Ask us anything part 3

[Rebaynia]

Would you prefer that GFE did not exist and things had stayed the same (no kissing, BBBJ or DATY) ?

I advertise gf expierience, I'm still primarily cbj. Bbbj is included in my gfe, if the guy can pass my very picky list of criteria, otherwise it is covered. The rest just adds to a good time.

Also, I'm curious and maybe you can inform me. When did GFE appear in Montreal?

I know back in 2001 the agency advertised me as gfe, because of the expierience the clients described... back then it stood for being more intimate, it wasn't narrowed to a list of acronyms, because all my bjs then were cbj only. And it was the description of the expierience they felt from the encounter.

Was it a gradual change or was it a sudden move?.

I took 20 years off from being a provider and in that time gfe came to sta d for a list of acronyms that it didn't stand for before.

Were SP's pressured to adopt GFE even if they didn't particularly care for it?

Some feel like they had to, otherwise they risk missing out on money. Money is not worth the discomfort of pushing my boundaries so I do things my way, and if I have less booking then so be it, at least I like and enjoy the bookings and people I get. It also seems to keep boundary pushers uninterested.

 

[Rebaynia]

How often do you take a break from working as a SP?
When you do take a vacation from working how long do you take before you feel like going back?

I take my period off 5-7 days, so that I can mentally recharge to be available for the next 21-23 days straight.

 

[Rebaynia]

SPs : Who do you tell that you are an SP? Other than the Revenue Canada? I know SPs that told their families and the their bank.

I don't hide that i am. Everyone already knows. It takes the fun out of gossiping about it since people in my area like to gossip about others to make themselves feel better about doing nothing with their days or lives.

My kids schools know, my family, friends. I'm face out, everyone treats it like the news is nothing new and doesn't matter any more.

I prefer to dictate the gossip told about me... besides not like they ever stopped telling guys I dated that I was one once when I was 18 for 6 months, even 15 years later to try and cause drama at parties, for me and my partners over the years. Trying to tell them like I wouldn't inform the guys i date about my past. Why would I hide it? It just makes the shit disturbed have the power they crave. This way they have no power to cause drama in my life.

 

[Sylar]

To both clients and SPs: Do you expect the STM strike to impact your hobbying or business in November?

 

[Rebaynia]

To both clients and SPs: Do you expect the STM strike to impact your hobbying or business in November?

I might hope it means my demand goes up like in the winter. As being outcall only, means they don't have to worry about their own transportation. I drive myself around, so it doesn't impact my own transportation.

From what I know of most providers who offer outcall, some bike, some drive, some use Uber, and some stm. I would think they will let you know if they need you to cover the cost of the Uber to you.

 

[Harvey]

I might hope it means my demand goes up like in the winter. As being outcall only, means they don't have to worry about their own transportation. I drive myself around, so it doesn't impact my own transportation.

Being an outcall. what is the % of Home, temporary lodgings, workplace do you go to?

 

[Harvey]

How many times do you know of that in your SP work have you encountered the clergy, law enforcement ( off duty ), well know celebrity in your endeavors? I am sure there are occasions where these people have visited you without you realizing who they were. I have been told stories from SPs that they have been visited by people in these positions. An SP told me about a guy that always came in black pants and white shirt, she recognized him to be a high official in clergy, another story was of a Quebecois TV personality that went to see her often and was a cheapo. She talked to several other SPs and they said that he has seen them as well.

 

[Rebaynia]

Being an outcall. what is the % of Home, temporary lodgings, workplace do you go to?

90% of my visits, are visits to private homes, and about 10% are to a temporary rented location, 0% to workplaces, I require a prive room with appropriate cleaning facilities for afterwards. I do also avoid downtown as much as possible, as parking is a nightmare, and important for my ability to see someone. I do make attempts now, but I used to tell clients looks for providers who use Uber, or have a driver, someone who didn't need to find and pay parking to be able to see them. I still avoid it during busy hours, and its about 50:50 if I will accept a downtown appointment.