Lack of talent?

[Jacob Israel]

Underlying fundamental of all this. The convergence of dating and the hobby. The spread has never been this narrow. With social media legitimizing prostitution and also shitting on dating/relationships at the same time. So girls are prostituting themselves while thinking they are not prostituting because she is not sucking dick. Then on the dating front both women and men see all of this as a business transaction.

So in retrospect both civilian dating and the hobby has gone down further down the shitter.

Correct me if I am wrong!

People trying to mix the 2 or confuse them is another reason why it is becoming shitty.
Some guys try to find a “professional girlfriend” and “chemistry”. I really cannot understand that. They try to idealize the prostitute hence why many want “no tattoos”. I think that is the reason why some don’t want to leave bad reviews or walk on eggshells. They don’t want to “hurt” her reputation when she doesn’t give a fuck about the client. A good chunk wouldn’t even say hi to them on the street if they were to see them while they get defensive when someone “attacks” the professional gf.
Can actual real relationship happen; yes but it’s a minute tiny percentage like really really small.
The way towards it is to treat as it is a business transaction. It baffles me that some get attached to someone they don’t know their real age, real name or real origins.
The prostitute game is trying to get as much money from the client. The client tries to get as much mileage as he can.
The second you idealize is when you fuck up and we are seeing this more and more.
P.S: I am not anti the profession you just gotta know and understand how to navigate it or else you are screwed.

 

[$rockstar1985]

We always tend to romanticize the past, but it sure feels like that these were simpler, and perhaps happier, times.

No just facts, one thing I've never done ever is b******* and exaggerate something that happened in my life to make it sound better than it was. I never do that never have never will. But the fact is, Eleganza had the best escorts then, and even what they have today, here in Montreal, John was awesome, who ran that company. He knew how to pick them for sure , no duds , ever

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

Some guys try to find a “professional girlfriend” and “chemistry”. I really cannot understand that.

Often these guys will suffer from a lack of affection or be in a vulnerable affective state (for various reasons). They may have been left by a girlfriend and did not have success finding a new one. They get attached easily. "Chemistry" happens naturally (the mysteries of human attraction...). They may become attached easily. It's a two-way street, too. Some escorts may be willing to financially exploit these vulnerable clients as well by feeding into their illusions.

 

[$rockstar1985]

Often these guys will suffer from a lack of affection or be in a vulnerable affective state (for various reasons). They may have been left by a girlfriend and did not have success finding a new one. They get attached easily. "Chemistry" happens naturally (the mysteries of human attraction...). They may become attached easily. It's a two-way street, too. Some escorts may be willing to exploit these vulnerable cleints for financial gains as well by feeding into their illusions.

Agree, some men read women better than others and some men are naive and some men have not had a lot of women in the real world. Other than SP world. Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it. You're not gonna always have a good time. When that door opens just the way it is. Take it for what it is and pick something you like.And go for it , don't worry about anything else, when she walks in you get about forty five minutes unless you blow more time talking about whatever...no pun intended...

 

[Jacob Israel]

Often these guys will suffer from a lack of affection or be in a vulnerable affective state (for various reasons). They may have been left by a girlfriend and did not have success finding a new one. They get attached easily. "Chemistry" happens naturally (the mysteries of human attraction...). They may become attached easily. It's a two-way street, too. Some escorts may be willing to financially exploit these vulnerable clients as well by feeding into their illusions.

It is a game at the end of the day. You just gotta understand it.

 

[Jacob Israel]

No just facts, one thing I've never done ever is b******* and exaggerate something that happened in my life to make it sound better than it was. I never do that never have never will. But the fact is, Eleganza had the best escorts then, and even what they have today, here in Montreal, John was awesome, who ran that company. He knew how to pick them for sure , no duds , ever

That’s a lesson in life: Enjoy the present moment. Always always.

 

[$rockstar1985]

That’s a lesson in life: Enjoy the present moment. Always always.

Hey Jacob , if you don't mind me asking, have you ever Been married or in a serious relationship... That's when you find out how a woman can go from 0 to 100 in b**** minutes i can tell you from experience.Haven't been in 7 serious relationships and lived with all of them.You never know a person truly to you live with them for around a year,Very true,habits, tendencies, maybe some past comes out of the closet...a whirlwind of a ride for sure...good luck my man

 

[Jacob Israel]

Hey Jacob , if you don't mind me asking, have you ever Been married or in a serious relationship... That's when you find out how a woman can go from 0 to 100 in b**** minutes i can tell you from experience.Haven't been in 7 serious relationships and lived with all of them.You never know a person truly to you live with them for around a year,Very true,habits, tendencies, maybe some past comes out of the closet...a whirlwind of a ride for sure...good luck my man

Never married relationship yes. I see what you mean and you are right.But it’s irrelevant to the conversation. Let’s stay in the conversation which was lack of talent. You sure never know someone until you live with them and even less in one hour.