Ask us anything part 3

[Fradi]

There are many unsuccessful men that are not able to attract a woman. The dating game is very hard on men in this day and age and not all got the skills to play that game. These men still need intimacy so they resort to paying. It would suck to be a 40 yr old virgin as a man. True lots of gorgeous women but they got so much offers and they got the luxury to choose who they want.

I keep hearing this all the time but have a hard time believing it.
I had no problem in my youth and neither did most of my friends and they weren’t all James Bond types.

Same goes for my nephews and children and their friends, none of them seemed to have a problem finding a life partner. yes not all of them are drop dead gorgeous, a couple are, some average and some that I guess they saw something in them I didn’t.

I think men today are just not willing to put in the work and think that dating should be like ordering something from Amazon and wait for it to arrive on your doorstep, which I guess is the case with an SP problem solved lol.

 

[CLOUD 500]

I keep hearing this all the time but have a hard time believing it.
I had no problem in my youth and neither did most of my friends and they weren’t all James Bond types.

Same goes for my nephews and children and their friends, none of them seemed to have a problem finding a life partner. yes not all of them are drop dead gorgeous, a couple are, some average and some that I guess they saw something in them I didn’t.

I think men today are just not willing to put in the work and think that dating should be like ordering something from Amazon and wait for it to arrive on your doorstep, which I guess is the case with an SP problem solved lol.

The game changed. Things changed a lot from 30 years. I see a big change from 20 years ago. The women changed in a big way. The amount of single lonely young men has grown by a lot and this is fact. You can look it up. Social media and online dating did not exist 30 years ago.

 

[Enjoying life]

There are many unsuccessful men that are not able to attract a woman. The dating game is very hard on men in this day and age and not all got the skills to play that game. These men still need intimacy so they resort to paying. It would suck to be a 40 yr old virgin as a man. True lots of gorgeous women but they got so much offers and they got the luxury to choose who they want.

Well if there are so many unrealistic expectations what do you expect! It’s all one headache!

 

[CLOUD 500]

Well if there are so many unrealistic expectations what do you expect! It’s all one headache!

Yep

 

[Fradi]

The game changed. Things changed a lot from 30 years. I see a big change from 20 years ago. The women changed in a big way. The amount of single lonely young men has grown by a lot and this is fact. You can look it up. Social media and online dating did not exist 30 years ago.

I don’t know about that I tried and had no problem at all finding women in my own age bracket or even 10 years younger.
The problem is that I am the one who is not interested. I don’t find them attractive, in the end I would always compare them to the one I loved and lost and they would lose so it ends up being a waste of time for me and for them as nothing will ever come of it.
Most of these women have fucked up their life once or twice already and want someone to take care of them financially.
There is also the case of meeting and accepting their family which I have no wish for nor introducing someone new to mine.

I have found for me seeing the two ladies especially my ATF is enough as I don’t lack for friends or family and I can travel anywhere when I wish so for now this lifestyle suits me fine.

 

[CLOUD 500]

I don’t know about that I tried and had no problem at all finding women in my own age bracket or even 10 years younger.
The problem is that I am the one who is not interested. I don’t find them attractive, in the end I would always compare them to the one I loved and lost and they would lose so it ends up being a waste of time for me and for them as nothing will ever come of it.
Most of these women have fucked up their life once or twice already and want someone to take care of them financially.
There is also the case of meeting and accepting their family which I have no wish for nor introducing someone new to mine.

I have found for me seeing the two ladies especially my ATF is enough as I don’t lack for friends or family and I can travel anywhere when I wish so for now this lifestyle suits me fine.

Everyone's experiences are different. It is a different reality for everyone. I was just pointing out to you the reasons that younger men might engage in the hobby and that many are struggling to find a significant other. It is a growing problem among Gen Z men.

 

[Enjoying life]

I don’t know about that I tried and had no problem at all finding women in my own age bracket or even 10 years younger.
The problem is that I am the one who is not interested. I don’t find them attractive, in the end I would always compare them to the one I loved and lost and they would lose so it ends up being a waste of time for me and for them as nothing will ever come of it.
Most of these women have fucked up their life once or twice already and want someone to take care of them financially.
There is also the case of meeting and accepting their family which I have no wish for nor introducing someone new to mine.

I have found for me seeing the two ladies especially my ATF is enough as I don’t lack for friends or family and I can travel anywhere when I wish so for now this lifestyle suits me fine.

Exactly financially = headaches! You will be in better hands with your regular sps with being friends and respected!

 

[CLOUD 500]

I spoke to this guy who is in my age bracket ! He goes I’m having a hard time my ex wife took me to the cleaners! Bravo! Who would want to be in that situation!

That is a situation for many. The government gives much power to the women and many men get taken to the cleaners in a divorce. I am very certain if this law did not exist where in a marriage half his money and assets would go his wife I guarantee you that divorces would drop to an all time low. In most cases the man is usually the one earning a higher salary so in most cases the woman climbs up the ladder in a divorce.

One of my colleagues told me how he declared bankruptcy twice because of divorces.

 

[Fradi]

Exactly financially = headaches! You will be in better hands with your regular sps with being friends and respected!

You still don’t get it.
I would trade all the SP in the world for a day with the one I spent a lifetime with and lost to cancer.
It is not the same and never will be. You cannot buy love or a family, they are not for sale.
Yes I am lucky to have my ATF and the other gorgeous young lady I have been seeing for many years they have made a difference in my life and I will always be grateful to them for their kindness.

 

[Enjoying life]

You still don’t get it.
I would trade all the SP in the world for a day with the one I spent a lifetime with and lost to cancer.
It is not the same and never will be. You cannot buy love or a family, they are not for sale.
Yes I am lucky to have my ATF and the other gorgeous young lady I have been seeing for many years they have made a difference in my life and I will always be grateful to them for their kindness.

Sorry and that was very special ! It could be a once in a lifetime thing very precious! Just enjoy the now time!

 

[Enjoying life]

That is a situation for many. The government gives much power to the women and many men get taken to the cleaners in a divorce. I am very certain if this law did not exist where in a marriage half his money and assets would go his wife I guarantee you that divorces would drop to an all time low. In most cases the man is usually the one earning a higher salary so in most cases the woman climbs up the ladder in a divorce.

One of my colleagues told me how he declared bankruptcy twice because of divorces.

It’s not love! Always be safe as much as possible with your things! Love yourself don’t be taken for a fool turning broke!

 

[Fradi]

What you had was beautiful and heartbreaking ! Take care of yourself and stay strong!

Thanks, I am fine, I have amazing children and grandchildren who I see every week a life time of memories and friends I have known for over 30 years so I am not a lost soul.

I also have an amazing ATF who is not only gorgeous but a kind and special young lady who is a dear friend and luckily I can afford to take my children on vacations or travel when I feel like it. This is not how I planned my retirement years but you never know what life will throw at you.
Again life is all about risk and you make your own luck.

 

[CLOUD 500]

It’s not love! Always be safe as much as possible with your things! Love yourself don’t be taken for a fool turning broke!

True say

 

[twenty4seven]

What a strange and depressing turn this thread took. Let's see if we can get this back on track.

Ladies (and accountants?), are Throne gifts counted as taxable income? I don't care whether you do or don't claim them on taxes, I'm just wondering if they are supposed to be. Like, if you had to pay taxes on a bunch of merch, that would be shitty, but sometimes they're actual $ payouts.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

1) In exchange for goods and services.

That is not freebies at all, especialy the trade for services. My time is as valuable as hers. I never offer my services for free!

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Ladies (and accountants?), are Throne gifts counted as taxable income? I don't care whether you do or don't claim them on taxes, I'm just wondering if they are supposed to be. Like, if you had to pay taxes on a bunch of merch, that would be shitty, but sometimes they're actual $ payouts.

What you receive is money in your account to buy the gift. But it's mosly tips and random reasons to send money like "buy me dinner" etc. If someone get gifts frequently, it goes beyond the "but he gave me 200$ to buy the shoes I want". So I would suggest to indeed declare the income. When I had a Wishtender, I declared most of the money gift I received since it didn't make sense to hide these amounts in my accounts, actually you can't. It isn't a real donation either, it was supplemental income for me.

That's why I prefer when my clients buy me the actual gifts and bring them to me :- )

 

[twenty4seven]

What you receive is money in your account to buy the gift. But it's mosly tips and random reasons to send money like "buy me dinner" etc. If someone get gifts frequently, it goes beyond the "but he gave me 200$ to buy the shoes I want". So I would suggest to indeed declare the income. When I had a Wishtender, I declared most of the money gift I received since it didn't make sense to hide these amounts in my accounts, actually you can't. It isn't a real donation either, it was supplemental income for me.

That's why I prefer when my clients buy me the actual gifts and bring them to me :- )

That's what I thought actually, and why I prefer to bring gifts IRL too. Thanks

 

[Giselle Montreal]

That's what I thought actually, and why I prefer to bring gifts IRL too. Thanks

That said, declaring your income is done volontarily. Some might not know they should declare their Throne gifts, or just don't do it, it's their responsibility in the end.

 

[Alexmtl514]

Hey since it’s “ask us anything” I have some questions
Do girls like it when a man eats your ass? Does it turn you on or do you find it weird? What’s your favourite position when getting eaten out? From all fours and the man eats you from the back or laying on your back with your legs up in the air while he eats your pussy and ass from the front?

Do you find it exciting/kinky doing it with married men? Does it get you more excited, indifferent or does it turn you off?

What is the your favourite way to orgasm? By penetration, by getting your pussy eaten and coming on his mouth or by hand stimulation?

Thanks in advance

 

[Rebaynia]

Hey since it’s “ask us anything” I have some questions
Do girls like it when a man eats your ass? Does it turn you on or do you find it weird? What’s your favourite position when getting eaten out? From all fours and the man eats you from the back or laying on your back with your legs up in the air while he eats your pussy and ass from the front?

I enjoy the company of men who want me to enjoy our time together as much as them. (In some cases more than them, as some enjoy more giving than recieving.) Yes DATY/DATO also feels good for me. But not everyone likes it, so it helps to ask. As for position, I don't much care, so long as I can help get sensations along with self pleasure while they do what they are doing too, to get me to climax. Just 1 targeted location of pleasure goes numb rather than expierience pleasure in my hyperfocus. So it takes overwhelming my sensory cortex to get to climax.

Do you find it exciting/kinky doing it with married men? Does it get you more excited, indifferent or does it turn you off?

I definately like kinky, but I don't think it kinky to be with a married man, just because he is married. I feel bad for their partner, and have often expressed couple goals, or ways to help mend their relationship, to reconnect with their wife after the service. Especially for those who express guilt after their release.
Yes I still do my service, I am in a relationship myself. He enjoys sharing, so there are ways to be kinky in it. But I don't call it kink when the partner is unaware. It is only kink if the partner is aware and it excites them, otherwise I feel bad that someone is non-consentually part of the equation because of cheating. Non-consent is not kink it is just wronging/hurting someone who is unaware.

What is the your favourite way to orgasm? By penetration, by getting your pussy eaten and coming on his mouth or by hand stimulation?

Thanks in advance

It is different for everyone. For me it needs be an overwhelming of many senses for myself. If he is just focused on 1 location I will not get there. Clitoral stimulation is a must for me, it is like the enhancer for anything/everthing else to feel better, otherwise the body just doesn't respond the same. It is the catalyst, but alone isn't enough either.

Men who prevent me from lending a helping hand because of their ego, also will not reach the goal of my orgasm. Their ego doesn't see it as helping to achieve their goal, but they wont get me there entirely on their own. In that case it means he will enjoy, but I won't, and am tolerating the situation until the time is done. Fine if that is what he wants, but when they get frusterated I won't orgasm they don't want to take accountability, they prevented me from making it something I can get into and enjoy too.

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Also we are all different, not every SP is looking for the same. There are some who's goal and pleasure is soly in giving the service to their clients, his pleasure is the only one that really matters. There are also some who prefer their clients don't try to get them to climax, but that the client just enjoy the expierience they are presented with while being serviced. Most SPs are not looking for their pleasures to be satisfied by their clients.

Its all about finding someone compatible with you and what you are looking for.