Ask us anything part 3

[nicknickolas]

Okay here are a few questions for clients.

1- What made you decide to take the plunge and see a SP for the first time? Some friends of mine think all men have seen a SP once in their lives at least, but I'm not sure how true that is.
2- Why do you consider seeing escorts a hobby? What makes it comparable to other hobbies of yours? It's something I've always wondered since I joined the industry
3- What makes you enjoy participating in this forum aside from reading reviews?

Question 2
Its not a hobby, its a chase,theres something about meeting a stranger for a intimate encounter , and then just leaving that makes it addictive. And you want to repeat ,your looking for your unicorn. the one perfect women. Lets face it men can approach 30 women in a club and might get rejected 30 times. But sometimes,just sometimes, a sp or mp will make you feel good,special,sexy even when your at your lowest.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Question 2
Its not a hobby, its a chase,theres something about meeting a stranger for a intimate encounter , and then just leaving that makes it addictive. And you want to repeat ,your looking for your unicorn. the one perfect women. Lets face it men can approach 30 women in a club and might get rejected 30 times. But sometimes,just sometimes, a sp or mp will make you feel good,special,sexy even when your at your lowest.

That's different. I don't think there's a perfect woman or that women should be "perfect" but I get your point that a sp is there to make you feel welcome and appreciated.

 

[urquell]

Okay here are a few questions for clients.

1- What made you decide to take the plunge and see a SP for the first time? Some friends of mine think all men have seen a SP once in their lives at least, but I'm not sure how true that is.
2- Why do you consider seeing escorts a hobby? What makes it comparable to other hobbies of yours? It's something I've always wondered since I joined the industry
3- What makes you enjoy participating in this forum aside from reading reviews?

1- The first time I saw an SP it was actually an SW. I lived close to a working section, was drunk enough to overcome my terror of approaching a girl, and horny. I was very young and inexperienced and while it was fun in retrospect I know that I got screwed in a variety of ways which weren't all sexual and I've continued learning ever since.
2 - I've never considered it to be a hobby. I still find calling it a hobby weird, and generally don't use the term myself. Almost all of my experience has been in calling it mongering rather than hobbying, and I still think that's a better term, if less PC. It's what the entire international community calls it, generally speaking, and that's what I gravitate towards, so maybe it's habit, but I 've never really adapted to local usage. Since I've never considered it a "hobby" then I don't equate it with other hobbies. Honestly I just look at it as human relationships that involve sex, with some people that I've seen and immediately forgotten, and with some that I've maintained long term friendships or more with. It's in some aspects at a personal level a reflection of "normal" life. i just like people that I like. I really don't care what kind of work they do.
3 - This forum is extremely limited, so I participate less in it than I do in other ones that offer more and with less stringent over-moderation. The scope of discussion is less, and the volume of information is less, so the main drivers are less as well. Having said that, there's some very nice people here and I enjoy talking to them. I come mostly for the reviews, but I limit the reviews I make to MPS and not to SPs for site specific reasons. There's a certain flavour to Quebec though, and I do enjoy how that filters out through the site. I think this is coming off sounding more negative than I mean it to be, and I'll probably come back to edit it later once I've gotten past cocktail-brain. lol

 

[Nachoy]

But what made you choose to go to the massage parlor in the first place? And why massage instead of an agency or indy?

First time. I don’t think I was brave enough to be alone in condo suite/hotel room with someone I don’t know.
MP were easier options for the spur of the moment feeling
Being young and naive and inexperienced my buddy brought me to a MP to ease me into this “hobby” We went together and we saw separate SPs during our time there and compare our experiences afterwards
I was still extremely nervous for my first time.
In those days there was no Indy or agency reviews.

 

[homeosgm]

My questions for SPs are ->

1. Did you know how big this industry was before getting into it?
2. Did you ever think you would get into this business before you got into it?
3. Was there someone who introduced you to it, or did you find it on your own?


_________

I just remembered how I got into this, actually, by total accident.

I was addicted to porn (still am, damn it, lol) and was starting to get turned on by the concept of "reality" in my sexual fantasies, and I remembered that a certain porn actress from Poland did meet ups there in Warsaw to film videos. Anyway, this got me thinking that I should look into porn actresses in Montreal and contact them so that I could have like a more desired / selected experience rather than take my chances at a bar or party.

At any rate, I somehow found Craigslist Massage Therapy (or whatever it was called) and the rest is history. Was using quarters and calling apps and all that.

I was completely clueless to how much escorting content and how many ad sites there were online. I've seen so many of them come and go since then. Same with service providers. Some of their ads and faces are embedded into my consciousness.

 

[themonk83]

Don't know if it was asked.

What do you think of clients following you on social media and do you expect them to send gifts and tips to interact with or just having the privilege to follow you?

 

[T'storm]

On the topic of "Hobby", it could be called this if you participate once or twice a year. But if you participate everyday, week, months or often then we should call it a "Lifestyle" because that's what it is.
Someone who plants a garden that's a hobby. I used to ride my Harley every weekend and take it to Florida every spring, that was a lifestyle, now I only take it out 7-8 times a season, so it became a hobby.
Just saying...

 

[LC18]

Don't know if it was asked.

What do you think of clients following you on social media and do you expect them to send gifts and tips to interact with or just having the privilege to follow you?

I’m happy they follow me on my professional social media because they’ll fall in love with me. Just kidding! I mean good for them they get to see my selfies almost everyday. When I’m home and watching tv, I reply to every single tweets under my photos. I don’t expect gifts for that.

I do share my wishlist from time to time but rarely directly ask for anything.

 

[LC18]

Hobby

an activity that someone does for pleasure when they are not working:
Angela's hobby is restoring vintage motorcycles.

a pursuit outside one's regular occupation engaged in especially for relaxation
Writing is just a hobby of his.
Her hobbies include gardening and bird-watching


His hobbies include f***king women and reviewing them online??


Anyways…

 

[Zero_Six]

Okay here are a few questions for clients.

1- What made you decide to take the plunge and see a SP for the first time? Some friends of mine think all men have seen a SP once in their lives at least, but I'm not sure how true that is.
2- Why do you consider seeing escorts a hobby? What makes it comparable to other hobbies of yours? It's something I've always wondered since I joined the industry
3- What makes you enjoy participating in this forum aside from reading reviews?

1 - Depression mostly. I was working night-shift in my 20s. I'd go to parties with university friends on the week-end, but my social anxiety was too over-powering and I'd drink too much booze. You'd think the booze would ease the social anxiety but no, it just made me sloppy drunk and socially awkward.

Regarding the "all men have seen an SP at least once...". Obviously not ALL MEN, but I'd say many if not most have. I've had two friends that had no problems getting GFs or hook-ups yet they still saw an SP at some point. Not sure what their reasoning was. I'm guessing it was just part of the sex, drugs, and rock'n'roll lifestyle we were living at the time. Seeing an SP was just one of the things you needed to do if you wanted to truly "get" Bukowski or whatever.

2 - Definitely not a hobby for me. Calling it a hobby feels like I'm reading a bad JRPG translation.

3 - I don't read the reviews. I stick to the lounge mostly. Small forums feel more "natural". Places like twitter or reddit have so many users that you never know who you're talking to. Good chance they're a bot or a troll. I may not like or agree with some people here, but at least I know it's not some 12 year old kid just saying shit to get a reaction (even if some people occasionally come across that way)

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Not sure what their reasoning was

My reasoning was laziness and hassle free fun!

 

[Nachoy]

To SPs:
Do you like the variety of men you see?
Is there a certain type you tend to like more than others?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Seeing an SP was just one of the things you needed to do if you wanted to truly "get" Bukowski or whatever.

I laughed

 

[Lunaseraphim]

To SPs:
Do you like the variety of men you see?
Is there a certain type you tend to like more than others?

There are certain types of clients I like better than others. I prefer clients who I have good conversations with instead of those who only focus on trying to get as much sexual satisfaction as possible. I like clients I have things in common with and people who can talk to me about things I don't know anything about. It doesn't really have anything to do with what they look like.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

My questions for SPs are ->

1. Did you know how big this industry was before getting into it?
2. Did you ever think you would get into this business before you got into it?
3. Was there someone who introduced you to it, or did you find it on your own?


_________

I just remembered how I got into this, actually, by total accident.

I was addicted to porn (still am, damn it, lol) and was starting to get turned on by the concept of "reality" in my sexual fantasies, and I remembered that a certain porn actress from Poland did meet ups there in Warsaw to film videos. Anyway, this got me thinking that I should look into porn actresses in Montreal and contact them so that I could have like a more desired / selected experience rather than take my chances at a bar or party.

At any rate, I somehow found Craigslist Massage Therapy (or whatever it was called) and the rest is history. Was using quarters and calling apps and all that.

I was completely clueless to how much escorting content and how many ad sites there were online. I've seen so many of them come and go since then. Same with service providers. Some of their ads and faces are embedded into my consciousness.

1- I had friends and acquaintances who were in the business. I knew how big the industry was but I had a lot of misconceptions.

2- Honestly, a lot of people told me I wasn't cut out for it and I had considered online work but I was told it wasn't lucrative anymore. I joined the industry on impulse.

3- I had help from a few people but it took me a while to find my own way of doing this and staying safe

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Don't know if it was asked.

What do you think of clients following you on social media and do you expect them to send gifts and tips to interact with or just having the privilege to follow you?

I like when people follow me because it gives me visibility. I do like gifts and tips... expecting them may be a strong word but sometimes I feel like clients expect me to interact with them for free and they constantly comment things on my posts that feel kinda invasive.. in that case yeah it's appreciated when I receive gifts

 

[themonk83]

I’m happy they follow me on my professional social media because they’ll fall in love with me. Just kidding! I mean good for them they get to see my selfies almost everyday. When I’m home and watching tv, I reply to every single tweets under my photos. I don’t expect gifts for that.

I do share my wishlist from time to time but rarely directly ask for anything.

I like when people follow me because it gives me visibility. I do like gifts and tips... expecting them may be a strong word but sometimes I feel like clients expect me to interact with them for free and they constantly comment things on my posts that feel kinda invasive.. in that case yeah it's appreciated when I receive gifts

Ah. Thanks. Kind of thought of that. Like follow, have some interaction, buy some gifts here and there without necessarily meeting.

I had the weirdest interaction on blue the other day. Ending up following someone and they demand a gift for the privilege of following and a bunch of weird follow up questions and saying how disrespectful I was bla bla bla... She gave me my 1st block on blue lol *cries*

 

[LC18]

Ah. Thanks. Kind of thought of that. Like follow, have some interaction, buy some gifts here and there without necessarily meeting.

I had the weirdest interaction on blue the other day. Ending up following someone and they demand a gift for the privilege of following and a bunch of weird follow up questions and saying how disrespectful I was bla bla bla... She gave me my 1st block on blue lol *cries*

That’s odd indeed. I don’t ask for anything on Twitter but I still receive gift cards. I no longer have a public wishlist but when I had one I would receive some gifts off of it.

If I ask for something it’s because I’m planning on sending photos in return

 

[Fradi]

I like when people follow me because it gives me visibility. I do like gifts and tips... expecting them may be a strong word but sometimes I feel like clients expect me to interact with them for free and they constantly comment things on my posts that feel kinda invasive.. in that case yeah it's appreciated when I receive gifts

I only follow one person on social media ( On X) and it isn’t that I hang on her every word but look in on her from time to time, I find her funny and interesting and someone who appreciates her clients and is not into client bashing although she does sometimes call out some lunatics.

No I would not give her gifts for simply reading her comments or even interacting with her on social media she is doing that for advertising so I don’t see a need to reward her for that. It serves it’s purpose.
That however becomes different when I see her as a client then I think I am pretty generous and show her that I appreciate her kindness and friendship.

 

[themonk83]

That’s odd indeed. I don’t ask for anything on Twitter but I still receive gift cards. I no longer have a public wishlist but when I had one I would receive some gifts off of it.

If I ask for something it’s because I’m planning on sending photos in return

She gave me her wishlist but were just items, no tips. I was like wait a minute, I just follow you because you were on someone's feed and your posts were interesting *cries*

Anyway, feels like I got singled out or maybe not. She also made a couple of posts about it without naming names but seriously *cries*