Ask us anything part 3

Fradi said:

I think most would be kind of insulted by it. and I would tend to agree with them. Although there has been a trend to offer specials in duos by various ladies doing exactly that coming to a mid point price arrangement for both.

I wouldn’t mind booking one of their duo specials seeing as they are making the offer but trying to negotiate one when it isn’t offered no I would never do that.
I accept that if I am going to book a duo the higher priced ladies rate will apply to both, to me that is fair and the right thing to do and any gentleman should be prepared to accept that. It would be improper and demeaning to pay one of them less in a duo and I don’t negotiate with SP I can either afford to pay what they ask or not.

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Fradi said:

This makes no sense whatsoever.
I agree whole heartedly that anybody hurting any woman physically or crossing their boundaries should be punished SP or civilian.

Just how exactly do opinions do that ( pretty hard to harm someone physically with an opinion). Everybody has one and is entitled to one there is no prerequisite to agree with it. Some may just consider yours harmful lol.

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Lunaseraphim said:

I've seen people do this before. some of us are okay with it, some are not. I've often had clients refuse to match my donation to my duo partner, and I accepted it because I didn't want to lose the opportunity to do a duo since I really enjoy them.. but it's really ideal to match the rates. you are also mentioning different options. Once, I had a duo with a provider who had a PSE option. I assume the client saw that because he treated her very differently from me, he matched our rates (her GFE rate was higher than mine) but he did not pay for PSE.. He was a lot more rowdy with her and it made me really uncomfortable. I think it's important to discuss everything with both duo partners.

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philonius said:

To clarify: I'm not negotiating rates at all in this situation. I say "this is what I'm comfortable spending (ideally with these couple ideas in mind), what can we do with this?" and the amount total is greater than the sum of the highest rate x 2 so it's they don't generally have to come down on anything, but rather how we spend our time, and who gets what $ (if I'm gonna spend more time with one vs the other), is the only thing they have to decide.

As an example, in one scenario they both agreed to spend equal time all three of us together, some social and some play, and they split the total evenly (in line with the most expensive sp rates). In another scenario, one wanted to do dinner beforehand and the other was going to meet us at the hotel afterwards, so the breakdown was $X for one, $Y(less) for the other.

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Lunaseraphim said:

I understood that you aren't negotiating rates, you have a budget. I think honestly what you're asking for is reasonable.. but that's just my opinion. I'm sure some providers wouldn't be ok with it but I would be

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Lunaseraphim said:

There are people who harm people in various ways whether or not they are conscious of it, one of them being slander and insults which can be considered ''opinions'' and in certain spaces these comments can actually have repercussions in other's real lives. Hateful people's opinions do have negative consequences. I've seen people here say that if they get a bad service from a provider they should be able to take the money back or not pay. If a bunch of people start saying that, some will feel emboldened by it and actually steal from providers. That's just an example. I'm not talking about someone saying ''I prefer women with big boobs'' lol obviously that is upsetting for us who have small breasts but it's a personal preference and quite neutral.

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Fradi said:

This makes no sense whatsoever.
I agree whole heartedly that anybody hurting any woman physically or crossing their boundaries should be punished SP or civilian.

Just how exactly do opinions do that ( pretty hard to harm someone physically with an opinion). Everybody has one and is entitled to one there is no prerequisite to agree with it. Some may just consider yours harmful lol.

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Lunaseraphim said:

There are people who harm people in various ways whether or not they are conscious of it, one of them being slander and insults which can be considered ''opinions'' and in certain spaces these comments can actually have repercussions in other's real lives. Hateful people's opinions do have negative consequences. I've seen people here say that if they get a bad service from a provider they should be able to take the money back or not pay. If a bunch of people start saying that, some will feel emboldened by it and actually steal from providers. Do you see what I mean? That's just an example. Bad reviews as well. They can actually have a really negative impact on someone's life.

I'm not talking about someone saying ''I prefer women with big boobs'' lol obviously that is upsetting for us who have small breasts but it's a personal preference and quite neutral.

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jeffmathers said:

I wasn't even talking about you but you sound like you took that personally. I haven't heard anything about you having physically hurting people.

"This makes no sense whatsoever.
I agree whole heartedly that anybody hurting any woman physically or crossing their boundaries should be punished SP or civilian.

Just how exactly do opinions do that ( pretty hard to harm someone physically with an opinion)."

If you don't understand I don't think there's any explanation that would help you understand. Providers come here because it's good for business. It's a detriment to them that they have to interact with people that have physically harmed them and I don't want to go into more detail. Didn't expect you to think I was talking about you since I haven't heard of you physically hurting anyone.

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Fradi said:

That is a huge slippery slope to go down and for anybody to determine to be the judge. We all have opinions.
I believe we have moderators for that to determine when it is over the line.
Why merbites take it upon themselves to continually provide unrequested rim jobs so to speak I don’t know.
It certainly won’t get them free service lol.

Let me ask you this then If you buy something in a store and it falls apart the next day or ends up being a piece of crap, would you want your money back.?
I am in no way defending a vindictive or scumbag reviewer I am sure there have been and will be many but you cannot apply blanket thinking either and say that all negative reviews fall into this category.

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Lunaseraphim said:

I don't think all negative reviews fall into this category at all. If a girl was a scammer or fails to provide the service she says she would in the ad, I understand why a client will say that in a review. If a girl is using fake photos obviously it will be mentioned in a review....

However you know just like I do that there are people who post reviews that are derogatory and insulting. Moderators will only delete comments if they are reported.

... Also do you seriously think it's ok to fuck an escort and then refuse to give the money or take it back by force?

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Lunaseraphim said:

... Also do you seriously think it's ok to fuck an escort and then refuse to give the money or take it back by force?

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LC18 said:

“Do you know who I am? I’ve written multiple reviews on merb. I can write a bad one about you”

It’s giving “do you know who I am? I am [insert celebrity name]” except we don’t care

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jeffmathers said:

It's true Fradi doesn't say things as awful as some users but there's no convincing possible here. Look who agrees with him.

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massagecentre said:

Didn’t know my post would cause an uproar

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Fradi said:

Now you are insulting anyone who dares to disagree with you and agrees with someone else.
You are truly one of a kind lol.
Ever thought of joining a cult there everyone has the same opinion especially if you are the leader.

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jeffmathers said:

You made some big assumptions from that. I'm not trying to make you say anything specific but you're assuming a ton of things I didn't say. My original post should only be controversial if you make huge assumptions.

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