Why "Real" Women Start to Feel Like Too Much Effort
- Thread starter Wessex
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without having watched this video i get what they are talking about, and it is probably a lot of truth to it
Her message should not be news to any of us, but it's worth your 12 minutes. She's a former "high end" (her words) escort who knows what she's talking about. A very important message to hear, for younger clients, especially.
I am sure that some escorts on this board will object to the narrative in the video. To which I will reply 1) client "lived experiences" are worth listening to as well, and 2) the neuroscience that causes this lack of motivation/excitement with respect to real-world dating is well understood, and it is a hallmark of sex addiciton, which can develop in response to repeated use of escort services.
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It's not news but it hurts a lot because she brings you back to reality. For some of us, we need that hour of "i am someone for her". She would not even think about talking to you IRL so that's a way for some of us to have access to those "out of your league" women.
But I believe that message / videos is not destined to on kind of men : those who see escorts to just be drained and move on. It's almost like they treat them like objects of pleasure : spread, dump, bye, move on. They know it's a transaction and they treat her as a commodity.
But for some of us who lack feminine touch, it's hard to hear the truth because she's right. If you meet a woman that is in the same "league" of an escort you saw, chance are you're going to be ignored instead of rejected. And even if that woman is in your league, well, she'll act like she's an escort as if she's in way above your league.
