Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

So picking the girl up, spinning around and motor boating her tits is a no-no?

In all seriousness tho lol I think if I had been asked that question 1 or 2 years ago, the answer would have been a definite no.. But my clientele changed drastically in the past 12 months, for the better. I am a bit less ''strict'' with certain things than I was before because of that..

 

[jeffmathers]

To SPs,

Let's say you have a regular client. You run into them out in the wild and are alone (not with friends, kids, significant others). Can they say hi or come up as a friend would or hell no stay the f away?

I'm not an SP and every provider is different but I like to be safe than sorry and not acknowledge it. In 2019 one Vancouver provider that never posts their face online made a lot of posts complaining about people waving and yelling "Hey [name of provider]!"

I can see how that would feel awful around friends, family, or just not wanting to have the celebrity treatment.

 

[Rebaynia]

To SPs,

Let's say you have a regular client. You run into them out in the wild and are alone (not with friends, kids, significant others). Can they say hi or come up as a friend would or hell no stay the f away?

When I am in my own head, I am clueless about people in my surroundings. Not only might I not see them, it might take a moment to realize this is someone I should recognize. I have even walked past my own mother in the streets without recognizing someone I knew passed by.

Or

I wave and smile to strangers all the time. Some just faces I have seen for many years and never spoke to. It doesn't cost anything to offer people a genuine smile, and I have been told how it can even brightens someone's day. So if the simplest way I can make someone I don't knows day brighter, is a smile, and a "Have a lovely day." Sounds simple enough to me to get someone else to smile.

But to just come up to me if I haven't given off the impression I recognize them, or am open to conversation, could lead to awkward moments. I am used to people I don't know staring, or having polite greetings. I seem to give off a very approachable vibe, WHEN I am out of my introverted mind, I am a social butterfly.

 

[DenisZim]

Do men really find that look attractive? Someone I know just posted her photos in story calling her lips “goals” and I had to check I was fully awake and not just having a nightmare. I am sorry to this woman but she probably needs one or several visits with a psy

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Do men really find that look attractive? -Yes. She did this for a purpose. Men are definitely responsible for all these metamorphoses. Nowadays it's terribly difficult to meet a man who can charm you with his views.

 

[jeffmathers]

If there was one additional change to merb that helped providers what would you want it to be? Obviously I don't have the power to change anything and I'm not a provider but I'm imagining "What if every provider could have two personas/accounts?". For example some people want to offer gfe (because it's popular) and bdsm but they don't want their gfe branding to be affected.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Do men really find that look attractive? -Yes.

I think I can still claim that I am a man, and no, I dont find "that" attractive. Quite repulsive if you ask me, I would run away.

 

[S.S neo]

Do men really find that look attractive? -Yes. She did this for a purpose. Men are definitely responsible for all these metamorphoses. Nowadays it's terribly difficult to meet a man who can charm you with his views.

Don’t Include me in this... it only belongs to « bimbos looking for douchebags/douchebags looking for bimbos » world. Real mens do not like plastic surgery and understand that this poor women needs help. She’s not attractive at all. I can understand that some girls want to have implants because their breast never grew. But this girl is going for some freak show world record and it’s horrible.

 

[DenisZim]

I think I can still claim that I am a man, and no, I dont find "that" attractive. Quite repulsive if you ask me, I would run away.

Thank you that you a different type of man.

 

[DenisZim]

Don’t Include me in this... it only belongs to « bimbos looking for douchebags/douchebags looking for bimbos » world. Real mens do not like plastic surgery and understand that this poor women needs help. She’s not attractive at all. I can understand that some girls want to have implants because their breast never grew. But this girl is going for some freak show world record and it’s horrible.

Thank you that you a different type of man.

 

[jeffmathers]

What are some of your favorite art pieces you've seen in person? In Montreal I like a number if the paintings of the archangel Michael, the Salvador Dali chess set, and some of the Saints, Sinners, Lovers and Fools pieces like "The Mocking of Human Follies" (That exhibit ended last year). In the USA I recently saw a cactus made out of border patrol uniforms. In Vancouver 2 years ago some Bjork designed clothes were on display.

 

[LeDodo]

Not sure if I have a favorite, I'm a museum rat been to the ROM, Louvres and the ones in St Petersburg and I must admit I am fond of the St Petersburg ones.

 

[jeffmathers]

Not sure if I have a favorite, I'm a museum rat been to the ROM, Louvres and the ones in St Petersburg and I must admit I am fond of the St Petersburg ones.

Which St Petersburg? Florida or Russia?

 

[LeDodo]

Russia!

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

What are some of your favorite art pieces you've seen in person? In Montreal I like a number if the paintings of the archangel Michael, the Salvador Dali chess set, and some of the Saints, Sinners, Lovers and Fools pieces like "The Mocking of Human Follies" (That exhibit ended last year). In the USA I recently saw a cactus made out of border patrol uniforms. In Vancouver 2 years ago some Bjork designed clothes were on display.

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Downtown, between Palais des congrès and chez Toqué, there is the famous fountain "La Joute" by the artist Jean-Paul Riopelle.
When fully fonctional, with fire, fog and of course, water, it is one of my favorite piece of art ever. The effect is better when seen at night.

 

[Alucard87]

Lee Bae. A Korean charcoal artist I saw at the Phi Foundation a few years back.

 

[zuku]

My question to clients : what do you like seeing providers wear when they greet you? I know seeing an indy is not the same as meeting someone at a spa

As much as possible, "normal" but light clothes.. such as blouse and dress, or sun dress, etc.. not underwear or close to be naked already.
There's more fun in slowly unwrapping a gift and have a bit of guessing

 

[zuku]

My question to gentlemen : how long does it take you to decide to book a specific provider? I know that for example, when looking on leolist, clients are looking for something quick and easy.. But I've noticed that many clients take their time to book an indy. What determines your decision? What are some things that convince you, and what are some deal breakers for you?

Not being a frequent flyer, it can take weeks to do so.
Looking for reviews is key, I've almost been scammed on one occasion, so if I can't find reviews for an SP, I don't proceed with introductions.
Rate matters, a balance between not too cheap (scary) and not too pricey - as I'm not able to sum up hidden $$ so easily.
When there are good reviews on the general behavior and services, body features seem right, then I try to engage into conversation to see if there's a fit between services and experience desired.

I'm saying that, and on the other hand, I only had one real appointment with a good indy so far.. but that's how it worked well and cleared the other less fortunate events I had before. And this is how I'm currently processing my next windows of opportunity coming up soon.

Now, I wonder.. how different it is / would be with agencies vs indy!?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Now, I wonder.. how different it is / would be with agencies vs indy!?

Depends, what kind of appointment did you have with the indy; 1 hour, or a dinner date? Were you looking for a specific service (e.g. fetish, role play, etc.) or a simple GFE session?

 

[zuku]

Depends, what kind of appointment did you have with the indy; 1 hour, or a dinner date? Were you looking for a specific service (e.g. fetish, role play, etc.) or a simple GFE session?

Personally not for a dinner date, more of a 1hr session or so.
Prefer to build some kind of rapport with one SP over time. Even if not frequent, I feel that trust and history build for better together time when it happens. Even if it's only from my perspective/perception - as I wouldn't expect an SP to remember all of us.
A bit of role play, in the attitude and discussions, if it's to help getting the guy up.
The rest depends on the connection and available services.
Based on this, how similar or different can it be between agency and indy?
I think I kinda know/guess, but would like to get other's perspective on the subject.