Thank you that you are reading and wathiching me. I think that now you can understand me - children dying in Gaza is a problem, anonymous lonely man texting you is a personl choice will you allow him to hurt you. I dont need a thepary Julia, I am the therapy. My heart is doing very well, but if your heart needs fake sympathy you can continue to complain about texting. When you are ready to walk in my shoes just text me and I will arrange an immigration process in Turkey. Comfort is a common word in North America comparing with other part of the world. Girls if you feel better to complain about anonymous lonely men texting you, please feel free. I saw the death so I really can find the difference between a real problem and anonymous lonely men texting you.
Some person amaze me ... text you will never expect
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I got so distracted with the overall atmosphere of your message, there was so much missed.
Are you seriously trying to victimize yourself and men in your position, especially the ones who find themselves on this thread, being called out for their disrespect and inappropriate words?
We adore our lonely nervous men, they are great. It is the entitled ones who dream of the good old days of patriarchal, woman degrading we have an issue with.
I much prefer my heart. And this elitist way of talking, like you are better than everyone, is not helping your case in the least.
You are attacking people, you don't know enough about. We have all lived individual lives that led us to where we are now. You don't know what struggles any of us have been threw, or what we have had to overcome to get where we are now.
Just because things look more comfortable here, doesn't mean everyone is living a good high end cushie life. No one is going to tell you what struggles they are having in their personal lives, and with that elitist entitled attitude, I would highly suggest against someone letting you know anything.
Why don't you just leave this thread alone and find other ones where you aren't trying to have it shut down by moderators because your bringing a toxic energy to something that was ment to be a lighthearted share and release of negativity for us to not have to deal with it alone, while educating others on what we deal with on a daily.
I have a house on the beach. I dont live in the forum, so the moderators can stay calm.I apologize from the bottom of my heart. I'm going to enjoy the sea, and you can continue the dialogue about the anonymous single men who text you. All the girls so far have given me excellent grades because of the magical realism I create around them. And you can continue to trust your judgment.
Yeah, that fits this thread, the kind of message we receive sometimes...
Just for disclaimer i didn't pay attention to the whole conversation between Denis and others.
I was just curious about the person he mentioned as i tried to look at her profile but it said it was private.
I was just curious about the person he mentioned as i tried to look at her profile but it said it was private.
Sorry if i offended you. Never was my goal. I tried dm you but i think you declined it. Wich is fine. I would elaborate further but it will likely be flagged as off topic so well...
The level of takedown, had me wondering if he might be one of the posted examples. I just don't get where the need to shame us out of sharing shitty posts comes from.
It's taking a gun to a fist fight. It's so far off the deep end for what little we are trying to share here.
I think it was the political inclusion. There are some who just avoid all the political talk. It's too hot and heavy, and can redirect any thread into an echochamber.
Oh dear, maybe we have this all wrong ... you are God's gift to us all, to humanity.
Thank you ever soooo much for your words of wisdom, your insight on such deep matters that we commoners can hardly comprehend.
Please continue to enlighten us even though our eyes may be sooo undeserving of your words of salvation.
GOD bless you ........
@DenisZim
A previous post from you from somewhere else.
If this is how you see things, then great it means you know you make the difference between a good and bad visit. Interactions start from the first message, not just the moment you meet at the door.
Here we share expieriences of people who don't understand that concept, and it starts from opening messages sometimes.
We aren't ragging on the lovelies we get the pleasure to meet, we are shareing the expieriences we have from those we wouldn't concider because of who they present in messages.
And just because you have the pleasures of such extravagant living.
Doesn't mean everyone here lives so well. Good for you, you earned it, we take nothing from you for that. But why rag on us for sharing in our little corner, what effect these kind of messages have on us. It is 1 thing if it were 1 or 2, but we likely share, 1 after recieving 100 similar, that we choose not to share. It can get to a person. I get your trying to come across with inspirational goals and oppinions, but the delivery is not coming across that way, in fact it comes across condescending rather then helpful.13 years from 7.00 am till 23.00 pm. I gave my best years to Canada. When I reached the top my father died in my hends from a very progresive brain tumor (couple of months ago). Right now I am facing the same problem - should I cry or should I take a dinner with my mother. I already lost all my tears so deffinately nothing outside family, love and friends can hurt me. It should be the same for you.@DenisZim
A previous post from you from somewhere else.
If this is how you see things, then great it means you know you make the difference between a good and bad visit. Interactions start from the first message, not just the moment you meet at the door.
Here we share expieriences of people who don't understand that concept, and it starts from opening messages sometimes.
We aren't ragging on the lovelies we get the pleasure to meet, we are shareing the expieriences we have from those we wouldn't concider because of who they present in messages.
And just because you have the pleasures of such extravagant living.
Despite the small misunderstandings (sometimes lost in translation), this forum showed that it is still easier to get along with a woman than a man (two men pointed fingers at what a distracting person I am). I don't drink, I've drunk, but I'm not drunk, so you can continue trust me. When I was little, my father was often absent and I had to be the man of the house as a child. At that moment, my mother built me up as a gentleman. At that moment, I understood that this world exists because of women and that is why every day, with words and behavior, I showed boundless respect for women. 40 years later, I still have the same opinion and fighting here with 5 women at the same time, this cannot change the trajectory of my heart. Trust me I am doing this for you, not against you. I don't have your level of English, those fancy words, but I will try to explain one last time. You are the girl with a level of plus 5. The lonely, annoying anonymous man who writes to you is the level of minus 5. You are a strong, desired woman when you are at level plus 5. You lose all charisma when you go to level minus 5. The goal of the anonymous lonely man who is writing to you is to knock you down to level minus 5 because there he is strong and you are weak. He can knock you down to that level minus 5 only with your cooperation. Let me tell you as a man to a woman - the biggest punishment for a man is silence and indifference. Next time instead of getting disappointed, invest your time in silence and indifference. And never let an anonymous text upset you again.
In no case I did not expect you to understand me - I am not from here and I am not like other men.
A woman can always lie, her body never. This life experience helps me to continue to feel confident in my rightness even when fighting against 5 women. When my father died in my arms, I saw what death looks like. So believe me, no anonymous message can upset you.
I hope your heart finds peace soon and you can focus on the important things in life.
In no case I did not expect you to understand me - I am not from here and I am not like other men.
A woman can always lie, her body never. This life experience helps me to continue to feel confident in my rightness even when fighting against 5 women. When my father died in my arms, I saw what death looks like. So believe me, no anonymous message can upset you.
I hope your heart finds peace soon and you can focus on the important things in life.
At this moment, just agree to disagree and move on, you clearly miss the point they are all trying to convey.
I just finished kitesurfing. Later I plan to have dinner on the beach.
At least I tried. Now I give you all my silence.
Regards,
I will try and explain things to you a bit because you not being from here and your English not being the same. I am Eastern European but not from a country where women are mistreated or trafficked. They are respected and cherished and parents teach their children to respect women.
Yes it is always much harder to take being hurt by family and friends that you love and that you are close to than strangers,
However that doesn’t mean that strangers cannot hurt you or make you feel like shit.
Not everybody develops a thick skin, some are much more prone to being hurt than others. We are all different.
It is hard to take the death of any family member that you love it is something that we have all gone through or eventually will, the worst day of my life was when my wife was taken from me by cancer, there were others , my first child , my mother, father, I could go on and I am sure everybody has their own tragic story.
Normally I don’t like threads that turn into man bashing and I have said this ( and it didn’t go over very well ) as I believe there are many of us that treat women with kindness and respect.
This thread however is about the realities of life and the texts that these ladies receive, some are horrible from totally disturbed people who are dangerous and deranged and some that you cannot help but wonder or laugh at how ridiculous, and stupid some men can be. This stupidity is not exclusive to men but this thread is about how they behave sometimes.
It is a thread where the ladies can vent their frustrations and show examples of the reality they face.
I am not even in my 30s yet let alone over 35. What's up with the special breed of broke man that has a mental breakdown when an escort is outside of their budget? Just book someone else it's never that deep
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