Ask us anything part 3

[LC18]

How do you handle ageism as you get older and lose the youthful appearance and attraction to clients? What is your retirement plan?

I am currently experiencing the opposite, I’m getting busier and busier. People seem to find me hotter than when I was 20

I have to admit, I looked like a teenager at that point and people were always shocked to know I was legal (not clients but people in my regular life)

I suspect a lot of people never came back because they found it a bit awkward. I looked borderline legal, I’m very small and at 20 I was a dumbass. Not everyone is into having sex with teenagers (Thank God)



I also get approach in bars more often now than before and get complimented by women now which I didn’t really before

 

[mtlspacial]

How do you handle ageism as you get older and lose the youthful appearance and attraction to clients? What is your retirement plan?

To answer for myself as a client: I personally feel less and less interested in seeing younger women as I get older. Same applies to SP's. Half my age + 7 is as young as I go (civy or SP). That rules out anyone in their 20's.

 

[x5fq]

I looked borderline legal,

I believe you said once you actually were 17

 

[x5fq]

To answer for myself as a client: I personally feel less and less interested in seeing younger women as I get older. Same applies to SP's. Half my age + 7 is as young as I go (civy or SP). That rules out anyone in their 20's.

70/2+7

 

[LC18]

I believe you said once you actually were 17

I wasn’t an escort when I was 17, I was on sugar baby websites

 

[x5fq]

I wasn’t an escort when I was 17, I was on sugar baby websites

De ton propre plein gré ? Tu n'étais pas en situation de vulnérabilité ou autre ?

 

[LC18]

De ton propre plein gré ? Tu n'étais pas en situation de vulnérabilité ou autre ?

J’ai toujours aimé l’argent et les belles choses. Je voulais te l’argent et des belles choses, j’ai ouvert un compte et à l’époque on ne demandait pas de pièces d’identité

Je ne blâme pas les hommes qui m’ont rencontré car malgré le fait que j’avais définitivement l’air d’une adolescente, ils assumaient sûrement que j’avais au moins 18 ans

 

[x5fq]

’ai ouvert un compte et à l’époque on ne demandait pas de pièces d’identité

Je ne blâme pas les hommes qui m’ont rencontré car malgré le fait que j’avais définitivement l’air d’une adolescente, ils assumaient sûrement que j’avais au moins 18 ans

Quand un adulte entre dans une relation sexuelle ou transactionnelle avec quelqu’un qui peut plausiblement être mineur, la responsabilité principale lui incombe. Le fait que tu ait été volontaire, ait recherché l’argent n’annule pas ce devoir de prudence et ait menti (par omission) n'annule pas ce devoir de prudence.
Autrement ces hommes prennent un risque conscient s'il ne vérifie rien : d'autant plus que ces sites sont connus pour attirer de très jeunes personnes appâtées par l'argent et les belles choses.
Aucune mineure ne porte la responsabilité légale dans ce genre de situation. Peut être une responsablité morale : mais encore là, dans une très très très très très moindre mesure comparée à la leur.
Même si tu dis que tu sembles vouloir affirmer aujourd'hui que tu avais la capacité à prendre intentionnellement la décision d'ouvrir ce compte et d'aller chercher ce que tu voulais
Etre volontaire et active dans cette démarcheça ne dédouane aucunement ces hommes que tu as rencontré. Peu importe si tu savais que c'était illégal et immoral pour eux que tu ne leur as pas mentionné ton âge.

 

[Rebaynia]

How do you handle ageism as you get older and lose the youthful appearance and attraction to clients? What is your retirement plan?

Who says this isn't my retirement plan. I started this to effectively be semi-retired at my civi job.

Your the one thinking, men don't like older women. There is a client looking for every type, like there is a type for every client.


Edit: I'm not in competition with younger beauties. I am in a different category is all. I am more than happy to support, we are all unique, have different personalities and offer different expieriences.

 

[LeDodo]

Who says this isn't my retirement plan. I started this to effectively be semi-retired at my civi job.

Your the one thinking, men don't like older women. There is a client looking for every type, like there is a type for every client.


Edit: I'm not in competition with younger beauties. I am in a different category is all. I am more than happy to support, we are all unique, have different personalities and offer different expieriences.

Yeah there is not really any competition. You just have access to a different client base for ehat you offer!

 

[crinolynne]

Ageism... As an older gentleman, I'd like to know, what assumptions do dancers make when they see someone obviously over 60 sitting by themselves?

 

[x5fq]

Ageism... As an older gentleman, I'd like to know, what assumptions do dancers make when they see someone obviously over 60 sitting by themselves?

Nothing. They just see an RRIF sitting. lol
I am joking.

 

[crinolynne]

Nothing. They just see an RRIF sitting. lol
I am joking.

It's a fair comment none-the-less, but that's your guess, my guess is it's ... on the money... in some cases but perhaps not all.

 

[Rebaynia]

Ageism... As an older gentleman, I'd like to know, what assumptions do dancers make when they see someone obviously over 60 sitting by themselves?

Not sure you will get an answer for this, as we are escorts, not dancers here. I couldn't tell you what a dancer would think. I don't wait for these clubs.

Not that I don't want to. But I go out to have fun, when I go out, and that often involves being an attention whore. Lol... I couldn't just sit there behaving and calling that a fun night out.

 

[crinolynne]

Not sure you will get an answer for this, as we are escorts, not dancers here. I couldn't tell you what a dancer would think. I don't wait for these clubs.

Not that I don't want to. But I go out to have fun, when I go out, and that often involves being an attention whore. Lol... I couldn't just sit there behaving and calling that a fun night out.

Odd, since there a multiple threads on the various strip clubs. But, it that doesn't necessarily correlated with being a denizen of Merb. Noted. The question of course is relevant to seeking an escort rendezvous. My mien has me being straight-forward about being of a certain age, surprizes on actual meeting don't go well. But lately, I'm beginning to wonder if the new generation of companions is as accepting as before. Or is it time that I retired from that too. Looking for encouragement...!

 

[Endurance2024]

For SPs do you prefer regulars or is stranger sex a thrill to see who your next regular might be?

 

[Fradi]

Ageism... As an older gentleman, I'd like to know, what assumptions do dancers make when they see someone obviously over 60 sitting by themselves?

That the ballet was closed but he considers all forms of dance as an art.

 

[Michelle Gunn]

For SPs do you prefer regulars or is stranger sex a thrill to see who your next regular might be?

a little from column A, and a little from column B

 

[Michelle Gunn]

Ageism... As an older gentleman, I'd like to know, what assumptions do dancers make when they see someone obviously over 60 sitting by themselves?

I'm not a dancer, wouldn't last 5 minutes in those shoes, but I would assume that they were obviously over 60 and sitting by themselves.

 

[AlexDaniel]

Clients
What if your favourite SP were to ask you if you wanted to be friends? Without benefits.

Would you accept and stop seeing her for sex or would you decline and keep seeing her for sex?

Clearly I will stop seeing her for sex, you can get good sex in various places but not good and loyal friendship (we have to have same energy tho) and in a long run, friendship is better than sex on demand

@LC18 i saw you answering how to deal with big engine, but my question is : what is considered big fo you, i know its different for everyone