Ask us anything part 3

[Fradi]

There are many unsuccessful men that are not able to attract a woman. The dating game is very hard on men in this day and age and not all got the skills to play that game. These men still need intimacy so they resort to paying. It would suck to be a 40 yr old virgin as a man. True lots of gorgeous women but they got so much offers and they got the luxury to choose who they want.

I keep hearing this all the time but have a hard time believing it.
I had no problem in my youth and neither did most of my friends and they weren’t all James Bond types.

Same goes for my nephews and children and their friends, none of them seemed to have a problem finding a life partner. yes not all of them are drop dead gorgeous, a couple are, some average and some that I guess they saw something in them I didn’t.

I think men today are just not willing to put in the work and think that dating should be like ordering something from Amazon and wait for it to arrive on your doorstep, which I guess is the case with an SP problem solved lol.

 

[CLOUD 500]

I keep hearing this all the time but have a hard time believing it.
I had no problem in my youth and neither did most of my friends and they weren’t all James Bond types.

Same goes for my nephews and children and their friends, none of them seemed to have a problem finding a life partner. yes not all of them are drop dead gorgeous, a couple are, some average and some that I guess they saw something in them I didn’t.

I think men today are just not willing to put in the work and think that dating should be like ordering something from Amazon and wait for it to arrive on your doorstep, which I guess is the case with an SP problem solved lol.

The game changed. Things changed a lot from 30 years. I see a big change from 20 years ago. The women changed in a big way. The amount of single lonely young men has grown by a lot and this is fact. You can look it up. Social media and online dating did not exist 30 years ago.

 

[Enjoying life]

There are many unsuccessful men that are not able to attract a woman. The dating game is very hard on men in this day and age and not all got the skills to play that game. These men still need intimacy so they resort to paying. It would suck to be a 40 yr old virgin as a man. True lots of gorgeous women but they got so much offers and they got the luxury to choose who they want.

Well if there are so many unrealistic expectations what do you expect! It’s all one headache!

 

[CLOUD 500]

Well if there are so many unrealistic expectations what do you expect! It’s all one headache!

Yep

 

[Enjoying life]

Yep

I spoke to this guy who is in my age bracket ! He goes I’m having a hard time my ex wife took me to the cleaners! Bravo! Who would want to be in that situation!

 

[Fradi]

The game changed. Things changed a lot from 30 years. I see a big change from 20 years ago. The women changed in a big way. The amount of single lonely young men has grown by a lot and this is fact. You can look it up. Social media and online dating did not exist 30 years ago.

I don’t know about that I tried and had no problem at all finding women in my own age bracket or even 10 years younger.
The problem is that I am the one who is not interested. I don’t find them attractive, in the end I would always compare them to the one I loved and lost and they would lose so it ends up being a waste of time for me and for them as nothing will ever come of it.
Most of these women have fucked up their life once or twice already and want someone to take care of them financially.
There is also the case of meeting and accepting their family which I have no wish for nor introducing someone new to mine.

I have found for me seeing the two ladies especially my ATF is enough as I don’t lack for friends or family and I can travel anywhere when I wish so for now this lifestyle suits me fine.

 

[CLOUD 500]

I don’t know about that I tried and had no problem at all finding women in my own age bracket or even 10 years younger.
The problem is that I am the one who is not interested. I don’t find them attractive, in the end I would always compare them to the one I loved and lost and they would lose so it ends up being a waste of time for me and for them as nothing will ever come of it.
Most of these women have fucked up their life once or twice already and want someone to take care of them financially.
There is also the case of meeting and accepting their family which I have no wish for nor introducing someone new to mine.

I have found for me seeing the two ladies especially my ATF is enough as I don’t lack for friends or family and I can travel anywhere when I wish so for now this lifestyle suits me fine.

Everyone's experiences are different. It is a different reality for everyone. I was just pointing out to you the reasons that younger men might engage in the hobby and that many are struggling to find a significant other. It is a growing problem among Gen Z men.

 

[Enjoying life]

I don’t know about that I tried and had no problem at all finding women in my own age bracket or even 10 years younger.
The problem is that I am the one who is not interested. I don’t find them attractive, in the end I would always compare them to the one I loved and lost and they would lose so it ends up being a waste of time for me and for them as nothing will ever come of it.
Most of these women have fucked up their life once or twice already and want someone to take care of them financially.
There is also the case of meeting and accepting their family which I have no wish for nor introducing someone new to mine.

I have found for me seeing the two ladies especially my ATF is enough as I don’t lack for friends or family and I can travel anywhere when I wish so for now this lifestyle suits me fine.

Exactly financially = headaches! You will be in better hands with your regular sps with being friends and respected!

 

[CLOUD 500]

I spoke to this guy who is in my age bracket ! He goes I’m having a hard time my ex wife took me to the cleaners! Bravo! Who would want to be in that situation!

That is a situation for many. The government gives much power to the women and many men get taken to the cleaners in a divorce. I am very certain if this law did not exist where in a marriage half his money and assets would go his wife I guarantee you that divorces would drop to an all time low. In most cases the man is usually the one earning a higher salary so in most cases the woman climbs up the ladder in a divorce.

One of my colleagues told me how he declared bankruptcy twice because of divorces.

 

[Fradi]

Exactly financially = headaches! You will be in better hands with your regular sps with being friends and respected!

You still don’t get it.
I would trade all the SP in the world for a day with the one I spent a lifetime with and lost to cancer.
It is not the same and never will be. You cannot buy love or a family, they are not for sale.
Yes I am lucky to have my ATF and the other gorgeous young lady I have been seeing for many years they have made a difference in my life and I will always be grateful to them for their kindness.

 

[Enjoying life]

You still don’t get it.
I would trade all the SP in the world for a day with the one I spent a lifetime with and lost to cancer.
It is not the same and never will be. You cannot buy love or a family, they are not for sale.
Yes I am lucky to have my ATF and the other gorgeous young lady I have been seeing for many years they have made a difference in my life and I will always be grateful to them for their kindness.

Sorry and that was very special ! It could be a once in a lifetime thing very precious! Just enjoy the now time!

 

[Enjoying life]

That is a situation for many. The government gives much power to the women and many men get taken to the cleaners in a divorce. I am very certain if this law did not exist where in a marriage half his money and assets would go his wife I guarantee you that divorces would drop to an all time low. In most cases the man is usually the one earning a higher salary so in most cases the woman climbs up the ladder in a divorce.

One of my colleagues told me how he declared bankruptcy twice because of divorces.

It’s not love! Always be safe as much as possible with your things! Love yourself don’t be taken for a fool turning broke!

 

[Enjoying life]

Sorry and that was very special ! It could be a once in a lifetime thing very precious! Just enjoy the now time!

What you had was beautiful and heartbreaking ! Take care of yourself and stay strong!

 

[Enjoying life]

Exactly financially = headaches! You will be in better hands with your regular sps with being friends and respected!

I have that as well my regular sp I get her gifts and returned with one as well! It’s about respect and like she mentioned , I want to make you happy with your desires ! I appreciate her driving to me always! I see her once every 2 months ! Everything is balanced!

 

[Fradi]

What you had was beautiful and heartbreaking ! Take care of yourself and stay strong!

Thanks, I am fine, I have amazing children and grandchildren who I see every week a life time of memories and friends I have known for over 30 years so I am not a lost soul.

I also have an amazing ATF who is not only gorgeous but a kind and special young lady who is a dear friend and luckily I can afford to take my children on vacations or travel when I feel like it. This is not how I planned my retirement years but you never know what life will throw at you.
Again life is all about risk and you make your own luck.

 

[Enjoying life]

Thanks, I am fine, I have amazing children and grandchildren who I see every week a life time of memories and friends I have known for over 30 years so I am not a lost soul.

I also have an amazing ATF who is not only gorgeous but a kind and special young lady who is a dear friend and luckily I can afford to take my children on vacations or travel when I feel like it. This is not how I planned my retirement years but you never know what life will throw at you.
Again life is all about risk and you make your own luck.

Yes! Just like ones health you can decide to work out and be active with eating well for years or potentially have issues with not leading a healthy life! I certainly know! Be the best of you!

 

[CLOUD 500]

It’s not love! Always be safe as much as possible with your things! Love yourself don’t be taken for a fool turning broke!

True say