Ask us anything part 3

[LC18]

My friends that are not in sex work have gotten STIs a few times because they don’t always use protection (their partners probably do the same). My sex worker friends have never caught anything because they’re really serious about it since that’s how they make money.

If you made money with your hands, let’s say you’re a dentist. Would you deep fry stuff with your bare hands directly in oil? Would you cut veggies with your eyes closed?

 

[Fradi]

My friends that are not in sex work have gotten STIs a few times because they don’t always use protection (their partners probably do the same). My sex worker friends have never caught anything because they’re really serious about it since that’s how they make money.

If you made money with your hands, let’s say you’re a dentist. Would you deep fry stuff with your bare hands directly in oil? Would you cut veggies with your eyes closed?

It is not about the fact that sex workers are much more vigilant and careful I totally agree with that. Like you say it is about their livelihood
I wish civilian people were half as concerned about it, it is purely about the numbers and that clients will never be as careful as sex workers.
We are in the end all grown ups and know the risks.

 

[eigames]

New Question: With a huge demand next week/weekend for the Presidents cup, do the local SP's plan to have more girls working? Since they post the schedule the night before and 20k new people are in town with USD or Euro dollars I would think the girls are going to be booked fast.

My friends that are not in sex work have gotten STIs a few times because they don’t always use protection (their partners probably do the same). My sex worker friends have never caught anything because they’re really serious about it since that’s how they make money.

If you made money with your hands, let’s say you’re a dentist. Would you deep fry stuff with your bare hands directly in oil? Would you cut veggies with your eyes closed

 

[LC18]

New Question: With a huge demand next week/weekend for the Presidents cup, do the local SP's plan to have more girls working? Since they post the schedule the night before and 20k new people are in town with USD or Euro dollars I would think the girls are going to be booked fast.

How would I know that? I’m not running an agency

 

[MCTJ]

New Question: With a huge demand next week/weekend for the Presidents cup, do the local SP's plan to have more girls working? Since they post the schedule the night before and 20k new people are in town with USD or Euro dollars I would think the girls are going to be booked fast.

Wrong question: everyone knows that it's only during F1 week that demand increases

 

[psykick456]

SPs, if you've asked a client out after your time together, is it "part of the act"? or real?

 

[LC18]

SPs, if you've asked a client out after your time together, is it "part of the act"? or real?

If I ask someone out after our date, it’s free.
If someone asks me out after our date, it’s paid.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

SPs, if you've asked a client out after your time together, is it "part of the act"? or real?

I doubt it's part of the act if someone does this, but it's not something I personally would do.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

SPs, if you've asked a client out after your time together, is it "part of the act"? or real?

Rule of thumb; she asks, it’s on her. You ask, it’s on you!

 

[Rebaynia]

SPs, if you've asked a client out after your time together, is it "part of the act"? or real?

Just because time is paid, doesn't necessarily make it fake. I like real connections with people I meet and see.

Though I wouldn't ask someone out after, as my time is with my family when I am not out visiting. I have to pay childcare. And well I tend to need to escape into games to decompress after social time, it takes a lot out of me when I am being social. Like I don't even visit my mom unless I have to, so for a client to take it personally that I don't spend extra time with them is just to not know me. Especially repeat visits, as I wouldn't see them again if I didn't like them.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Just because time is paid, doesn't necessarily make it fake. I like real connections with people I meet and see.

this! i actually enjoy talking with a lot of my clients and spending time with them

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Question for clients. During bookings I often get asked certain questions. Some of them come up more often than others, and I think the most common is ''are you dating right now?'' or ''do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?''.. Why do clients ask me this, and does the answer even change anything? (Just to be clear I'm not dating currently, but if I was seeing someone I certainly wouldn't be announcing it)

 

[Zero_Six]

Question for clients. During bookings I often get asked certain questions. Some of them come up more often than others, and I think the most common is ''are you dating right now?'' or ''do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?''.. Why do clients ask me this, and does the answer even change anything? (Just to be clear I'm not dating currently, but if I was seeing someone I certainly wouldn't be announcing it)

I don't ask these questions, but it's info I don't really want to know. My time with an SP is "fantasy time" so to speak. If they have an SO, I'd rather not know.

I wonder if the guys asking this are maybe thinking in the back of their minds that they're Christian Slater, you're Patricia Arquette, and it's going to be a True Romance situation. Or maybe they see themselves more like Richard Gere and you're Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman. Probably depends on their finances and when they were born. Just hopefully they don't see themselves as Nicolas Cage and you as Elizabeth Shue in Leaving Las Vegas.

 

[Nachoy]

If I ask someone out after our date, it’s free.
If someone asks me out after our date, it’s paid.

How free? So You will pay for my drinks and meal if you ask me out

 

[hob12]

Question for clients. During bookings I often get asked certain questions. Some of them come up more often than others, and I think the most common is ''are you dating right now?'' or ''do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?''.. Why do clients ask me this, and does the answer even change anything? (Just to be clear I'm not dating currently, but if I was seeing someone I certainly wouldn't be announcing it)

It would never cross my mind to ask that during booking or during the session. I really don't want to know tbh. I'm really surprised that you say this is the most common question you get.

 

[Nachoy]

Question for clients. During bookings I often get asked certain questions. Some of them come up more often than others, and I think the most common is ''are you dating right now?'' or ''do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?''.. Why do clients ask me this, and does the answer even change anything? (Just to be clear I'm not dating currently, but if I was seeing someone I certainly wouldn't be announcing it)

I don’t ask as it’s too much invasion in private life unless I get to know the SP much better I suspect it’s lonely dudes who want to engage you into something more than transactional sex

 

[LC18]

How free? So You will pay for my drinks and meal if you ask me out

I guess that’s why I never ask anyone out

 

[Rebaynia]

Question for clients. During bookings I often get asked certain questions. Some of them come up more often than others, and I think the most common is ''are you dating right now?'' or ''do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?''.. Why do clients ask me this, and does the answer even change anything? (Just to be clear I'm not dating currently, but if I was seeing someone I certainly wouldn't be announcing it)

I've been asked this by someone who when I said I was taken said he didn’t partake in taken women, lol.. till he contacted me 3 more times asking the same thing and eventually made an appointment anyways. Convincing himself that because I wasn't doing this sneakily behind my man's back, that it wasn't the same thing as encouraging cheating I guess.
But it is written on my website that I am my masters, so it isn't something I hide, and like clients who are actually curious about the lifestyle I have with my master.

Besides hard to hide the fact, when I wear it proudly around my neck. The topic kind of comes up when asked about the collar I wear 24/7. Even in civi life, I am asked or comented/complimented on my collar, and I often just touch it with a smile and say it represents my relationship.

 

[Fradi]

Question for clients. During bookings I often get asked certain questions. Some of them come up more often than others, and I think the most common is ''are you dating right now?'' or ''do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?''.. Why do clients ask me this, and does the answer even change anything? (Just to be clear I'm not dating currently, but if I was seeing someone I certainly wouldn't be announcing it)

I won’t bring it up, but I won’t shy away from it if they do. It is not something I would ask.
I have had SP I know well enough to talk about personal things, there are really only 2 ladies I trust enough to do that with.
My ATF pretty much knows almost everything about me we have been friends for a long time.

 

[talkinghead]

Question for clients. During bookings I often get asked certain questions. Some of them come up more often than others, and I think the most common is ''are you dating right now?'' or ''do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?''.. Why do clients ask me this, and does the answer even change anything? (Just to be clear I'm not dating currently, but if I was seeing someone I certainly wouldn't be announcing it)

I would never ask that kind of personal question. Even the thought of it makes me uncomfortable. That said, unlike some others out here I'm not interested in fantasy but in reality so I enjoy chatting with SPs about our lives. I know how to protect my anonymity and I assume she does as well. Relationships, families, work, experiences in the hobby--I don't go nosing around but I enjoy sharing that way. One of my requirements is that the SP speaks passable English!