Non jamais une sp ne m'as dis quelques chose qui m'as affecté. Infecté oui par contre!
Did a SP ever say something that hurt your feelings?
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C'est elle qui t'a infecté ou c'est la clientèle qui exige des services non protégés?
À réfléchir.
C'est elle qui t'a infecté ou c'est la clientèle qui exige des services non protégés?
À réfléchir.
Je voulais faire une blague, mais qui en fait est réelle.
J'ai vécu un moment d'égarement total il y a, a peu près, 5 ans. Alcool, SP douteuse, avec des relations plus que douteuses. Des junkie et moi alcolo... Ce n'est pas parce que la fille est super belle et demande beaucoup de sous qu'elle est bien, et ou que sont client est bien...
Ca m'as pris 3 ans me remettre sur pied, et surtout, arrêter de boire!
Mais ce que je suis en train de dire c'est que peu importe la personne que vous voyez si vous choisissez de faire des trucs risqués il faut assumer ce risque et faire de la réduction des méfaits. C'est pas de notre faute si les clients à Montréal exigent du GFE.. on donne aux clients ce qu'ils veulent même si on se fait tester à chaque mois
Ho crois moi on attrape pas des mts avec du gfe
Et les risque via le bbbj reste très minime. C'est quand on tombe dans le milieu drogue, alcolo, dependance, etc... qu'on fait des folies et ca c'est très risqué en effet.
I used to be able to fuck for a while. But in the past 10 months with this terrible economy, I have been working 8am to 9pm. No time for the gym and been eating horribly. Put on a lot of weight and lost a lot of stamina
Saw an SP recently and got tired after 5 minutes. She said “that’s it? Come on”. I tried to keep going and she kept saying “that’s all? What happened? Fuck me harder”
It didn’t HURT my feelings but it definitely made me feel like I better start hitting the gym again.
Saw an SP recently and got tired after 5 minutes. She said “that’s it? Come on”. I tried to keep going and she kept saying “that’s all? What happened? Fuck me harder”
It didn’t HURT my feelings but it definitely made me feel like I better start hitting the gym again.
Tu te trompes. Le BBBJ est une activité risquée, daty aussi. Aucun rapport avec la drogue et l'alcool. C'est le service en soit qui est risqué et c'est notre job de l'offrir. Je connais plein de gens, hommes et femmes, qui ont eu une ITSS dans la gorge. Je ne parle pas juste de gens dans l'industrie non plus, c'est assez commun. Peut-être que pour toi le risque est moindre mais tu pourrais mal tomber un jour et ça n'aurait aucun rapport avec le style de vie de l'escorte, le risque fait partie du métierHo crois moi on attrape pas des mts avec du gfe
C'est quand on tombe dans le milieu drogue, alcolo, dependance, etc... qu'on fait des folies et ca c'est très risqué en effet.
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If that can reassure you sometimes when clients get tired fast I worry I did something that turned them off.. it might have been her way of expressing that concern instead of criticizing you
This (premature fatigue) happens all the time as does the sudden impotence situation, and it's a part of male sexuality that is often poorly understood by escorts. In order to sexually perform properly, as Envelopes mentioned, you need to be in shape, at a proper body weight and in the right mood, and very often the escort has nothing to do with it.If that can reassure you sometimes when clients get tired fast I worry I did something that turned them off.. it might have been her way of expressing that concern instead of criticizing you
The first time I experienced sudden impotence I was 42 years old, and with an escort I had seen many times. I believe she was in the Cowgirl position and after a few minutes I went limp. She immediately thought something was wrong on her end, but I knew immediately it was on my end and told her so.
I was only 42 at the time, and in better shape then than I am now and also not medicating for hypertension. I was upset, and made an appointment with my primary care doctor/internist. I asked him if something was wrong. He explained to me that erectile functionality was similar to a car engine, in that a lot of different parts are inter-related and if one malfunctions or is off, the "engine does not work like it should." Weight, conditioning, blood pressure, stress levels, and general health all contribute to whether a penis gets, and remains, erect. In the years since then I have had ED become increasingly more prevalent and aside from the usual medications that can be taken short term to remedy the issue, the root of the problem is how you take care of your body and all the things envelopes mentioned in relation to becoming fatigued. If you have to go on blood pressure meds it's a huge problem, as they kill your libido and erectile functionality. Best course of action is always to lose weight and stay in good shape, and for you younger guys, try and stay off blood pressure meds as long as is possible, also understanding that it may be inevitable due to genetics and age. And if you are consistently above 140/90, you risk serious damage to your health by staying above those numbers.
Yes I'm aware of this now. Also often clients are going through something psychological and it's harder for them to keep going or to get turned on as easily.. I see it as part of my job to make clients who are going through this feel comfortable about themselves.
It's not a big deal if things aren't perfect.Yep, met this Italian SP, session was ok but I felt connected to her and was texting her later to plan a dinner date. After 4-5 texts she replied "if you want to continue texting, it's $80/30min.
I replied sorry for the inconvenience and wish you well.
She phoned me 5min later, did not respond.
For me it's the opposite, with SP most of the times it takes me a while to come. It's kind of my sexuality exploration trying to understand why it's like that. In my personal relationship I come at a "standard" time.
My younger me could even control and hold it for a long time but I've been told it's too long lol unfortunately it's kind of my norm now.
Back to current time, during a duo I was once asked by one of the SP what excites me and would make me come? The SP knowing my "condition" told the other SP that it's normal that I didn't come and I'm like this, a bit in a way that nothing would work.
Was a bit sad to hear that at first because it sounded like no need to put more effort into it.
I got over it.
Weirdly enough I had encounters where I came at a normal time and was quite surprised (and tried to think about what make it "normal". Only common parameter was they were Asian...).
One SP I see regularly is really trying to help me find and somehow we found it
Needless to say sex is great with her ...
Back to your case, it's indeed a lot of hurting reactions that you got.
I assume that it's most of the time new SPs you are meeting?
Do you have a SP/SPs you are meeting on a regular basis? It might help you build a relationship with her/them. So she/they is/are more understanding and accommodating or even helping you into edging
C'est vrai que si elle attrape quelque chose c'est sûrement avec un client.C'est elle qui t'a infecté ou c'est la clientèle qui exige des services non protégés?
À réfléchir.
Pas nécessairement mais il y a des chances que oui ..
Oh I completely forgot a SP at a massage parlor. Obviously time is essence there. While she was stroking me and didn't see me coming she told me she can't continue stroking me ...For me it's the opposite, with SP most of the times it takes me a while to come. It's kind of my sexuality exploration trying to understand why it's like that. In my personal relationship I come at a "standard" time.
My younger me could even control and hold it for a long time but I've been told it's too long lol unfortunately it's kind of my norm now.
Back to current time, during a duo I was once asked by one of the SP what excites me and would make me come? The SP knowing my "condition" told the other SP that it's normal that I didn't come and I'm like this, a bit in a way that nothing would work.
Was a bit sad to hear that at first because it sounded like no need to put more effort into it.
I got over it.
Weirdly enough I had encounters where I came at a normal time and was quite surprised (and tried to think about what make it "normal". Only common parameter was they were Asian...).
One SP I see regularly is really trying to help me find and somehow we found it
Needless to say sex is great with her ...
Back to your case, it's indeed a lot of hurting reactions that you got.
I assume that it's most of the time new SPs you are meeting?
Do you have a SP/SPs you are meeting on a regular basis? It might help you build a relationship with her/them. So she/they is/are more understanding and accommodating or even helping you into edging
It's funny because while some of these things are hurtful, some others sound like misunderstandings and weren't meant to be hurtful on purpose.. Meanwhile we get called slurs, we get insulted on our intelligence and looks all the time, etc. Some of the things my colleagues and I have been told would truly break some of you.
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