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LeDodo

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Quick question here...

I have a friend who is deeply afraid and shy to be completely "Natural" in front of a woman but also wants to meet women.

Do you think an SP could let him play fully clothed?

Thank you
What do you mean by play fully clothed?
I mean to which extent he wants to play fully clothed?
 

DetectiveDavidMills

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"There is no need to stand on ceremony"
 

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I don’t see why not… most of us SPs get all kinds of kink requests / random inquiries anyway. That said, I’m not sure how far he’ll get if he’s actually expecting a full service. It’s doable with some clothes on… but to what extent? If it’s only touche pipi it’s fine.

Maybe he should start with a social rate (no intimacy) before he feels comfortable perusing things sexually.

There are plenty of men who feel self-conscious about their bodies, but we don’t judge … we focus on making our clients feel as comfortable as possible.
 

AnthonyAnderson

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Given the recent news remaining fully clothed is certainly a good choice!

Joking aside, sure, no problem. You could bring a board game to play with an SP and most would say yes. You're paying for their time.
 
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Given the recent news remaining fully clothed is certainly a good choice!

Joking aside, sure, no problem. You could bring a board game to play with an SP and most would say yes. You're paying for their time.
Board games are more dangerous than unprotected sex
Some SP take it so serious that you better make sure you let them win all the time otherwise a blow job could be the end of you.
 

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I've had a few clients who were not comfortable with taking certain items of clothing because they felt embarrassed about certain parts of their body.. I consider it's part of my job to help people feel better about themselves, to a certain degree. Why would I force someone to take his clothes off if he doesn't want to? Some clients have particularities because they are recovering from a certain trauma.. personally as long as he's clean, it's fine.
 

LeDodo

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I don’t see why not… most of us SPs get all kinds of kink requests / random inquiries anyway. That said, I’m not sure how far he’ll get if he’s actually expecting a full service. It’s doable with some clothes on… but to what extent? If it’s only touche pipi it’s fine.

Maybe he should start with a social rate (no intimacy) before he feels comfortable perusing things sexually..
Exactly. I think as long as both parties communicate clearly on each other boundaries is fine. But what I see here might be mismatched expectations.
There might be some services not doable depending of the level of clothes.
 

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Exactly. I think as long as both parties communicate clearly on each other boundaries is fine. But what I see here might be mismatched expectations.
There might be some services not doable depending of the level of clothes.
These can work:

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