Most taboo fantasy

[LeDodo]

This isn't a taboo fantasy here lol I'd go as far as saying that the fantasy can be a little dangerous.. because we do develop some connections with our clients and there can be tenderness and friendship with people but that doesn't mean it's becoming a romantic relationship. (I know some SP enter relationships with their clients tho)

The fantasy here is that it's becoming a romantic relationship

My ''fantasy'' is meeting someone who treats me as well as my clients do in my personal life, who would be okay with what I do for a living.. And would be willing to make efforts for me. That doesn't mean buying me champagne and expensive jewelery or taking me to fancy restaurants, but something thoughtful once in a while would be nice, who thinks about me and remembers what I like, maybe bringing me a treat here and there, taking me on dates, planning to see me ahead of time instead of being like ''what are you up to'' at 2am or breaking up with me every 2 weeks, actually wanting to build something long lasting.. but that is only taboo because I'm comparing people I've dated to clients and because dating as an escort is difficult.

I think what you consider a fantasy is very realistic expectations about a relationship. I really hope you can find that person. But I'm assuming from what you're saying that you were not lucky in your past relationship ...

The difficult part lies with being ok with what you do for a living. It's difficult but not impossible.

 

[blow20102010]

This isn't a taboo fantasy here lol I'd go as far as saying that the fantasy can be a little dangerous.. because we do develop some connections with our clients and there can be tenderness and friendship with people but that doesn't mean it's becoming a romantic relationship. (I know some SP enter relationships with their clients tho)

My ''fantasy'' is meeting someone who treats me as well as my clients do in my personal life, who would be okay with what I do for a living.. And would be willing to make efforts for me. That doesn't mean buying me champagne and expensive jewelery or taking me to fancy restaurants, but something thoughtful once in a while would be nice, who thinks about me and remembers what I like, maybe bringing me a treat here and there, taking me on dates, planning to see me ahead of time instead of being like ''what are you up to'' at 2am or breaking up with me every 2 weeks, actually wanting to build something long lasting.. but that is only taboo because I'm comparing people I've dated to clients and because dating as an escort is difficult.

Gosh sorry but every woman want that and when that type of person is in front of them, then they get friendzoned for being too caring !

 

[DouMan]

Yeah like all fantasies, they may be different when applied to reality lol.

So right. Must be timed in the early sleep if not the reality of morning breath can be a mood killer.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Gosh sorry but every woman want that and when that type of person is in front of them, then they get friendzoned for being too caring !

Sorry your feelings were hurt but it isn't my fault

 

[DouMan]

Gosh sorry but every woman want that and when that type of person is in front of them, then they get friendzoned for being too caring !

Unfortunately many "that type of person" don't understand, or worse accept, the difference between client and a personal life relationship companion.

 

[Fradi]

My ''fantasy'' is meeting someone who treats me as well as my clients do in my personal life, who would be okay with what I do for a living.. And would be willing to make efforts for me. That doesn't mean buying me champagne and expensive jewelery or taking me to fancy restaurants, but something thoughtful once in a while would be nice, who thinks about me and remembers what I like, maybe bringing me a treat here and there, taking me on dates, planning to see me ahead of time instead of being like ''what are you up to'' at 2am or breaking up with me every 2 weeks, actually wanting to build something long lasting.. but that is only taboo because I'm comparing people I've dated to clients and because dating as an escort is difficult.

What you are describing is basically the minimum that any man should be doing in a relationship and should be easy to find.
There is one huge issue though that I would never be able to cope with and I think many wouldn’t.

How can you possibly be romantically involved with a lady who fucks other men for a living, this for me is a non starter and would never work.
While I am not the jealous type I don’t share women that I am in love with nor would I consider it “just work”.
It is not that I couldn’t fall in love with an escort, if I was 30 years younger my ATF would be in serious trouble but I could never be in a relationship if she continued to work as an escort that is a recipe for disaster.

 

[anatomy]

What you are describing is basically the minimum that any man should be doing in a relationship and should be easy to find.
There is one huge issue though that I would never be able to cope with and I think many wouldn’t.

How can you possibly be romantically involved with a lady who fucks other men for a living, this for me is a non starter and would never work.
While I am not the jealous type I don’t share women that I am in love with nor would I consider it “just work”.
It is not that I couldn’t fall in love with an escort, if I was 30 years younger my ATF would be in serious trouble but I could never be in a relationship if she continued to work as an escort that is a recipe for disaster.

Yeah, can you imagine her coming home from a long day at the "office" i.e. fucking 5-10 guys and then telling you she is too tired to have more sex (with you.)

 

[Jacob Israel]

Yeah, can you imagine her coming home from a long day at the "office" i.e. fucking 5-10 guys and then telling you she is too tired to have more sex (with you.)

I tell you worse anatomy. One bf comes with her to work and watches her getting pounded on her sofa by the other guys. He watches and faps while it happens (true story I really really really hope it weren’t true)

 

[Centroquois]

This is going to sound vanilla af, but right now the fantasy is to meet a SP and overcome the apprehension of feeling hustled.

 

[philonius]

This is going to sound vanilla af, but right now the fantasy is to meet a SP and overcome the apprehension of feeling hustled.

This an internal thing you think about bc of this industry or the vibe you're getting from the provider(s) when you're with them? You might be in the wrong price bracket if it's the latter (either paying what you believe is too much for the level of service you expect, or too you've gone too cheap and getting less than desired). Shouldn't be too hard to find someone well reviewed here that doesn't make you feel like that.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

What you are describing is basically the minimum that any man should be doing in a relationship and should be easy to find.
There is one huge issue though that I would never be able to cope with and I think many wouldn’t.

How can you possibly be romantically involved with a lady who fucks other men for a living, this for me is a non starter and would never work.
While I am not the jealous type I don’t share women that I am in love with nor would I consider it “just work”.
It is not that I couldn’t fall in love with an escort, if I was 30 years younger my ATF would be in serious trouble but I could never be in a relationship if she continued to work as an escort that is a recipe for disaster.

I was describing a fantasy and not reality. Don't worry I'm not trying to get in a relationship with you.

 

[Fradi]

I was describing a fantasy and not reality. Don't worry I'm not trying to get in a relationship with you.

That would be impossible lol. I am way too old for you.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

That would be impossible lol. I am way too old for you.

I don't know how old you are, but you think no one would be in a relationship with me and made sure I know your thoughts on the matter so that everyone here could laugh at me.

 

[Fradi]

No I specifically said I could not be in a relationship with someone who fucks other men for a living, don’t twist my words.
What you and other people do are not my business or concern.
I hope everybody finds someone they can love and have an amazing life with including you.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Then why not say that instead? Obviously you're allowed to not want to be in a relationship with someone who fucks other men for a living. I just said it was a fantasy, and explained it's partly because dating when you are a SP is hard.

 

[Enjoying life]

I don't know how old you are, but you think no one would be in a relationship with me and made sure I know your thoughts on the matter so that everyone here could laugh at me.

I find Luna way nicer than the people I work with among other SPS and ya dating is just too tiring nd I get nothing but what you have own so

Then why not say that instead? Obviously you're allowed to not want to be in a relationship with someone who fucks other men for a living. I just said it was a fantasy, and explained it's partly because dating when you are a SP is hard.

Sorry but the dating scene sucks today and I find SPS like Luna among others way more respectful and eager to please than any bogus date!

 

[Fradi]

Then why not say that instead? Obviously you're allowed to not want to be in a relationship with someone who fucks other men for a living. I just said it was a fantasy, and explained it's partly because dating when you are a SP is hard.

That is exactly what I said I don’t know what you were reading.
As I mentioned I would be head over heels in love with my ATF if I was a lot younger but I could never accept her line of work to continue and honestly I think she would be totally disappointed in me if I would,
There are some SP that understand this and actually want the person they fall in love with to be theirs alone and for them to only be with them as well.

Again you will never hear from me that someone shouldn’t be in love or find someone to spend their life with.
I m a total romantic and lived a lifetime with the woman of my dreams and will forever have those memories and I wish the same for everyone regardless of what they do for a living.
Everyone deserves a chance of happiness in their life without exception.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

That is exactly what I said I don’t know what you were reading.
As I mentioned I would be head over heels in love with my ATF if I was a lot younger but I could never accept her line of work to continue and honestly I think she would be totally disappointed in me if I would,
There are some SP that understand this and actually want the person they fall in love with to be theirs alone and for them to only be with them as well.

Again you will never hear from me that someone shouldn’t be in love or find someone to spend their life with.
I m a total romantic and lived a lifetime with the woman of my dreams and will forever have those memories and I wish the same for everyone regardless of what they do for a living.
Everyone deserves a chance of happiness in their life without exception.

I do understand this and if there was the possibility of me to retire if I got in a serious relationship with someone, I'd gladly do it.. and thank you for clarifying.

 

[jeffmathers]

What you are describing is basically the minimum that any man should be doing in a relationship and should be easy to find.
There is one huge issue though that I would never be able to cope with and I think many wouldn’t.

How can you possibly be romantically involved with a lady who fucks other men for a living, this for me is a non starter and would never work.
While I am not the jealous type I don’t share women that I am in love with nor would I consider it “just work”.
It is not that I couldn’t fall in love with an escort, if I was 30 years younger my ATF would be in serious trouble but I could never be in a relationship if she continued to work as an escort that is a recipe for disaster.

"How can you possibly be romantically involved with a lady who fucks other men for a living, this for me is a non starter and would never work." Providers are people and having sex for money doesn't decrease their value. Their are thousands of providers in the world. In a world of 8 billion people maybe even millions. Each one of them is a human. Everyone has their preference but if someone opens up about something personal you should be respectful and not say something that might make them feel bad.

If someone says they like celery and that cooking with celery helps them remember how loving their grandma was I'm not going to type two paragraphs about how I find celery disgusting. Sometimes it's just rude to state personal preferences.

@anatomy that's just rude also. The providers in this forum are people with feelings. They aren't fictional characters to speak of like this.

 

[Fradi]

"How can you possibly be romantically involved with a lady who fucks other men for a living, this for me is a non starter and would never work." Providers are people and having sex for money doesn't decrease their value. Their are thousands of providers in the world. In a world of 8 billion people maybe even millions. Each one of them is a human. Everyone has their preference but if someone opens up about something personal you should be respectful and not say something that might make them feel bad.

If someone says they like celery and that cooking with celery helps them remember how loving their grandma was I'm not going to type two paragraphs about how I find celery disgusting. Sometimes it's just rude to state personal preferences.

@anatomy that's just rude also. The providers in this forum are people with feelings. They aren't fictional characters to speak of like this.

If you want to be a White Knight and do nothing else except agree with whatever an SP says be my guest.
The thousands that want that life style and the men that go along with it and become their life partners great if that makes them happy. I am glad for them everybody deserves to be loved and to be happy.

Having a different opinion is not shaming anyone.
This is a forum where people share different opinions and I think Luna finally understood what I was saying.
Feeling bad is not my doing they should not feel bad if they are happy and confident in what they want and what they are doing.

I am not here for the sole purpose of nodding my head in agreement to anything and everything an SP says and neither am I here to supply a never ending feel good speech.

I have an opinion which I express with respect and If everybody treated the ladies that they see the way I do there wouldn’t be a need for them to complain.

I have nothing to learn from you about women or how to treat them lol.