No issues and never did they want it at the beginning! Play a good host with good conversations!always outcall meself too, always shower before she event ring at the door, money clearly visible first thing, on a table. now, agency SPs take money at the end always. they are kind of classy. Independant SPs are so insecure about the money part that they take it at the beginning , hands almost shaking
The case of the missing 20$ - Anyone else got this ?
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You all need to keep in mind this warning they used to post in new orleans:
“Beware pickpockets and loose women”
“Beware pickpockets and loose women”
I have a different experience. Most indys I see take the money while I am showering and pay no attention to the envelope before I go in The shower, maybe aside from just noticing g the cash is there and they trust the Amount is there in full. It’s happened to me to forget putting g the cash at the beginning and taking it out at the end of the meeting. Agreed that agency girls take the cash at the end with no real second thought.always outcall meself too, always shower before she event ring at the door, money clearly visible first thing, on a table. now, agency SPs take money at the end always. they are kind of classy. Independant SPs are so insecure about the money part that they take it at the beginning , hands almost shaking
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Nah it depends on the individual person.always outcall meself too, always shower before she event ring at the door, money clearly visible first thing, on a table. now, agency SPs take money at the end always. they are kind of classy. Independant SPs are so insecure about the money part that they take it at the beginning , hands almost shaking
I have had to remind Indy’s to not leave the envelope on the table as they were leaving.
I think they are exactly the same with clients. I could show up and say I forgot the envelope at home and I am 100% sure with the ones I have been seeing it wouldn’t matter I would just give it to them next time I see them or bring it the same day once I got home their choice, In fact we had just talked about this recently and she laughed and said I know where you live.
I have forgotten to give the envelope twice and had to walk back from the parking lot. I now always check before getting into my car.
it depends on the person but also it depends on whether it s a regular or not, because then something called trust comes on the table too. new encounters need to secure the money part first thing at the beginning of the date, especially indies
I agree at some point trust kicks in with regulars and it changes the game entirely.it depends on the person but also it depends on whether it s a regular or not, because then something called trust comes on the table too. new encounters need to secure the money part first thing at the beginning of the date, especially indies
Only the people I have met several times are allowed to pay me at the end of the date, by etransfer or bitcoins. The people I am meeting for the first time have to establish trust.
I have never taken the money right as someone passes the door of my incall or as soon as I step in their hotel room.
If it’s at my incall, they will give me the envelope and I’ll just tell them to leave it on the table. It’s my least favourite part as I feel it really breaks the mood so I try to not make a big deal out of it.
If it’s an outcall, I expect the envelope to be in the bathroom. I will go and quickly freshen up, just like I would expect ALL clients to do when they come to me.
No one is here to do a body scrub, shower, exfoliation, moisturizer type of situation. You do that at home and you just refresh the parts of your body you’re about to shove in someone’s mouth. It’s the least you can do.
When it’s outcall, I trust that the person has showered before I come but sometimes I have bad surprises
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I have never taken the money right as someone passes the door of my incall or as soon as I step in their hotel room.
If it’s at my incall, they will give me the envelope and I’ll just tell them to leave it on the table. It’s my least favourite part as I feel it really breaks the mood so I try to not make a big deal out of it.
If it’s an outcall, I expect the envelope to be in the bathroom. I will go and quickly freshen up, just like I would expect ALL clients to do when they come to me.
No one is here to do a body scrub, shower, exfoliation, moisturizer type of situation. You do that at home and you just refresh the parts of your body you’re about to shove in someone’s mouth. It’s the least you can do.
When it’s outcall, I trust that the person has showered before I come but sometimes I have bad surprises
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Seems trust is one sided. Given the $20 situation, I would leave the donation after I take the shower, I want the donation in my sight at all times, who knows she could put a bill her pockets and then say I am short some money. I would not trust them at all till many repeat encounters. The reviews give me an idea of the service, does she provide GFE services are advertised.it depends on the person but also it depends on whether it s a regular or not, because then something called trust comes on the table too. new encounters need to secure the money part first thing at the beginning of the date, especially indies
Some SPS can bring those surprises as well I notice! Never has an sp looked or expected an envelope when they came to me! I have it out of sight till the end of session!Only the people I have met several times are allowed to pay me at the end of the date, by etransfer or bitcoins. The people I am meeting for the first time have to establish trust.
I have never taken the money right as someone passes the door of my incall or as soon as I step in their hotel room.
If it’s at my incall, they will give me the envelope and I’ll just tell them to leave it on the table. It’s my least favourite part as I feel it really breaks the mood so I try to not make a big deal out of it.
If it’s an outcall, I expect the envelope to be in the bathroom. I will go and quickly freshen up, just like I would expect ALL clients to do when they come to me.
No one is here to do a body scrub, shower, exfoliation, moisturizer type of situation. You do that at home and you just refresh the parts of your body you’re about to shove in someone’s mouth. It’s the least you can do.
When it’s outcall, I trust that the person has showered before I come but sometimes I have bad surprises
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I'm a little surprised so many of you guys pay at the beginning. It makes sense I suppose but I primarily book agency girls and have always paid at the end unless specifically asked. It just feels more natural to pay at the end for me, plus if I want to tip or give extras I can do it all in one shot. Never had a problem doing it this way, and I find a lot of the time the girls don't even count the money.
THAT is exactly the conclusion that i was about to make, in regard to all this.
It is COMPLETELY different. differences are based on these variables: Agency Girls vs Indy, Outcall vs Incall, First time vs Regular
But i think from all this we get to conclude some good practices:
* show the money, all of it, no doubt should be in the air
* shower right before or shower extra if she wants you to when she is there. (all Life came from the ocean isn it ? We are supposed to love the water)
Regarding the shower part, this applies to the SP too as @Enjoy-Life said
it depends on the person but also it depends on whether it s a regular or not, because then something called trust comes on the table too. new encounters need to secure the money part first thing at the beginning of the date, especially indies
Why are you rolling your eyes? Would you rather lose money or get raped?
I had a few instances over the years where a client simply chose not to pay at all. I promise it stings A LOT MORE than losing a few dollars. If you see well reviewed indies theres no reason why you should be scared to at least show the money in advance. Most of us won't count it we just want to see that you do in fact have it.
Where's your review thread as a trustworthy client? Where's your proof that you will pay?
please allow my eyes to roll my dear they arent attacking you. Are they ? dont just jump on the roof right now
It has never been a question of choosing between losing money or getting raped. If you were with a rapist do you think that making sure you get paid will prevent you somehow from getting raped anyway ? LoL ... You have your ways to get reviews of trustworthy clients because you ask for references ! it s not like you dont , indies sometimes ask 2 to 3 different contact of SPs for references. I guess that does not count ? and uhm I dont think anyone in here disagrees with showing a proof of payment
Agency girls are OK with getting paid at the end, that is my experience. Indys on the other hand generally ask for the cash at the beginning. Again at some point for repeat meetings trust kicks in and the girl knows i will pay her so it has happened i paid at the very end even with an Indy. But for first meetings, payment is generally requêtes as part of her instructions. After a couple of meetings i sense the girls generally no longer care once some level of trust is established.
Yup but I have the impression that with agencies the booker or someone is not far. So if anything goes wrong the lady can ring that person for help.
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