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[Rebaynia]

What do you think is the proportion of your clients who are in a relationship vs single? I imagine some would have told you if they are but some probably lied to you.

40/60 mostly single men... a large portion of who I seem to come across are sinlge middle-aged men who tend to just be sweethearts who don't live a lifestyle tempting to a dating scenario... and I appreciate that they are often the types who enjoy cuddling and conversation as well.

The bedding process is only a fraction of what the expierience is, and having us both feel like we are people to eachother keeps them coming back for more.

Besides if I feel it is only for the bedding, I leave the expierience feeling cheap, so I tend to go for people looking for more than just a quick lay. There's enough girls and variety of personalities, I may not be what everyone is looking for, but those that fit what I need to qualify as a good visit, tend to need me as well. And many first timers too paying for it... I used to think they were full of it when they would say that, but have come to accept and appreciate that I seem to attract a kind of type.

And for visits I have with couples... I refuse to see him without her after... I couldn't have fun with the couple if I was holding that kind of secret from her. Besides I love adding to their relationship. I'm not there to get inbetween them, but to enhance their expieriences. And go by the philosophy, if she enjoys it he will be more likely to get the experience again, especially if she asks for a repeat... If she feels threatened, he may never get another chance.

And as for they may lie... not generally.. it doesn't benefit a man to lie to us about their homelife... they are likely lieing to her, but when there is a woman at home, he doesn't want to get caught by her. We don't want them to get in trouble either, and it is often too obvious to hide.

 

[Rebaynia]

What % of clients are genuinely wealthy?

Depends on her price point...

 

[NatashaSnow]

What % of clients are genuinely wealthy?

Depends on her price point...

^^ precisely.

My rate seems to be almost double the average I see on LL but within average on tryst.

For my price point, I would say 75% are very wealthy: as in they don’t care what my rate is, don’t crunch numbers before agreeing, take more than an hour etc. Lawyers, producers, doctors, surgeons, pilots, investment bankers and the like.
Then about 15% or so are comfortable enough to spend my rate but usually keep it at an hour and seems slightly more planned.
And then the final 10% for whom I was out of budget at first inquiry and they saved up and came back to me later.

 

[LC18]

What % of clients are genuinely wealthy?

What % of clients are genuinely wealthy?

Less than 1% of my clients have 6 figures salary and can see me more often, for longer or simply send me presents when we can’t see each other. That doesn’t make them better than less wealthy clients, however, they probably know me better and our relationship is probably more genuine because of how much we chat in between dates.

My rates are I believe lower than some of my peers so still accessible to men that have a more average salary.

 

[DouMan]

The bedding process is only a fraction of what the expierience is, and having us both feel like we are people to eachother keeps them coming back for more.

Besides if I feel it is only for the bedding, I leave the expierience feeling cheap, so I tend to go for people looking for more than just a quick lay.

Words of wisdom that can make the difference in an encounter and especially a well balanced career.

Newbies, both providers and customers, should hang this on their hobby wall.

 

[Sylar]

I am very surprised by the different statements and the clientele Lena and Natasha are attracting, and if I am not mistaken the two of you have similar rates:

Natasha: 75% very wealthy - the professions she listed definitely earn more than 6 figures
Lena: Less than 1% have 6 figure salary

This leads me to another questions: What kind of clientele do you attract? Is there a specific type that inquires with you? I don't just mean salary wise, but also age, sexual preference, education, background, heritage etc.

 

[LC18]

This leads me to another questions: What kind of clientele do you attract? Is there a specific type that inquires with you? I don't just mean salary wise, but also age, sexual preference, education, background, heritage etc.

I mean, not everyone comes to my studio and shouts their profession so it’s very possible that more than 1% is wealthy. Those who have talked about their profession were blue collars mostly. A few high school teachers, university professors, lawyers, judges a lot of photographers and a few programmers.

Ive only met 5 people under 35 and 2 people under 25 this year.

 

[tishina]

Is a meeting still exciting for you?

 

[LC18]

Is a meeting still exciting for you?

Is a meeting still exciting for you?
Yes, it’s either going to be with someone I already know and who I’m excited to see again or it’s going to be a total stranger and I won’t know if we’ll have a connection or not.

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

What % of clients are genuinely wealthy?

That’s a hard one because for me wealth is not about what you do for leaving it’s more about how often you come see me. Personally I think 40% of my clientele is genuinely wealthy (will generously tip and/or book multi hours); 58% are okay financially ( will pay my hour rate and will book each month or so ) and a 2% even less that are still students ( really struggle to book in person meetings but will suscribe to my onlyfan or pay for cam to cam ).

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

I am very surprised by the different statements and the clientele Lena and Natasha are attracting, and if I am not mistaken the two of you have similar rates:

Natasha: 75% very wealthy - the professions she listed definitely earn more than 6 figures
Lena: Less than 1% have 6 figure salary

This leads me to another questions: What kind of clientele do you attract? Is there a specific type that inquires with you? I don't just mean salary wise, but also age, sexual preference, education, background, heritage etc.

I tend to attract :
a lot of engineers (all kind in general); real estate investors; construction companies guys; and federal workers. I don’t think I ever got a doctor. I may get a few lawyers. Teachers I don’t think so either!

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

Is a meeting still exciting for you?

Oh yes! I’m always a little nervous in a good way/excited to meet someone either a new or old client.

 

[NatashaSnow]

I am very surprised by the different statements and the clientele Lena and Natasha are attracting, and if I am not mistaken the two of you have similar rates:

Natasha: 75% very wealthy - the professions she listed definitely earn more than 6 figures
Lena: Less than 1% have 6 figure salary

This leads me to another questions: What kind of clientele do you attract? Is there a specific type that inquires with you? I don't just mean salary wise, but also age, sexual preference, education, background, heritage etc.

Thought the same thing...

I mean, not everyone comes to my studio and shouts their profession so it’s very possible that more than 1% is wealthy. Those who have talked about their profession were blue collars mostly. A few high school teachers, university professors, lawyers, judges a lot of photographers and a few programmers.

Ive only met 5 people under 35 and 2 people under 25 this year.

I mean, their interrogations picked my curiosity so I went off to check out your website and online presence to see if y something stands out.

While we fall into the same petite physique category (although I’m short) with pretty similar rates, we’re marketing ourselves in a vastly différent way. I market myself as more of an extravagance, un plaisir intense mais relativement éphémère, kind of like the super horny, blazingly hot and drunk enough girl you take home from the bar, hit it off like soul mates, have the best sex of your life and realize after you get back to your place with breakfast and a coffee that she bolted and left you with only memories. I don’t advertise GFE, romantic dates or any sort of budding relationship that unfolds over time and all. Don’t get me wrong, I can be your regular girl no problem, but the above Is my vibe. I feel that’s likely a big part of the discrepancy in clientele.
and then, we’ll… who’s going to tell them @LC18 ?
I can’t possibly bring up the issue I have in mind but it was one I was oblivious to until I saw it with my own eyes while working at the stripclubs with my ebony counterparts.

 

[LC18]

I don’t know? Maybe I misunderstood the question @Euler141 You wanted to know what percentage of my clients were wealthy or how much do they spend on me? If I get big spenders?

Because quite honestly, even the university students that come to me book me for a minimum of 2h. I had my first 1h appointment in a long time and realized how much I hated those so I’ve raised my rate to a ridiculous amount so that people pick the 90 mins option over the 60 mins one.

But yes, I do advertise in a way to attract people wanting to book extended dates. Because of that I get a lot of dinner dates, overnights and was able to travel to USA and Asia.

I cannot complain about the amount of business I get, while my white peers may receive more emails, I hear some complain about not having many of those result in a serious booking.

 

[NatashaSnow]

I don’t know? Maybe I misunderstood the question. You wanted to know what percentage of my clients were wealthy or how much do they spend on me? If I get big spenders?

Because quite honestly, even the university students that come to me book me for a minimum of 2h. I had my first 1h appointment in a long time and realized how much I hated those so I’ve raised my rate to a ridiculous amount so that people pick the 90 mins option over the 60 mins one.

But yes, I do advertise in a way to attract people wanting to book extended dates. Because of that I get a lot of dinner dates, overnights and was able to travel to USA and Asia.

I cannot complain about the amount of business I get, while my white peers may receive more emails, I hear some complain about not having many of those result in a serious booking.

I was just trying to answer the reason to such discrepancy in % of wealthy clients not income discrepancy. I prefer to book an high price 1-2h baisodrome style doinkfest with bells and whistles over dinners and overnights because I can’t keep up with that stuff at all so perhaps that attracts more an overall very wealthy, somewhat impulsive and hedonistic clientele with odd schedules and tons of disposable income.

 

[LC18]

If you’re looking for a fun Saturday afternoon read. I have the exact same thread on terb

 

[Great]

STD's
How do you protect yourself against catching anything?
Do you worry about STD's?
Do you get checked? If you do, regularly?
Have you ever refused service to someone because you had a suspicion he(she?) had an STD?
Do you have any kind of screening for a client before having sex in terms of STD's?

The standard in this industry, at least in Canada is BBBJ (I've traveled extensively in Latin America where the standard is CBJ). This is risky (IMO) & basically only prevents against catching AIDS.
I usually - but not always - play things safe & go for covered BJ.
Some STD's - like Syphilis & Genital Warts - can't even be prevented when using a condom.

Years ago I had a condom break while having sex with a paid lady - it didn't scare me too much, but it made me worry & I decided to get tested. The lady said she was clean & I needn't worry - but I can't trust words & just made it a point to not have sex for about a month & then get tested. Also what made her so confident I was clean(I was & I knew it 100%).


Forgive if it's already asked here, I tried looking but couldn't find it.
Many thanks for any answers & opinions.
I know it's an awkward question but I'm dying to ask since I saw this thread.

 

[Lexus3]

STD's
How do you protect yourself against catching anything?
Do you worry about STD's?
Do you get checked? If you do, regularly?
Have you ever refused service to someone because you had a suspicion he(she?) had an STD?
Do you have any kind of screening for a client before having sex in terms of STD's?

The standard in this industry, at least in Canada is BBBJ (I've traveled extensively in Latin America where the standard is CBJ). This is risky (IMO) & basically only prevents against catching AIDS.
I usually - but not always - play things safe & go for covered BJ.
Some STD's - like Syphilis & Genital Warts - can't even be prevented when using a condom.

Years ago I had a condom break while having sex with a paid lady - it didn't scare me too much, but it made me worry & I decided to get tested. The lady said she was clean & I needn't worry - but I can't trust words & just made it a point to not have sex for about a month & then get tested. Also what made her so confident I was clean(I was & I knew it 100%).


Forgive if it's already asked here, I tried looking but couldn't find it.
Many thanks for any answers & opinions.
I know it's an awkward question but I'm dying to ask since I saw this thread.

Because of my professional background, something along with cleanliness/hygiene I am very aware of and extremely careful about. Not only STD, but also multiple other potentially infectious or contagious health issues. Could be skin related like scabies or other "rashes", shingles, heavy coughs etc which could in fact be indicative of a potentially transmissible condition best to avoid. My personal approach is, if unsure, pay and walk away.

Just a personal view.

 

[LC18]

STD's
How do you protect yourself against catching anything?
Do you worry about STD's?
Do you get checked? If you do, regularly?
Have you ever refused service to someone because you had a suspicion he(she?) had an STD?
Do you have any kind of screening for a client before having sex in terms of STD's?

The standard in this industry, at least in Canada is BBBJ (I've traveled extensively in Latin America where the standard is CBJ). This is risky (IMO) & basically only prevents against catching AIDS.
I usually - but not always - play things safe & go for covered BJ.
Some STD's - like Syphilis & Genital Warts - can't even be prevented when using a condom.

Years ago I had a condom break while having sex with a paid lady - it didn't scare me too much, but it made me worry & I decided to get tested. The lady said she was clean & I needn't worry - but I can't trust words & just made it a point to not have sex for about a month & then get tested. Also what made her so confident I was clean(I was & I knew it 100%).


Forgive if it's already asked here, I tried looking but couldn't find it.
Many thanks for any answers & opinions.
I know it's an awkward question but I'm dying to ask since I saw this thread.

Take a look at this section of the forum

 

[Giselle Montreal]

STD's
How do you protect yourself against catching anything?
Do you worry about STD's?
Do you get checked? If you do, regularly?
Have you ever refused service to someone because you had a suspicion he(she?) had an STD?
Do you have any kind of screening for a client before having sex in terms of STD's?

Yes, STIs (sexually transmitted infections, previously known as STDs which is pejorative) are something I worry about. That's why I find it important to get educated about them, and to know and be aware of the risks of doing this job. What I do in a meeting is keep the light on, visually inspect the skin, stay alert and cautious about genital and fluid contacts, and use protection.

Like most of my colleagues, I get tested every 3 months and see my physician regularly. Some even get tested every month.

Everyone is welcome to partake in the activity of their choice, with the level of protection they are comfortable with. If you are not at ease with an activity you consider risky or are unsure if playing in this industry offers you the level of comfort you prefer, it is perfectly OK to decide that seeing sex workers is not for you or to adjust your meetings to your risk tolerance.

In the end, it's good to remember that "zero risk" doesn't exist in the sex area, whether you have intercourses with barely or extremely sexually active persons. Your job is to be informed, to play in your comfort zone and get tested regularly!

I'd like to add that if as a client, you have an obsession with STIs and/or are intolerant to any risks, contacting providers and expecting them to be virgins is not the right way to go about it. I regularly receive messages where clients, on first contact, expose their fear in a tactless way; asking a provider if she's "clean", "ever had STIs or cold sores", and any variation of "hoping to find a woman with impeccable health and hygiene" will not get you the result you wish to get—I instantly refuse to meet.

So again, stay informed, play in your comfort zone and get tested regularly!

P.S. Using words like "clean" implies that people who have STIs are "dirty". Let me quote someone who has better words to explain it: " [...] this perspective has a serious impact on people’s self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-worth; especially if they contract a chronic STI, like HIV or herpes. While both of these conditions are treatable and controllable, people are still judged and stigmatized for being positive for either. So many people internalize that they are, by society’s standards, “unclean.” " - Read the article here