I don't think this topic is talked about enough.
There is a girl, a latina girl that i have seen about a dozen times or so.
Every encounter has been incredible, dream level service.
My last encounter i was excited to see her because she had not been available for quite some time (around 3 months)
She told me politely 'i need some time for myself' so i was patient and did not try to reach her.
She texted me saying she was available in the last week, so i eagerly took an appointment.
Upon arrival there was 5 teens in front of her building door, thuggish rapper look, 3 of them wete wearing the lycra ski masks that kids call a 'pooh sheisty mask' ..covering all but their eyes.
(Which was odd seeing as how it was in broad day around 2pm and boiling hot outside, so hot my a/c was barely working)
I texted her saying i arrived.
Then i texted saying "p.s, are the 5 kids in front of your door smoking and recording a rap video dangerous? Lol"
It was a sarcastic joke and i started sorting my things getting ready to come out of my car.
Then i see the girl i was coming to see barge out of her building and start screaming at these 5 teens very veryy aggressively, arms swinging, threats and insults and calling them all types of names.
I casually get out my car and walk towards her.
The 5 teens seemed in shock and didn't really fight back, they slowly crossed the street and went in front of another building.
I said hi to the girl and she was really angry, just saying 'lets go, get inside'
I entered and walked down the stairs to her appt.
Once inside i said are you okay?
She said no i am not, how could you bring this drama to my home, i was inside and calm and now you brought all this problems to my house.
I was taken back and paused.
Then chuckled and said, i did not do anything.
I just arrived and i am here on time.
I do not know these people.
Then she started screaming at me, "how could you be afraid of kids outside"
I said i was never scared, i asked you if they were dangerous as a joke, how could you not tell the tone with the emojis i put. If i was scared i would have left or not gotten out of my vehicle.
Again, she kept screaming, saying
'You bring fuckin problems to my home !!! I was just inside doing nothing and now you bring these big problems to my house, i cant believe you fuckin bring this to my home'...
Again, i calmly tell her, calm down please. I did nothing, i just arrived. There was 5 teens in front of your entrance wearing ski masks, i have nothing to do with them and i am.here for you. I do not understand what you are saying or why you are angry at me? I texted you that as a joke i did not want you to go out and speak for them, i can handle myself im a big boy.
There was no sensibility or common ground in her eyes, blank stare and blinded by rage, anger,
She kept repeating that i brought problems to her house, i was "fucking trying to destroy her and how dare i bring these problems back to her"
At that point i internally snapped.
I was really offended and just pissed that she was insinuating whatever she was trying to imply.
Then it hit me that she was having an episode, she was not making sense and i should just leave.
I also remembered her texting me that she needed time to herself a while back.
I concluded that she must be dealing with some mental health issues and anger issues among other things maybe, i cannot judge and i cannot escalate this any further even though i did nothing wrong.
So i simply said, please have a lovely day, im sorry it wont work out for today, i prefer to leave.
And i turn around and reach for the door handle to exit.
Then out of nowhere a water bottle hit me in the back of my neck and somehow exploded on the ground spilling water all over the ground and splashing on my shoes.
I was even more angry, but said nothing and bolted into.the hallway.
She came out into the hallway after me screaming 'you bring fucking problems to my home, they cant be here, they know they are not allowed here anymore, why did you let them come here??? Why, why did you bring them.here? I am tired of problems, fuck you for bringing problems to my house !!!'
I sort of ran and turned left down her street.
She came after me following me.
I was worried that she might kick my car and i figured she did not see me come in my car or know which car was mine, so instead of hopping in my car, i continued on to sainte catherine street and turned left where there was many people frolicking around le quartier gaie.
I walked around for about 20 min and went back to my car, undamaged & unscratched. Phew.
Then i left and thought to myself, what in the actual fuck just happened.
This wasn't a girl i just met or someone new, i have seen her at least a dozen times, we even went out on a dinner date and hung out a few times, we really got along great.
I never could have imagined her reacting like this or ever being mean even.
It just goes to show that we never know what people are dealing with in their lives and minds.
Mental health is a very important thing and breakdowns of many types can happen at any time, we do not see the triggers and we can even be the trigger despite not knowing.
Sorry, i felt the need to get this off my chest.
Any thoughts?
Have you ever experienced anything that makes you question a providers mental health?
How would you react in a similar situation?
There is a girl, a latina girl that i have seen about a dozen times or so.
Every encounter has been incredible, dream level service.
My last encounter i was excited to see her because she had not been available for quite some time (around 3 months)
She told me politely 'i need some time for myself' so i was patient and did not try to reach her.
She texted me saying she was available in the last week, so i eagerly took an appointment.
Upon arrival there was 5 teens in front of her building door, thuggish rapper look, 3 of them wete wearing the lycra ski masks that kids call a 'pooh sheisty mask' ..covering all but their eyes.
(Which was odd seeing as how it was in broad day around 2pm and boiling hot outside, so hot my a/c was barely working)
I texted her saying i arrived.
Then i texted saying "p.s, are the 5 kids in front of your door smoking and recording a rap video dangerous? Lol"
It was a sarcastic joke and i started sorting my things getting ready to come out of my car.
Then i see the girl i was coming to see barge out of her building and start screaming at these 5 teens very veryy aggressively, arms swinging, threats and insults and calling them all types of names.
I casually get out my car and walk towards her.
The 5 teens seemed in shock and didn't really fight back, they slowly crossed the street and went in front of another building.
I said hi to the girl and she was really angry, just saying 'lets go, get inside'
I entered and walked down the stairs to her appt.
Once inside i said are you okay?
She said no i am not, how could you bring this drama to my home, i was inside and calm and now you brought all this problems to my house.
I was taken back and paused.
Then chuckled and said, i did not do anything.
I just arrived and i am here on time.
I do not know these people.
Then she started screaming at me, "how could you be afraid of kids outside"
I said i was never scared, i asked you if they were dangerous as a joke, how could you not tell the tone with the emojis i put. If i was scared i would have left or not gotten out of my vehicle.
Again, she kept screaming, saying
'You bring fuckin problems to my home !!! I was just inside doing nothing and now you bring these big problems to my house, i cant believe you fuckin bring this to my home'...
Again, i calmly tell her, calm down please. I did nothing, i just arrived. There was 5 teens in front of your entrance wearing ski masks, i have nothing to do with them and i am.here for you. I do not understand what you are saying or why you are angry at me? I texted you that as a joke i did not want you to go out and speak for them, i can handle myself im a big boy.
There was no sensibility or common ground in her eyes, blank stare and blinded by rage, anger,
She kept repeating that i brought problems to her house, i was "fucking trying to destroy her and how dare i bring these problems back to her"
At that point i internally snapped.
I was really offended and just pissed that she was insinuating whatever she was trying to imply.
Then it hit me that she was having an episode, she was not making sense and i should just leave.
I also remembered her texting me that she needed time to herself a while back.
I concluded that she must be dealing with some mental health issues and anger issues among other things maybe, i cannot judge and i cannot escalate this any further even though i did nothing wrong.
So i simply said, please have a lovely day, im sorry it wont work out for today, i prefer to leave.
And i turn around and reach for the door handle to exit.
Then out of nowhere a water bottle hit me in the back of my neck and somehow exploded on the ground spilling water all over the ground and splashing on my shoes.
I was even more angry, but said nothing and bolted into.the hallway.
She came out into the hallway after me screaming 'you bring fucking problems to my home, they cant be here, they know they are not allowed here anymore, why did you let them come here??? Why, why did you bring them.here? I am tired of problems, fuck you for bringing problems to my house !!!'
I sort of ran and turned left down her street.
She came after me following me.
I was worried that she might kick my car and i figured she did not see me come in my car or know which car was mine, so instead of hopping in my car, i continued on to sainte catherine street and turned left where there was many people frolicking around le quartier gaie.
I walked around for about 20 min and went back to my car, undamaged & unscratched. Phew.
Then i left and thought to myself, what in the actual fuck just happened.
This wasn't a girl i just met or someone new, i have seen her at least a dozen times, we even went out on a dinner date and hung out a few times, we really got along great.
I never could have imagined her reacting like this or ever being mean even.
It just goes to show that we never know what people are dealing with in their lives and minds.
Mental health is a very important thing and breakdowns of many types can happen at any time, we do not see the triggers and we can even be the trigger despite not knowing.
Sorry, i felt the need to get this off my chest.
Any thoughts?
Have you ever experienced anything that makes you question a providers mental health?
How would you react in a similar situation?
