100% correct BookerL. Thanks for setting the record straight and giving these guys the proverbial cold splash of water in the face that is called reality.
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My god so true. So many ppl on this board should read this many times over, espcially right before meeting a lady
Even tho I am mid forties, in decent good shape, I clean and take care of myself before going to see an SP like I used to when I went on any date in my life, I still remind myself that the girl is there for the money, not to sleep with me. So I treat them with extra attention and always give a bit extra $ when I feel they went the extra mile
Cheers,
p.s. that is why I never DFK escort. Strangely I find that too intimate. I leave that for their boyfriend.
Do you really think that any of us did not know that the SP's are in it for the money? Serious.
I have gotten great service by being clean, respectful and a sense of humor. Hate to think that the only way I could get good service is by leaving a big tip, it would be demeaning to myself.
Sol, by reading many post on this forum, I myself would say yes, many seems to fail to realize that. Just my opinion.
Cheers,
Hello EB,
Although we all know there are cheap people out there, and, not just when it comes to clients of escorts and companions, my previous post wasn't about calling people "cheapass" for not wanting to spend more then a certain amount per hour and per engagement. Everyone has their own reasons. Spending on luxury items, services and entertainment is a personal choice.
What irritates me most is when people on a tight budget (or the cheap ones) keep on putting down ladies who charge above what their wallet can handle by insinuating or flat out saying anyone above a certain price point is not worth it, it's not money well spent and justify it with flawed reasoning and keeps on repeating the same thing every chance they get.
For most clients who are not part of review boards, spending time with a lady is not about how much they can save by seeing one lady over another, if she's a perfect 9 or 10, if shower time is included in the appointment, if CIMWS is included and if they can get two rounds in one hour, etc. That's review board mentality and the patrons I'm referring to don't attribute value to a lady based on these factors. The focus is put on the whole experience (not service), from the time they send that first email introduction, to the time spent together, up to the thank you email. Point being, like I mentioned before, people will attribute value to what they want to see has value for them and what's in line with theirs needs and wallets.
The same could be said about someone who enjoys drinking martinis: why spend $20 on a Greygoose martini when I can have a $12 martini made with the speed rail vodka. A martini is a martini, right? To a lot of people, the type of vodka matters. To others, it doesn't as long as they have an alcoholic beverage that has vodka in it and it's not above a certain price point.
Do you expect us to believe that you go to work simply because you love your job so much and you're not in it for the paycheck that comes with it?
Seriously lol
good one, hell no I would be playing golf all day if I could afford not working!
Cheers,
Are you talking about the same cheapass who sent you a $300/ an hour escort for your birthday, who was fully paid to service you for one hour in advance?
I agree with you.......I don't understand a maximum price point or associated "logics" which are actually non-logics. It's basic economics that a lady can only charge a price that her customers are willing to pay. And, some ladies choose to see less clients, and only want to see the clients who will pay their price point. The guys who miss seeing those ladies presume that they are not missing anything, because those ladies are beyond the artificial "price point max", but that reasoning is often manufactured to justify the result. The guys who pay it, pay it because they like the service/looks package they are getting, not because it's been dressed up to be something that isn't what it actually in reality costs. That is what all these price point posts say: if you charge over $X, I presume you are fluffed up and not worth it. That is exactly what they are saying, yet they deny saying it. I don't get it either.
Am I a cheapass on some things? Guilty as charged- and I don't know if anyone would understand the logic of my mini-boycotts of certain hotel charges (which is a principled logic). But ladies have never been one of the things I am a cheapass on, and I challenge anyone to say or prove otherwise. I am a shameless slut, and feel completely unapologetic about it.
I have a birthday coming in 6 months, please mark it down on your calendar now, i will alert you of my condo address one week before the big day, merci beaucoup........................:bounce:
It's hard being a cheapass these days, especially when your friends want to visit Montreal and spend money on private escort parties that end up costing the attendees $800 each (and want to go back to Montreal and do 2 parties next time), Seeking Arrangement girls who are smoking hot but want $500 for an all inclusive date which includes dinner, watch some TV, full service sex and then a ride back to her place, and then the usual lineup of HDH and LDL escorts in New York City and Montreal and Florida........is any of this cheap? Doesn't seem that way to me...........
p.s. If you remember, i wanted to send you an expensive sp once which you declined and even got angry about it.
I don't remember that but don't deny it either. Probably true because nobody picks out my girls except me. The only exception to this rule is for James, and only because he is awesome:
http://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?115212-James-is-awsome-at-GG&highlight=james+is+awesome
Well ok but i think it would be much cheaper for you to send the real thing:
https://reallovesexdolls.com/?gclid=CKiekNmAuswCFUFehgodVi4Etw
Barbie looks good but she is 5'1 and only 62lbs!!!!! A little skinny for my taste and besides i prefer to have a date who i can have a actual conversation with so thanks for the nice gesture brother, but i will pass lol.
One thing nobody can say about you Doc, is that you are no cheapassound:
https://reallovesexdolls.com/?gclid=CKiekNmAuswCFUFehgodVi4Etw
Barbie looks good but she is 5'1 and only 62lbs!!!!! A little skinny for my taste and besides i prefer to have a date who i can have a actual conversation with so thanks for the nice gesture brother, but i will pass lol.
One thing nobody can say about you Doc, is that you are no cheapass
ound:I could always send you a blow-up doll. You even get to keep her if you want. She'll obey all your commands. To a degree, of course!
This post also describes me to a T. As for my personal boycotts of hotel charges, i always avoid taking something from the minibar and i NEVER order room service. I will refrain from making phone calls from the room phone if there is a charge for each call i make. I will also try to avoid as much as possible hotels which still charge for wifi. I will never drink bottled water strategically located in a room if i wind up getting charged for it. I'd rather walk a couple of blocks and purchase my own. Same thing with bottle of wines supplied by the hotel. I won't touch them. I will not give any hotel the gratification of charging me an outrageous price for something i can buy less than 5 minutes away or that i can easily do without. Meanwhile, if i check an agency's schedule and see an sp's name whom i really want to see, i may not hesitate to spend $200-240 to see this person again. Sure, from an outsider's perspective this may look fucked up and it probably is....but it doesn't mean that i am or am not a cheap ass.
As for my 'entertainment', i'm more selective now when or how i chose to spend my money. As i mentionned, there was a time when i'd never blink if i decided to spend money on an escort. I'd wind up neglecting other things But that's how i felt at the time. But my priorities have changed over time & i'd rather spend my cash on other things....home, cars, trips abroad, good restaurants, etc. And then if i'm still within my budget i may decide to see someone. Maybe, maybe not. Is this being a cheap ass? I don't think so. It's simply being selective and putting priorities first. And i'd never be the one to judge someone else for the way he choses to spend his money. If i decide to open my wallet & see someone who wants $300/hour for her time, i will never call another guy who would prefer spending $180 on an sp.....a cheap ass.
I totally agree with you 100 % Doc Cosby
I would say that 99% of people that I have met hobbying over the years would agree as well :high5:
Edit: 99.99999
Best Regards
Smuler
I never used the term cheapass until I heard a certain mid 2000s famous Montreal agency owner use it all the time to describe clients of the agency. It's been part of my lingo ever since. I think you might remember that agency owner Doc since you knew him/her much better than I did.............
There is a big difference here, if you could make $300 plus an hour doing a different kind of work I am pretty sure most SP's would take it. If lets say I was able to make $300 an hour having sex with grannies I would probably take the job even though I am much happier doing what I am doing now, and yes I do like my job, very interesting and keeps me busy. Lol
I have not seen hunderds but perhaps 50, I also have gotten extras which others have had to pay for. My guess was that it was because I was clean, polite and had a short conversation with them before anything started ( I have been told this by a few ).
Just my thought but if you see an escort who charges $200 and before the session even starts you give her $250 how do you really know that the service was better, many of the ladies I have seen are professionals and do their job very well ( which I am very thankful for ). The top escorts ( poll winners ) and many others on this board probably give the same service to someone who pays after ( chance for a tip after ) compared to someone who pays in advance with a tip included.
This is just my opinion.
Sol,
This question/query was already answered and I suggest you see BookerL's last post on the subject. You don't see the evidence and I do. It's like two jurors disagreeing on evidence. A juror draws on life experiences in evaluating evidence and I draw on mine which may be different than yours. At this point we are a bit going in circles. Some of the comments above are also either moot or not knowing all the facts, since when I am in Montreal the vast majority of my hobbying is with LDL agencies. When you see girls for 3-4 hours that may or may not be viewed as an HDH equivalent based on this discussion.
This question/query was already answered and I suggest you see BookerL's last post on the subject. You don't see the evidence and I do. It's like two jurors disagreeing on evidence. A juror draws on life experiences in evaluating evidence and I draw on mine which may be different than yours. At this point we are a bit going in circles. Some of the comments above are also either moot or not knowing all the facts, since when I am in Montreal the vast majority of my hobbying is with LDL agencies. When you see girls for 3-4 hours that may or may not be viewed as an HDH equivalent based on this discussion.
Like I said earlier, we can agree to disagree. For me not seeing the evidence we each have a different perspective, I am not one to try and show a SP that I am a high roller when I am just looking for an hour of enjoyment, the vast majority of escorts I see please me very well. As for reading Bookers post he is on my blocked list, keeps my sanity intact a little better.
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