that time, i was feeling weird because i didnt know for sure if she heard me and i always want things to be clear and be respectful so now i ask before. I will not let them know seconds before it happens
There is only one time where i didnt officially ask for it. It was with a SP that i was seeing often. We never did CIM before but we had a pretty intense encounter where she jumped on me as soon as i came into the room, she pulled my pants down and started a furious BBBJ. When i was feeling i was about to cum, i just told her i was gonna cum and she just never stopped until i exploded. Even though i love it that time, i was feeling weird because i didnt know for sure if she heard me and i always want things to be clear and be respectful so now i ask before. I will not let them know seconds before it happens
An sp is not a girlfriend. Settle the details before the session begins. Always ask at the beginning if cim/cof/greek is offered. This way you know the limit. For the life of me do not do a cim or cof without any warning as you then might have to look for a new penis
Which was what I was doing. She had just got out of the shower and crawled into bed with me.
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