Are You a Sex Addict or an Explorer in the Sex Industry?

[Lunaseraphim]

I would love to hear your thoughts on whether some service providers may be addicted to sex?

I would say that most of us are not addicted to sex..

I know a few providers who told me they used to have sex with a lot of men for free before they started, but they didn't always or even often enjoy these experiences. They were doing it to seek validation and confused sex with love. I'm not sure if that's the same thing as sex addiction.. In any case, that behaviour eventually stopped. For women, seeking sexual encounters can be dangerous and most people who are millenials and older were not taught about consent growing up. I think that because bad things happen to women when they seek sexual encounters, less women tend to be sex addicts.

And I don't believe women (and other people) generally become sex workers because they are sex addicts, or even because they love sex more than the average person.

 

[Nachoy]

Great thread. I value all points of view about sex addiction
Notice that men who have sex with men don’t really have to pay for it as often men who prefer sex with woman. I think it a supply -demand thing. In general. Men desire sex more compulsively then women

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Great thread. I value all points of view about sex addiction
Notice that men who have sex with men don’t really have to pay for it as often men who prefer sex with woman. I think it a supply -demand thing. In general. Men desire sex more compulsively then women

there are a lot of men who pay for sex with other men but they don't post about it on here i've had a lot of friends who were gay male escorts and the clients hire them for similar reasons as other clients hire women escorts. but hook up and cruising culture is present, so there's truth to what you're saying to an extent.

i'm just a bit tired of this narrative that men are inherently sex crazed and cannot control their impulses, because i think it's not true. i also don't like this narrative that men are entitled to sex and women nowadays are keeping it away from them on purpose for selfish and greedy reasons, because it's also untrue

 

[MajinBuu]

This thread has been incredibly insightful, and I appreciate all the input! I'm relatively new to this industry, and I’ve realized that I tend to have an addictive personality and can be impulsive at times. When I discover something I truly enjoy, I often dive in headfirst. While I’m fortunate to have the means to explore these experiences, I do have some concerns about getting carried away. Since I’ve started meeting SPs, it feels like I've crossed a threshold, and I don’t hesitate as much when the urge strikes. My libido seems to have intensified, and I’m finding it harder to balance what my mind wants versus what my body craves. Any advice on how to regain control and stay more responsible in these situations?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

This thread has been incredibly insightful, and I appreciate all the input! I'm relatively new to this industry, and I’ve realized that I tend to have an addictive personality and can be impulsive at times. When I discover something I truly enjoy, I often dive in headfirst. While I’m fortunate to have the means to explore these experiences, I do have some concerns about getting carried away. Since I’ve started meeting SPs, it feels like I've crossed a threshold, and I don’t hesitate as much when the urge strikes. My libido seems to have intensified, and I’m finding it harder to balance what my mind wants versus what my body craves. Any advice on how to regain control and stay more responsible in these situations?

I think some people crave dopamine more than others and there are many healthy ways to get it like working out, going out dancing, making art, playing video games etc