Yeah, I'm pretty vanilla as all that goes. Don't quite get the nasty domination business (and spitting is just simply gross).
But the terms I use seem to be effectively disarmed by broaching the topic beforehand and letting them know it's all said with absolute respect and are generally modified by adjectives like "sweet", "hot" or "beautiful".
But hey, blame it on my ex.
I mean, if you're into something and you find someone who also is into it, that's cool.




