I personally prefer water based but my good friend cannot use it so I guess it’s again a case of “it depends on the kitty”
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I personally prefer water based but my good friend cannot use it so I guess it’s again a case of “it depends on the kitty”
Indeed, anything Skyn/Lifestyle is out of the question for me, I get an infection every time. And I prefer silicon-based lube (Durex, Lubrifiant silicone Real Feel is my favorite)
As for the test results, I would say you can send it if the provider asks for it. Letting me know in your short presentation that you get tested every 3 months because you take this industry and your health seriously, without adding details, would do it.
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I agree with this. Someone letting me know they take their health seriously is delightful, I don't need extra details and certainly don't want to see someone's test results unprompted.
As, indeed, this could come off as a way to inquire about unsafe services at worst, or at best, it makes you seem clueless - nobody does that. Nobody sends their test results to an escort unprompted so I'd wonder what the motive is lol
No, nobody sends their results and it's not needed. Plus, as soon as you have one sexual intercourse afterwards your results are worthless. So I don't need to see your obsolete papers. If some ask for your results, you are welcome to send them. I want to know my clients take care of their health and that's it.
People are photoshopping their test results and their diplomas and it's all over the Internet. So, an obsolete piece of paper that can be photoshopped in 10 seconds is not what I would qualify as verified information.
The only way for an escort to verify for certain that you don't have an STI would be a long, tedious and expensive process that would go as follows :
> Hire an escort for 3 months
> Go get tested together on day 1
> Take 3 months off from work to spend 100% of your time with her 24/7
> Get tested together again after 3 months and wait until those results to start living your life again
That's the only way to be sure, and obviously isn't realistic haha
> Hire an escort for 3 months
> Go get tested together on day 1
> Take 3 months off from work to spend 100% of your time with her 24/7
> Get tested together again after 3 months and wait until those results to start living your life again
That's the only way to be sure, and obviously isn't realistic haha
"The recreational use of cannabis has been legalized in 24 states, three U.S. territories, and D.C."
That’s more than half of the USA, also:
"Another seven states have decriminalized its use"
IMHO, most these people are ignorant of the legislation in their own country
You have to differentiate the country and the states. I understand that it's different in the USA as I think it's something about the federal laws that prohibit its use, so you can't cross the border with pot but you can consume it in your own state where it's legalized.
"At the federal level, cannabis is classified as a Schedule I drug under the Controlled Substances Act, determined to have a high potential for abuse and no accepted medical use, prohibiting its use for any purpose.[1] Despite this prohibition, federal law is generally not enforced against the possession, cultivation, or intrastate distribution of cannabis in states where such activity has been legalized."
Legality of cannabis by U.S. jurisdiction - Wikipedia
I never in my life had a condom that broke, but I had a condom slippage 3 or 4 times total since my beginnings because the penis got softer during penetration. For the last part of your question, I can't help you but I recommend that you get tested frequently if you are sexually active, as most of us sex workers do.
Why specify "with an SP"? !
STIs can be caught also in the civi world and, all proportions taken, where you are often at far greater risk.
And by the way if one receives "from an SP" just keep in mind that she got it from a John.
Yes please get tested if you see SP's frequently.
There are ways to prevent a condom from breaking, for example using a lot of lube. I've never had that happen. As for slippage, it's the client's responsibility to make sure this does not happen. Obviously you feel it if the condom is slipping off. Check to see if it's still on regularly specially if you know you might get softer. When you cum, make sure the condom is still around you and hold it with your fingers before pulling out.
To add to Giselle’s answer to you, here’s a thread that you might want to read: https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/rapid-and-discreet-testing-downtown.232809/
This is 100% true, and I've known many civilians who have unprotected sex with strangers.. I'm not shaming anybody, but there are more chances of catching an STI if you are hooking up with random people rather than seeing SP's, in my humble opinion.. And if you are very afraid of STI's, please ask for covered services.
How is that? SPs don’t have real life partners? Or their OF colabs?
Good point I agree. I was just annoyed at targeting the SPs in the question.
Believe it or not, I got a broken one at my very first session with an SP.
I was in my late twenties and scared to death because I was not knowing much about hobby at that time...
The SP told me to calm down and not to worried. She has been nice and sweet.
Hopefully, it didn't happen since.
That's true, but from what I've seen, SP's tend to be a lot more careful about their sexual health than other people. Of course that's a generalization but it's just what I've noticed when talking to colleagues.
There is no way anyone seriously believes that an SP who allows gfe (bbbj, daty, dfk) with the majority of her clients and is seeing 500+ people a year has a lower std risk profile than the average non sp.
Anyone who participates in this industry, man or woman, is going to have a higher std risk profile than someone who doesn’t, on an average basis.
Anyone who participates in this industry, man or woman, is going to have a higher std risk profile than someone who doesn’t, on an average basis.
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