SP refusing to see me again because she doesn't want to disappoint.

[Glyscore]

Was wondering if you already fell into a situation like this where an SP you used to see for some time don't want to see you anymore after a Time gap because she thinks she's not up to part anymore (what I got told).

Like, she's a good SP, and I asked to just ne honnest with me and tell me that's im the issue but she wont and really pushing the narrative that she doesn't wanna disappoint me. I find it odd. My number isnt blocked, she didn't ask me to stop talking to her. She interracts with me at Time. But she simply Wont have me as a client anymore. This is driving me insane tbh...

 

[Cheecho98]

Doesn't really matter why, but could be because she's worried you're getting too attached and nobody needs that headache.

 

[LeDodo]

I would say just leave it. Although the unknown is killing you maybe it's best to just leave as it is ...
Human nature will make you want to explain, maybe makes things better and make things even more complicated.

 

[Wildstar]

It's likely a pretextual reason and you'll never know the real one. There are many reasons she might not want to see you anymore, some of which might have nothing to do with you at all. It's just easier for her to give you this explanation--at least she didn't just block/ghost you. Best to just accept it and move on.

 

[PSEfreak]

When someone basically says " it's not you, it's me", what do you think ?

Offer more $$ and see what happens

 

[twenty4seven]

Yeah I don't think you're gonna get many answers that you like. She created an out and it seems like it hasn't gotten super personal or weird yet so call it a Draw and move on.

 

[Confident]

Was wondering if you already fell into a situation like this where an SP you used to see for some time don't want to see you anymore after a Time gap because she thinks she's not up to part anymore (what I got told).

Like, she's a good SP, and I asked to just ne honnest with me and tell me that's im the issue but she wont and really pushing the narrative that she doesn't wanna disappoint me. I find it odd. My number isnt blocked, she didn't ask me to stop talking to her. She interracts with me at Time. But she simply Wont have me as a client anymore. This is driving me insane tbh...

It happened to Casanova

 

[IamNY]

The SP is doing you a favor. Time to do some exploring with new talent!

 

[Glyscore]

The SP is doing you a favor. Time to do some exploring with new talent!

Yeah I guess. I dont like exploring too Much. Like my regulars

 

[RobertNYC]

I’d discontinue communication for at least a month. IF you really want to see her (and I don’t know why you would after all this), after four weeks of silence I’d simply text her “hey there, hope you’re well. You around wk of __ to meet up for appt? Thx”.

If she says not interested or whatever, move on dude. As the ever wise IamNY said, she’s doing you a favor. And I’d add, you’re not going to realize the favor she’s doing for you until sometime down the line.

 

[Sasha_]

I'd say, like Woody Allen: In short, I'd like to have a slightly positive message to convey to you. I don't have one. Would two negative messages be okay with you?

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I asked to just ne honnest with me and tell me that's im the issue but she wont and really pushing the narrative that she doesn't wanna disappoint me.

She obviously fell in love with you!

More seriously, don’t torture yourself and just move on! She’s not the only fish in the tank.

 

[DesmondOnly]

Just move on. I know it is hard to accept it and you question yourself about what happened. But as long as you doubt yourself, your mind never strops. So move on and find new people!

 

[RobertNYC]

I'd say, like Woody Allen: In short, I'd like to have a slightly positive message to convey to you. I don't have one. Would two negative messages be okay with you?

Ha! I thought it was, “I only wish I could find a positive point to leave with you. Will you take two negative points?”