This. But pretty sure he was also trying to be sarcastic. Though I'm not sure why he acts like he was appointed "répondeur en chef" for this question lol. Nobody really asked him to provide the answer to a question nobody really has an answer to.
Are most ppl who see SP married ?
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This. But pretty sure he was also trying to be sarcastic. Though I'm not sure why he acts like he was appointed "répondeur en chef" for this question lol. Nobody really asked him to provide the answer to a question nobody really has an answer to.
I doubt the sample that gets arrested for it is representative of the overall population of John's.I mean... I'm not ruining the planet with one search. I take public transit all the time so I guess I am doing my partIt did cite one study of men who were arrested for buying for sex in the US and 59% of them were unmarried. I am not going to do a literature review to answer this rather trivial question...
Vast majority of arrests in the states are those picking up streetwalkers or dumb enough to get entrapped in a police sting
Not sure if being caught in a (surprise) police sting a criteria to define someone as dumb or smart.
Good questions. My goal is simply to perform a literature search to answer the question posed above. We will see what populations are being studied, sample size, etc. I have no idea how often the martial status of a given population of clients was studied.
Not sarcastic. Someone asked the question at the top of this thread. I have free time on the weekend and am curious
There is no "census" of the "whole population of Johns". We will gather different studies of different populations, and then we see if there is a pattern in the marital status across those studies.
I suspect that most clients of sex workers do not want to participate in those studies and possibly neither would you... Therefore I don't think anything you will find is representative of reality. However, hopefully, you will do some research on the work done by people who have been or still are sex workers themselves.. no matter what the topic related to the industry you're looking into.
You approach the question from a critical theory/post-modernist stance, while I approach it from the point of view of scientist, trained in the scientific method, and with some basic knowledge in the social sciences. If I find any relevant studies, I will provide a summary of the methods and of the population being studied so that everyone can make their own opinion.
I have knowledge in the social sciences as well. Actual knowledge I acquired in university.
There's a reason why critical theory exists. It's because a lot of studies don't yield the results they are supposed to, or they only apply to a certain part of the population.
In any case, I feel like you fail to see the larger picture and instead of considering my point of view, you are once again subtly accusing me of having "ideology based opinions".
Let's see what your research says. But let me put it this way, the landscape of this industry has changed even within the 4 years I've been in it. It's an industry that changes rapidly.
Demographics change, attitudes and mentalities change, laws change etc. It's pretty simple to understand this.
Seems to me a scientist could better use his talents on something worth while than finding statistics on how many married men fuck escorts.
While you are at it how many men cheat period whether with escorts or civis.
In the long run who the fuck cares anyway.
Come on man Im waiting for this groundbreaking research to come out.
This is Nobel-prize worthy stuff were talking about here.
MERB is a respected scientific journal, not just a escort site.
The way cops set up stings in the States are such that only a fool would get caught in them. People who see reviewed or known escorts never get caught unless they're famous (i.e. Elliott Spitzer). Stings are always done at an incall location...why would you meet an unknown escort at their location for the first time in a country where it's harshly criminalized?
Only someone who didn't do their homework would fall for that.
Way to insult Luna's intelligence... Which is ironic after entirely missing the point being made.
Highlighting a difference in theoritical framework is not an insult to intelligence.
Assuming. Not highlighting. Even scientists point out the points Luna made in their studies.
The language you used betrayed your tone by the way. I know this because I am actually trained in human behavior and have basic knowledge of the English language.
I don't know what else to say that I sincerely think that she's highly intelligent and that I find her contributions to this board meaningful and informative.
It's possible to respect someone even if you don't always agree with them.
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There are lots of men in dead bedroom marriages that can’t leave for a myriad of reasons. SP’s do a wonderful job of helping keep the peace and stability.
My last girlfriend was ...when i was 16.
I guess i am a "noob" to relationships. Yet im an eternal romantic. I watch romcoms movies...frequently and i even have women friends that find me "quetaine" (i have 0 interests romanticaly in them myself tbh) but they think im a wuss cause of it. But i also love Expendables so ...whatever lol. I mean i like both...
But im like shyt i would love to experience a true love story.
Hey i can't complain in life. I have a roof over my head. I eat every day. I can play video games, watch movies and have fun every days. And... I had sex with more beautiful women than most dudes 5x better looking than me did.
To be fair ... I have a great life. Especially considering how bad it could had been.
But ...yes there is always a "but". I wished i had a girlfriend. I wished i had kids. I kinda feel incomplete... at times.
Like i get some of you guys do this because ...you have your reasons. But to me cheating is simply not something i could do. Cause i crave love.
And before anyone ask me YES i could have a girlfriend that is a SW because thats not cheating if you know her work and accept it.
Its the "behind their back" aspect wich is a problem to me.
I know all my years meeting escorts gave me unrealistic expections in life and for this i will never find love. Its the double edge sword ...
And no im not expecting young model like hotties. But i feel even "normal women" in their 40s .. they can get better looking them me.
But hey thats life. I made a choice and ill live by it.
NO RAGRETS LOL
(We are the Millers) fun movie watch it if you never did.
I guess i am a "noob" to relationships. Yet im an eternal romantic. I watch romcoms movies...frequently and i even have women friends that find me "quetaine" (i have 0 interests romanticaly in them myself tbh) but they think im a wuss cause of it. But i also love Expendables so ...whatever lol. I mean i like both...
But im like shyt i would love to experience a true love story.
Hey i can't complain in life. I have a roof over my head. I eat every day. I can play video games, watch movies and have fun every days. And... I had sex with more beautiful women than most dudes 5x better looking than me did.
To be fair ... I have a great life. Especially considering how bad it could had been.
But ...yes there is always a "but". I wished i had a girlfriend. I wished i had kids. I kinda feel incomplete... at times.
Like i get some of you guys do this because ...you have your reasons. But to me cheating is simply not something i could do. Cause i crave love.
And before anyone ask me YES i could have a girlfriend that is a SW because thats not cheating if you know her work and accept it.
Its the "behind their back" aspect wich is a problem to me.
I know all my years meeting escorts gave me unrealistic expections in life and for this i will never find love. Its the double edge sword ...
And no im not expecting young model like hotties. But i feel even "normal women" in their 40s .. they can get better looking them me.
But hey thats life. I made a choice and ill live by it.
NO RAGRETS LOL
(We are the Millers)
fun movie watch it if you never did.