It is why I make it clear I speak for myself only, and we are all different, with different motives. It isn't my primary goal, but it certainly helps. I very much screen for people looking for this type of visit.I don't like it personally when there's a focus on me having an orgasm or not... I'm not going to elaborate on this. I think many other providers feel the same.it makes me feel pressured. I'm the same way in my personal life
I quoted your comment because I was too lazy to look for the initial question lol. I think it definitely makes sense for it to make bookings more enjoyable.
Thank you. It was taken with an SP friend just this past Thursday.
Luna is so kind!Just to clarify my earlier comment, I think it's normal for clients to be concerned with the pleasure of the provider they are spending time with.
What I don't like personally is feeling pressured. Sometimes clients look shocked that I'm not instantly having an orgasm and I've even noticed reactions of anger or resentment, they take it very personally. But whether or not I or other women you're with have an orgasm sometimes has nothing to do with your skills as a lover or your attractiveness.
I think it's sweet when clients have a pleasing attitude and really want to do the right thing, it's definitely how people should act in intimate situations. But as a provider, I get more satisfaction making the other person feel good in all types of ways. Even with other women I tend to prefer being the one who's giving pleasure to the other. It's just how I am, and I think it's fine. I don't think faking orgasms is part of my job as a SP, but some would disagree.
Luna you look sensational with the colour black on you
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Thank you for the thoughtful answer. The only constant in my life is constant change which makes a relationship very difficult. I guess this SP brings a bit of routine and status quo in my life, however it’s fully compartmentalized to the bedroom. We share private matters but there are clear boundaries which we both appreciate. I’ll give this additional thoughts and see where it will lead me.That is up to you. What do you want from the next steps of your life?
If you want a relationship, then aim for one, sounds like you have less addiction to the selection of SPs that others here seem to suffer from.
Or if you have been happy with life at the status quo, it's up to you if you want to find a new favorite.
What you should do, is up to you, and what you see as your goal in the next 5 years, since apparently you stick with things that work for a long time
I usually reach out by email to an sp, so it would not bother me if you message me by email as well.
Thanks for a candid answer. I find it, in some cases, hard to tell real from fake. Some just blow me away totally… others leave me flat (no pun intended).
Not an SP, but here's my take on read flags in general.
Some pointers I look for quickly, since I don't mind sharing, minor pointers, and comes even before other verifications.
This goes both ways. If I see messages or posts from an SP that makes me question if I had an aneurysm while reading it, I am not booking her no matter how hot she is. Hell, I’d rather book with someone who doesn’t even speak the same language as me.
