Here's another resource that somewhat quantifies risk by sex act:
https://www.catie.ca/safer-sex-guide/understanding-risk-by-sex-act
en français SVP:
https://www.catie.ca/fr/safer-sex-guide/comprendre-le-risque-selon-la-pratique-sexuelle
I got a fancy skull vodka with four skull shot glasses. so, shots for halloweeeeeen!
(yes, I've been known to buy alcohol for the bottle instead of the content, please don't judge me, I couldn't resist the skull shot glasses)