Asking girls for BBFS

[jalimon]

Yes maybe clarck... What piss me off personnaly is because both sam of xo and an indy advertising here warned me one of these assholes was using my handle to contact them!

 

[RobertNYC]

Thanks Eagle and Clarke. I mean, WTF. I had these conversations when I was 15, and even then I was stating the fucking obvious. I’m done with this thread. Shut it down please

 

[clark_larson]

haha, well don't give your handle when call xo. I cease to exist once I log off.

 

[EagerBeaver]

haha, well don't give your handle when call xo. I cease to exist once I log off.

Bingo, and if you are such a well known client, then the girls and owner presumably know who you are and what you look like, regardless of what your fake handle or name is. So unless you are a nobody client or a crybaby, it should not even matter. Suck it up and wear the big boy pants, even if they do not fit.

 

[MrProfiteroles]

I "sincerely" wish you guys you enjoy your next trip at MTL and don't have to deal with any STD in a near or far future!

At least one of your compatriot sent me a PM this morning and thanks me to bring this up for is next trip plan in January!

And Thanks keeping this thread alive! That's just helping the message to reach those are concerned!

Like we say here in Quebec, there is no smoke without fire! :flame:


Best regards.

Mr.P

 

[RobertNYC]

Thank you Mr Profit. Most of us were not sure about the birds and bees (risk of pregnancy) or STDs until you had mentioned the topics. Wonderful public service announcement. Thank you.

 

[TheJames101]

It's always interesting to see the massive taboo regarding the std talk in the community here and elsewhere (europe too). The reasoning is always "we know the risks, so shut up". First of all, I've noticed that many posters do *not* in fact know the risks as well as they think, as evidenced by the misinformation that's often posted (for instance the stats on the transferability of HIV).
Second, just because you know the risks now or in the past does not mean those risks stay the same. It is an ever changing topic, and thus always worthy of discussion.

 

[clark_larson]

It is not taboo. It is just that the subject is very limited once you give it a proper explanation. Then the only thing left is for the members of the board to express their disgust for it, Trying to sound more disgusted than the previous poster as if they were trying to convince someone that amidst the filth they could be hygienic.

 

[Willgill]

It is not taboo. It is just that the subject is very limited once you give it a proper explanation.

Second this. And FYI there is a whole sub forum called "Health Info" where you can find all the facts and statistics of STD that you want.

 

[jalimon]

Dudes think about the girls as they are the one having to deal with the irresponsibility of other girl accepting bbfs or worst all these dudes that try to bbfs them. The thread needed to be revived, it was and its good.

Cheers,

 

[clark_larson]

Ranting on it won't help anyone.

Once both people are behind shut doors there is little we can do. What are you gonna do? Jump out of nowhere and cockblock the dude and instruct him on condoms?

But hey, I've been posting on more useless threads than this one.

 

[Julia Sky]

But no one complains when people keep saying the same shit about politics 365 times a year just saying

I used politics because it's a great example but plenty of other subjects as well...

 

[MaxxxEdge]

All this talk of potential risk... yet how many of you are responsible enough to get tested regularly so that you are (almost) NOT a potential STD transmittal vector inadvertently?? Let's be honest... most of you talk about GFE/BBBJ/DATY et cetera in other threads... you can do whatever you want to minimize your risk, but you are still a potential vector. All it takes is one, no?

 

[RobertNYC]

Thanks Clark. This dialogue (which I finally am removing myself from right now) is a reflection of the lunacy in society, whether it’s the #MeToo movement or cable news in general. Each subsequent poster has to sound more impassioned and crazier than the last individual. “Well you think you’re disgusted Clark...well let me tell you....!!!!”

 

[UncleBob]

This thread should remain as a Sensibilisation because it's a VERY important plague in this hobby...

It is exactly like the drink and drive.
We all know since our very young age that no one should drink and drive.
We all know the consequence for ourself and the others.

But still, people do it.
Gov spend our money to make shocking ads but still, there are some that seem to wait until they provoke an accident...

This thread should remain and ANY other thread about the subject no matter what.

 

[jalimon]

For example, what is with this CIM swallow ? I would think that any girls engaging in this type of activity should be put in the HIGH RISK category.

Could be wrong but from what I know cimsawllow is not at more risk then bbbj. BBBJ DT and FF is a much more bigger risk because of the lesion it can create.

But that said there is a thread for these discussion about risk. This thread should be dedicated to the morons wanting/asking/forcing bbfs no?

It's our duty to try to keep Montreal as it is! (I know this sound arrogant and selfish of me, that's the way it is).

Cheers,

 

[MaxxxEdge]

unclebob,

the problem with drinking and driving and why its so hard to stop it despite ads, despite fines,despite anything, is because most people with a few drinks don't want to admit or accept that they are intoxicated and impaired. They think they they can still keep it together for that trip home. Its a trap many fall into.

How is that any different from hobbyists who practice less than "safe" sex who don't want to admit or accept the possibility that they might have something transmittable when they don't run a full panel test at least periodically? You can blow into a meter and check your BAC... not perfect, but it does minimize risk. You can also get a full panel STD screening to make sure you minimize the risk of passing on something you may have acquired, yet how many people do it?

So far, I know of one person who has posted in this thread that tests regularly, not because I've had to for scenes, but as a courtesy and respect for the well-being of SP's/others. I've had top shelf condoms break accidentally, girls who take me in the mouth and swallow unexpectedly as I'm cumming (not on menu, not requested, nor expected), one that even tried to BBFS when I was on my back turned away reaching for protection (don't worry... Euro girl, not Canadian). I realize that these things are typically uncommon, yet they happen. I'm a hygiene freak, and have never had a STD -- knock on wood -- and do what I can to minimize risk to myself and others. Anyone else?? It's easy to talk about potential risk, especially about those who engage in "high risk" behaviors relative to ourselves, yet that mouth that swallowed that unsafe load may still be the mouth you are sticking your dick inside shortly afterwards. You can't control what others do behind closed doors, despite the risk it may later pose to you... you can only control what you do to minimize risk to yourself and propagating that risk. Some of you need to get off your soapbox...

 

[MaxxxEdge]

Could be wrong but from what I know cimsawllow is not at more risk then bbbj. BBBJ DT and FF is a much more bigger risk because of the lesion it can create.

But that said there is a thread for these discussion about risk. This thread should be dedicated to the morons wanting/asking/forcing bbfs no?

It's our duty to try to keep Montreal as it is! (I know this sound arrogant and selfish of me, that's the way it is).

Cheers,

Trying to compare risk or quantify it does nothing...

 

[jalimon]

Well you would have to be one hell of a trick shot, to achieve cim with cbj. Doesn't it follow that BBBJ and CIM go together, but I was not talking about risk to the hobbyist, but to the escort and to hobbyists that follow. Of course if you have something , you can blow your load down a girls throat day and night, its no risk to you, but only to the escort.

Where did I mention CBJ in my post? Please edit.

Cheers,

 

[clark_larson]

All this talk of potential risk... yet how many of you are responsible enough to get tested regularly so that you are (almost) NOT a potential STD transmittal vector inadvertently?? Let's be honest... most of you talk about GFE/BBBJ/DATY et cetera in other threads... you can do whatever you want to minimize your risk, but you are still a potential vector. All it takes is one, no?

exactly my point

all these guys saying I fucked her in the ass, I spit in her mouth, I snowballed with three other gals, she swallowed my load, but dude doing bbfs? no way! Such people should be in jail! Criminals! #beCleanMoFo

Right...Easy to condemn to forget one's attitude.