Do you ever just have BJ only sessions?

Geronimo2 said:

the control on the reflex get fatigued and eventually you lose the control of it and Jesus takes the wheel,

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Geronimo2 said:

Oh boy, forget actual sex for that length of time. To me BJ is more intense than sex, but I don't think I could ever last 3 hours of intense penetration with zero break, even if I could the stamina wouldn't be there. I have no clue how pornstars manage hours long intense shoots like that.

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LeDodo said:

Well, pornstars they have lot of ways to manage with pills but mainly good video editing lol
What appears hour long might just be a compilation of different recording in the same day ...

For me BJ is way less intense than sex. I think that if I skip all preliminaries and jump right into sex I won't be able to hold that long.
But if I begin with all the foreplay it takes me a while. I'm pretty sure with BJ only and no other stimulation I can hold for an hour and still be hard. 2-3 hours I'm not sure lol

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perso said:

I don’t know , we need to test it with someone who is willing to do it that long. I love science projects. Lol

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LeDodo said:

I think I can but only if it's BJ only.

It would be a good experiment to test that ..m for science purpose

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LeDodo said:

I am a scientist at heart ❤️

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Lunaseraphim said:

I also don't think this should be the point of a BJ only session unless the SP can really provide that. (which Julia can, because she is a super hero LOL and I do admit in a duo session it's way easier)

This has mostly been why I feel more wary of providing that service lately, because some people expect a blowjob the whole time or without hands or really unrealistic things like that. They don't read my restrictions and expect FF, etc. I initially offered that session because people were asking for it, combined with a massage, and I received a lot of gratitude.

I took the session away, then I brought it back last winter because I had an operation that prevented me from having penetrative sex last winter and it kinda stuck even after I had healed. But I do find that although it's straightforward and my cheapest option, I always get a TON of questions about it with answers that should be pretty obvious. It became more tedious at some point, I'd get people who hold themselves back from climaxing and who want a 40-45 min blowjob or longer. They would push boundaries and basically treat it like GFE without penetration or even PSE without penetration, etc. A lot of people just do not understand that I am not a PSE provider.

I did have some really good sessions. I had some clients who took the option to see if we would click before getting full GFE, and they were sweet. I had clients recently who fit that description that I really liked. I also had one or two clients on the kinkier side who I vibed with a lot more than I anticipated. I just don't like feeling like I'm a suck-machine.

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Lunaseraphim said:

No not everyone is joking about this.. some guys actually do want this.. but I love your approach and what you are describing is what I prefer

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Lunaseraphim said:

No not everyone is joking about this.. some guys actually do want this.. but I love your approach and what you are describing is what I prefer as well

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perso said:

We were joking of course. ;-). Plus that would probably be the most EXPENSIVE blowjob ever. lol

"Unfortunately, some people treat partners like machines rather than human beings, pushing physical limits for performance just like in pornography. They miss the entire point of intimacy.

For me, the true value lies in connecting deeply, sharing genuine emotions and tenderness, and experiencing mutual closeness for an hour or two—all within the framework of deep respect." It doesn’t always happen but that is another story.
Even if…just a bj session.

Ciao Bellas. Be grateful for this day and have fun.

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Lunaseraphim said:

No matter what kind of service you're looking for it's still "visiting a woman for a service".

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mtlspacial said:

I thought we were paying for the companion's time, not for the service.

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Lunaseraphim said:

That's what I actually believe. But a lot of people here will disagree because of the wording. If you're paying for someone's time, it's still ''a service''. It's just a question of semantics. This thread is about ''bj only sessions'' so there is a particular expectation and focus.

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mtlspacial said:

Well, specific service for an agreed amount of time is more to the point I suppose.

But in terms of BJ session, obviously expecting hours of constant uninterrupted "service" because you paid for multiple hours is somewhat unrealistic.

If you absolutely need that kind of service, better pay for a trio and they can rotate servicing the client.

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Lunaseraphim said:

I mean, I think generally, when you book a provider, you are paying for her time. Beyond that, you can discuss what the expectations are. Sometimes expectations aren't realistic, sometimes you will be more than happy and even pleasantly surprised, sometimes things won't go exactly as you wanted. No matter what type of session it is, some clients want constant physical contact. Some providers are capable of offering this, but not all of us have the capacity for it. Other clients want sessions that are more organic and involve chatting, sometimes having a glass of wine, or even sharing a meal etc. That's also why I ask clients what their expectations are upfront because I don't want somebody to complain in my review thread that I didn't fulfill the expectations.. but sometimes people aren't so communicative.

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Lunaseraphim said:

Of course there is a baseline of service. All I'm saying is that you're not just paying for sexual acts. You're paying for the person's time overall. And I think it should be YMMV, personally. Not like the service provider should just take the money and refuse to do sexual things with the client, that's not what I'm saying, but it's unrealistic to imagine that everybody is going to get the exact same service. You were poking fun at the guy saying he's interested in connection during a session, but this guy is also looking for sexual acts just like you are.

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merbuser1221 said:

Yes, I need hours of uninterrupted service

I paid for 99% up time guaranteed god dammit!

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Lunaseraphim said:

Even for a bj session, I have to get to my incall, make the bed, clean the shower, do some laundry, make everything smell good, take a shower, put makeup on and do my hair, make sure there are refreshments for the client when he arrives, etc. I think it's just human to connect a little bit before getting to action. I've had clients who wanted to cum 2 or 3 times during the hour but I had plenty of breaks and we were able to chat. Things felt very relaxed.

This is very different from somebody who wants something painful or tedious and unrealistic, although I do understand that some people book service providers to experience things they normally wouldn't with a romantic partner.. it's just that service providers aren't necessarily interested in offering that kind of experience.


I understand. But from personal experience, you aren't necessarily right, or at least it doesn't apply to everyone. I also think even here, there are people who aren't fully honest with other users and they are still looking for human connection when it comes to booking providers. I do know some people are strictly looking for nothing but having an orgasm.. Still, I think it's important to remember there is a human being providing the service.

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merbuser1221 said:

Sounds great

I'd say most guys see this as simply visiting a woman for a service, not necessarily trying to push the max limits nor seeking something emotional and "tender" as you would say lol

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Lunaseraphim said:

Yeah, it's not everyone but in my experience a lot of men actually want that. Will they talk about it on the internet? Most of the time no. Because it doesn't correspond to the vision of masculinity that people generally try to project here. But I think it's sad, because it contributes to a certain stereotype about the clients of escorts when people say ''most guys just want to get off and leave''. And it's almost as if for a client to admit that they want a moment of tenderness with escorts he is immediately painted as a delusional simp who thinks the escort is his girlfriend and starts throwing all his money at her.. yet in my experience, that isn't the case.

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