Is DATY & BBBJ are safe ?

[Juugs]

False. Responsible and health-conscious people do. That is actually what I was taught in school in my Sex Ed classes.

How do you screen them? You ask them for results? Because I was never asked that once in my life and statistically, most adults don’t get tested at all, let alone regularly.

 

[EastWind]

And a lot of people don't have symptoms.. or symptoms can start appearing later.

The throat one was quick. Within three days. The dick one took a month or two to manifest itself. Took a test four days after the encounters and came back negative.

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

How do you screen them? You ask them for results? Because I was never asked that once in my life and statistically, most adults don’t get tested at all, let alone regularly.

I simply don't have unprotected sex with casual sex partners. Everyone who is sexually active should be tested at least once a year.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I simply don't have unprotected sex with casual sex partners. Everyone who is sexually active should be tested at least once a year.

Neither do I.. that's not the subject here. The subject is the risks of unprotected oral sex. People who have a lot of partners should get tested more often than once a year particularly if there's a higher risk. This doesn't just apply to escorts, it's actually even more common outside of this industry in groups of people who have a of casual sex to get an STI from this.

 

[twenty4seven]

One more thing I forgot to mention…

A couple of years ago, I met a well known SP for the first time and turns out I was really her type and we had great chemistry right from the get go. Things started quickly and by the time we were both naked and grinding on each other with her on top of me, she started rubbing her pussy on my dick, which I was very surprised about and didn’t have the will to tell her to stop as we were having to much of a good time and my « little brain » won the fight with my real brain. But then, she just inserted me in her and started riding me. I was in shock and didn’t now how to react. At that moment, I was more worried of getting her pregnant than catching something. Again, my dick won the fight and I just let it happen. It was a great session but I felt really guilty afterwards and got tested soon after that and was negative.

What the weirdest thing about this was that after we finished, I asked her if that was something she did on a regular basis and she said no, that she was just in the mood to do that and that after seeing who I was, that « she trusted me to be clean ». She was beautiful and like I said, we had a wonderful time together, partly because we really clicked, but maybe also because it was such a long time ago that I had sex without a condom before and it felt amazing. Anyhow, I’ve never seen her again, even though she still advertises here from time to time and I think I’d have great sex with her again, but that experience made me uneasy with what she does and I don’t want to put myself more at risk.

And before anyone says it, yes, I could have stood my ground an insisted on wearing a condom, but at that time, my will was 0/100. But I know I consciously made that decision, will power nonwithstanding.

I've had it happen to me twice with providers and both times I put the brakes on right before penetration. They were both mortified for a minute (apologetic and ashamed) but it didn't seem intentional, just that we got carried away in the moment. In both scenarios they were really appreciative that I was aware enough to get a condom on and the sex since has been intense, almost like it established a new plateau of mutual trust, which is always sexy IMO.

 

[Juugs]

I simply don't have unprotected sex with casual sex partners. Everyone who is sexually active should be tested at least once a year.

That doesn’t answer the question whatsoever. I said people don’t screen their partners even if they have unprotected sex. You replied that responsible and health-conscious people do. I asked how, and you reply that you specifically don’t have unprotected casual sex.

Not only is the question not solely about you, but not having casual unprotected sex isn’t screening. You can be with a committed partner and they can still have STDs. The only way to screen is with test results and as I said, no one asks for those.

I’m gonna go out on a limb and assume you don’t have covered oral, even with casual partners.