After a disastrous time of running into a former SP I met in Mtl...(she was by herself at least 25 feet from.anyone else. I quickly said hi and said I hoped to see her again in the future..she spazzed out at me and said "don't you know we're in public..respect my privacy and get the fuck away from me...I haven't said hi or even acknowledged they're existence, lol.
Akward moment running into an SP
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Not seeing anyone around her was not a reason to say Hi ...
That's your opinion..I've had several tell me they would be upset if I didn't say hi. Not all SP's are like this. I simply do that now cause I don't need any drama in my life. She started yelling at me (which was a bit childish) and made a scene. There is no "how to manual" in this industry that explains everything in black and white.
No rulebook but as DDM mentioned it's best to go with the less invasive way.
I've tried the nod too, lol. More often than not I don't if they're with someone else though. You would be surprised how many times you run into them especially if your walking in downtown montreal. I've probably seen at least 30-50 girls..
Good queue to never see her again
I have had men I didn't recognize nod or wave at me in public before, or even look over my shoulder to see my phone. I always wonder if it's someone who has seen my ads, and personally it makes me feel deeply uncomfortable. 
It's just not appropriate.
I know you had good intentions by doing this and her reaction was intense, but a lot could go wrong if you approach a SP in public and tell her ''I hope to see you again''...
Personally I'd be okay with a client I see often coming to say hi in public as long as he's chatting like we're friends, but not everybody feels this way. Also if I've only seen someone once or twice, it can feel invasive. I've had clients find my personal social media and try to add me on it.. There's a reason why we use aliases etc.
It's just not appropriate.I know you had good intentions by doing this and her reaction was intense, but a lot could go wrong if you approach a SP in public and tell her ''I hope to see you again''...
Personally I'd be okay with a client I see often coming to say hi in public as long as he's chatting like we're friends, but not everybody feels this way. Also if I've only seen someone once or twice, it can feel invasive. I've had clients find my personal social media and try to add me on it.. There's a reason why we use aliases etc.
I recall seeing you once in public about a year ago. I kept walking as you made eye contact, realizing half a minute later who you were.I have had men I didn't recognize nod or wave at me in public before, or even look over my shoulder to see my phone. I always wonder if it's someone who has seen my ads, and personally it makes me feel deeply uncomfortable.
I know you had good intentions by doing this and her reaction was intense, but a lot could go wrong if you approach a SP in public and tell her ''I hope to see you again''...
Personally I'd be okay with a client I see often coming to say hi in public as long as he's chatting like we're friends, but not everybody feels this way. Also if I've only seen someone once or twice, it can feel invasive. I've had clients find my personal social media and try to add me on it.. There's a reason why we use aliases etc.
Trying to add you without permission seems outrageous to me. I've been asked many of times but I'll never ask the sp..that's they're decision 100%I have had men I didn't recognize nod or wave at me in public before, or even look over my shoulder to see my phone. I always wonder if it's someone who has seen my ads, and personally it makes me feel deeply uncomfortable.
I know you had good intentions by doing this and her reaction was intense, but a lot could go wrong if you approach a SP in public and tell her ''I hope to see you again''...
Personally I'd be okay with a client I see often coming to say hi in public as long as he's chatting like we're friends, but not everybody feels this way. Also if I've only seen someone once or twice, it can feel invasive. I've had clients find my personal social media and try to add me on it.. There's a reason why we use aliases
I just want to know, why do you insist on greeting a SP in public? Can’t you just be happy you’ve crossed path and go about your day? You don’t have to wave at everyone
I would also hate it if someone did that to me, especially to tell me they’d hope to see me again
This industry is based on discretion lmao
I would also hate it if someone did that to me, especially to tell me they’d hope to see me again
This industry is based on discretion lmao
Exactly, sometimes I don't know why I am stressed about being seen in some public places lol
However I have a very good face memory so I recognize often people in public
Shoutout to the creep who walked up to me while I was walking my dog, said JULIA SKY??!! out loud and then never booked me but still follows me online and slid in my DMs to brag about living in the same area as me.....
Have to remember there are two worlds and two people just in the same body you are dealing with here. Unless she tells you straight up it is okay to say Hi if running each other in public keep these two worlds a part.
Keep this in mind. The girl has two names for example Amanda is her SP name and Emily is her civie name. You have always met with Amanda and Emily is a total stranger.
This is like seeing famous people and celebrities at the gym. Recognize who they are but respect their privacy and space out in public.
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You didn’t kick your dog away and invite him for a cup of coffee? Very uncalled for and rude of you. He could be someone you could end up quitting the hobby for and have babies with.
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WTF
There should be a curse for people shouting your name out loud publicly to support and provide you for the rest of their life lmao
That made me think of an instance I made a spa reservation with a lady. They were asking for our names. I instinctively wrote down her SP's name but she told me she didn't want people to search it online for some reasons lol
In return I was worried about her concern so I tried to reach out to them (made few unsuccessful calls) to ask if they are checking reservations name against some IDs lol
But I had to ask it in way to not raise suspicions and ultimately make them check out our names online haha
Eventually I cancelled the reservation and rebooked it under another pseudonym I made up for her. Now she lives in my contact list with the pseudo of a pseudo lol
In return I was worried about her concern so I tried to reach out to them (made few unsuccessful calls) to ask if they are checking reservations name against some IDs lol
But I had to ask it in way to not raise suspicions and ultimately make them check out our names online haha
Eventually I cancelled the reservation and rebooked it under another pseudonym I made up for her. Now she lives in my contact list with the pseudo of a pseudo lol
I think these people are experiencing uncontrollable growth of hair on the backs and hands for doing something like this. Yes. There are those who are watching and paying attention.WTF
There should be a curse for people shouting your name out loud publicly to support and provide you for the rest of their life lmao
Someone booked a spa date and put Lena Cartier
I was so confused. I try my best to be subtle and they’re just outing themselves
At the very worst he could have used his own last name as if we were married. Lena Tremblay would have worked too I’m sure
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