SW are just humans. I've seen many leave this life behind them and go fully civilian.
As a John, always ask yourself this question: what is the end game?
If you think that she's worth saving, like as in really building a civilian, real relationship with her, it's possible, but do you have the mental strength to do it, because it has to be done completely on your terms and you have to be really into her and commited, you have to love her but also be immune to her, like a father figure, with no judgement or looking down on her. These girls can read a man like an open book and if you're not honnest then they feel betrayed in the same was you felt and will secretly get revenge.
Otherwise keep it strictly professional, money for service strictly, never ever send her money "in advance" or as a "loan", and if you do, tell her it's a gift in place of a "tip" you always wanted to give her. But the best answer when she ask you to send her a small amount: tell her if she needs money then you have time and money for 1-2 hours now.. tomorrow.
Take a really long time to reflect on this very important question...why did you dive into this insane relationship, there's a psychological issues to work on...if you able to self reflect and figure it out then great, if not...read books about human psychology and maybe pay a professional.
As a John, always ask yourself this question: what is the end game?
If you think that she's worth saving, like as in really building a civilian, real relationship with her, it's possible, but do you have the mental strength to do it, because it has to be done completely on your terms and you have to be really into her and commited, you have to love her but also be immune to her, like a father figure, with no judgement or looking down on her. These girls can read a man like an open book and if you're not honnest then they feel betrayed in the same was you felt and will secretly get revenge.
Otherwise keep it strictly professional, money for service strictly, never ever send her money "in advance" or as a "loan", and if you do, tell her it's a gift in place of a "tip" you always wanted to give her. But the best answer when she ask you to send her a small amount: tell her if she needs money then you have time and money for 1-2 hours now.. tomorrow.
Take a really long time to reflect on this very important question...why did you dive into this insane relationship, there's a psychological issues to work on...if you able to self reflect and figure it out then great, if not...read books about human psychology and maybe pay a professional.
