Did a SP ever say something that hurt your feelings?

CydoniaNights said:

Never really been insulted by an sp, but definitely degraded.

Always in relation to me finishing fast. Most providers wont even acknowledge that i finish quick but every now and then i get some comments.

I had a few providers ask if i was a virgin cause of my PE.

Some classics like “that was fast” or “you came already?” And it usually doesn't go further than that.

A memorable one was one provider telling me that she has some go to techniques to make guys cum if they last over a certain time so she doesnt get sore, and thanked me for not having to go to the trouble.

Another one which still embarrasses me, happened in a session while i was trying to prolong myself by staying still inside her without thrusting, the sp noticed i stopped moving and asked “oh did you cum already” and i replied “no but im close, im trying to delay a little” and she replied “ if you already this close after like 30 seconds, no amount of waiting is going to help you”. I was embarrassed but realized she was probably right so i started thrusting again and came a couple seconds later. She had a mischievous smile and let out a little giggle afterwards and asked if it’s been a while for me. I replied not really and that i usually finish fast. And she just kind of had this look of surprise on her face and said something along the lines of oh that must suck.

definitely left that session a bit embarrassed lol

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Lunaseraphim said:

C'est elle qui t'a infecté ou c'est la clientèle qui exige des services non protégés?
À réfléchir.

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Bucky said:

C'est vrai que si elle attrape quelque chose c'est sûrement avec un client.

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AirBo said:

"I don't love you"

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Mogambo said:

Mine was opposite, "marry me!"

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LeDodo said:

For me it's the opposite, with SP most of the times it takes me a while to come. It's kind of my sexuality exploration trying to understand why it's like that. In my personal relationship I come at a "standard" time.
My younger me could even control and hold it for a long time but I've been told it's too long lol unfortunately it's kind of my norm now.

Back to current time, during a duo I was once asked by one of the SP what excites me and would make me come? The SP knowing my "condition" told the other SP that it's normal that I didn't come and I'm like this, a bit in a way that nothing would work.
Was a bit sad to hear that at first because it sounded like no need to put more effort into it.
I got over it.
Weirdly enough I had encounters where I came at a normal time and was quite surprised (and tried to think about what make it "normal". Only common parameter was they were Asian...).

One SP I see regularly is really trying to help me find and somehow we found it
Needless to say sex is great with her ...

Back to your case, it's indeed a lot of hurting reactions that you got.
I assume that it's most of the time new SPs you are meeting?
Do you have a SP/SPs you are meeting on a regular basis? It might help you build a relationship with her/them. So she/they is/are more understanding and accommodating or even helping you into edging

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Torycats said:

Sorry budd, thats tough.

Have you tried edging? Its pretty effective at practicing you to hold it in.

Or take a shot of alcohol before you go? Not more than a shot or getting it hard will be the challenge.

and consider having the girl on top for most of the session and letting gravity do its think.

There are also condoms that reduce sensitivity, these are great but they do make sex a bit less enjoyable.

Weed also great to delay ejaculation but I dont recommend you start taking some just for that. People i know who do that dont want to have sex sober anymore which is another problem in itself.

I just want you to know that coming fast happens to most of us at any given point in time. A lot of it is mental and the more you think about it during sex, the faster it creeps up on you.

When it happened to me this year, I laughed and told the SP "If I didnt just give you 300$, I would feel way worse about this than I do."

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LC18 said:

Actually, yes a SP did say something that hurt my feelings. She said that references from me aren’t worth much

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LeDodo said:

WTH
That's very mean. She could just have told the guy not you (assuming he gave your name as a reference)

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Giselle Montreal said:

No, you don't say that to the client either! You don't know what kind of relationship they have, it's best to say nothing.

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