This is from another thread but I bring it up here for the ladies to answer: How often do you watch porn (or porn is playing) while you're in a session with a client? Is it something you like/dislike or are you ambivalent about it being on during sex?
That's it! I can get off on just watching their faces when they cum. What a great name too, bc it's just that, beautiful agony. You get every emotion in their face: surprise, shock, pain, bliss, awe, frustration, everything. *chefs kiss*
Seems like it went past the line of acceptable to the other person but you know what's best for you. It's stuff like this that makes me grateful for the ladies I see bc I realize I don't understand the full gamut of their side of this industry and the challenges they face.
Initially I thought this was a phase in my life that would be really exciting and burn bright for a bit then die down, and it might yet, but I'm coming around to the idea of having a handful of special ladies that I could see for a very long time. I guess I didn't expect there to be lasting...
To add to this, I once saw a porn-ish series of videos (called Little Deaths or Les Petit Morts or something - can't find it anywhere now) where it was neck-up women having orgasms and I realize now that that is one of my favourite things in the world. Watching someones face as you're fucking...
Not sure I could change your mind about it, and that's what I was referring to initially. It's probably the most famous and done/redone superhero story so, by definition, everyone has an opinion already about how he should act in a movie, and that's before you account for fans predilection...
I dress in exclusively steampunk-cowboy-style a la Wild Wild West. I'm taking a hot air balloon to MTL this weekend (if the Lord blesses the winds). I ride in and atop mechanical insects and arachnids, never aut-o-mo-biles. I'm all set.
The only way I've had an sp consider it (that doesn't explicitly offer Greek) was with some enthusiastic and extended DATO, which led to a couple digits but then she came and we switched positions. It might eventually get there but, like the civilian way, it will take time and trust if at all...
In the civilian world you have to get lucky or work the idea, then the act, into you and your partner's sex life over time (a long time). In this world? Just find the right sp (hint: some of them advertise here and are very open and forthcoming about it).