I refuse going to swinger clubs too, even with a trusted client.. it's just not my thing. I also feel like it's a way for the client to get a service I don't offer or would offer for more money, while not paying more. Yesterday someone messaged me and asked me if I would go to cinema l'amour with him lol.. some girls really love that type of thing, but it's not the case for me.
I love strip clubs tho because of their aesthetic, and I like encouraging other sex workers. I like that women are at the center of the experience.
When I hear music I like to dance too much. I'd be worried about getting into trouble. Drawing attention to myself in a place that the attention should be on them. Lol.
I've had nights out at the club, I swear, the quickest way to get men's attention is to politely and classily, just slip & dance away, boom just attracted 3 more men looking to dance and get close. Do it again, another 2 just saw and are now interested. Yeesh.
I love to dance, and think I'm good at it. Most of the time complimented by women, when I go out to the club. But I'm not dancer (stripper) material, I wouldn't even qualify. It's not a world I think I could/would survive, and I say that with the most respect to the lovely ones I have had the pleasure of meeting when they shared their realities in their workplaces.
But I will admit, in my own mind at the club, I form a mental bubble, I'm in my own world putting on a show for those who are looking to be entertained. The more people I see looking at me the more excited and turned on I am. When I'm with someone, even when dancing off on my own, I would return for kisses to say I was spoken for, to keep other men at bay.
Clubs are also where I used to pick up my 3some partners, before I knew about swinger clubs.
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